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I have done it. The couple had agreed that it would happen but only the husband and I knew what and when. It took several weeks chatting with him to build trust and truly believe it was what they both wanted. It was still pretty scary when it happened but it went well. And I have met and played with them since. And done another CNC scenario as well |
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If you can be 100% sure that what you are doing is within the acceptable framework of all other parties in the group it is fine. But it is a very dangerous path to walk along, if the wife believed that your actions were not what was agreed beforehand then someone could be spending some lengthy jail time. Speaking personally that is a risk I would not be willing to take. |
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By *ockforplay66Man 10 weeks ago
Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere |
This is something I have done a few times with different people. Trust is paramount, as is the case in many roleplay scenarios. But also important is a clearly established safe word on advance. If that word is ever used, everything must stop immediately, no exceptions |
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I (Mr) have done it a few times, each one different. It takes a lot of discussion and trust to do it properly, followed by a good amount of planning. The end result is definitely worth it, especially for the lady! |
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I have done this with a girl I was seeing. Took a lot of planning and trust. She wanted two of her female mates to hold her down for me.
Not something that can be rushed into, but it’s worth the wait. |
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By *andy IanMan 10 weeks ago
cheshire/Preston |
I got chatting to a guy who told me he arranged surprise role play scenarios for his wife. She was willing to take part but wanted it to be a complete surprise and unexpected. The scenario was agreed with husband and arranged to take place in a hotel bar. |
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CNC is amazing and having done it a few times the right scene needs to be set with all parties.
Safe words must be decided and these can be at different levels, for example all stop or "I don't like that".
Aftercare is also important especially if the receiver is a sub, when they go into sub drop the aftercare needs to be good for them, ultimately there are so many variables involved. |
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It seems to be a fantasy that a lot of people want me to do with them.
As time’s gone by I’ve started to consider it. Only thing is - how do you both set boundaries beforehand? And is it worth having a written agreement?
I want to make sure it’s enjoyable for all involved, with no risk or worry to either party. How have others approached this? |
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By *renzMan 8 weeks ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I'd want to know the person/people involved very well. I'd need to be able to trust them fully before participating.
I have discussed it once previously but it never happened. |
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I have done it a few times there has to be total trust with the person you are playing with and this takes time to build
I would always use a safe word
One lady I played with thought she was ready to try it but part way into the scene I saw she was losing it so I brought everything to an end and we I spent the few hours with her in my arms sobbing as it was too much for her
The last time I had a CNC scene with some was in a pub and hotel with lots of safety precautions in place but it went off without a hitch and a great time was had by all
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"It's a fantasy of mine that's for sure.
For those who've done it before, what scenarios did you do? How do you make it safe but at the same time almost real?"
An interview in a pub with the job offer papers to be signed back at my hotel.... |
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My fwb and I have explored this kink.. and had the most incredible experience. As previously written by above.. it's all very dependant on trust and a lot planning. It opened a whole new load of fantasy situations  |
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Tried it with a married lady I was having an affair with. She usually wore the lingerie I like when we met but this night I’d given her one of my old white shirts to wear with her shirt wrap over skirt. The usual sexual passionate foreplay started with me tie ing her hands above her head. After more passionate kissing and seductive touches I tore her/my shirt open buttons flying through the air as it ripped off her. The look of sheer surprise and lust on her face was hightened when I cut her bra off with a knife. She loved it. |
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