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Me and my gf have been together for 3 years now. We are both in our 20s but sex has died down past couple years and our sex drives are completely different. She’s an amazing person and a stunner i must say but in the bedroom she’s probably horny once a week. I have dreams/ get thoughts of cheating on her with my past situationships bc sex is a necessity for me. My gf ticks every box apart from sex drive. What do you suggest? |
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Talk to her .
Ask is there anything you can do to help.
Try different things.
If that doesn't work it's time to move on as it's best for you both in the long run.
It's too easy to just keep ploughing on and then you go elsewhere and cheat,then she finds out and then it's over.
So find out what the future is going to be like by...... talking. |
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Like other people are saying, talk to her.
Me (Allen) and Marie went through a lull a few years back and I realised the reason her sex drive had fallen was through tiredness and all round fatigue.
Invest in your sex life. Even if you can’t financially, do it mentally and emotionally. I started doing more around the house, treating her more, researched how to help her squirt, bought her a few toys as surprises etc…. You reap the rewards at bed time. |
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But have you already cheated on her? You got a verification that states you have.
Why would you join a swingers site over 10 months ago? All relationships go through a lull. It can't be wham bam all the time.
Ask yourself do you want the relationship to work or is the sex more important to you; once you know the answer to that the rest will become clear.
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"Me and my gf have been together for 3 years now. We are both in our 20s but sex has died down past couple years and our sex drives are completely different. She’s an amazing person and a stunner i must say but in the bedroom she’s probably horny once a week. I have dreams/ get thoughts of cheating on her with my past situationships bc sex is a necessity for me. My gf ticks every box apart from sex drive. What do you suggest?"
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I suggest you get yourself a girlfriend so you have an understanding of how relationships work. |
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Myself and my wife have different sex drives I have a high sex drive hers has died a bit lucky if I get sex once a month
I tend to take her shopping to Ann Summers works for a bit then back to square one
I have cheated on her as much as I hate it if I don’t have sex with her most nights I have a wank watching porn online
I remove all bodily hair hoping that would turn her on but it doesn’t
I could go on and on |
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"Myself and my wife have different sex drives I have a high sex drive hers has died a bit lucky if I get sex once a month
I tend to take her shopping to Ann Summers works for a bit then back to square one
I have cheated on her as much as I hate it if I don’t have sex with her most nights I have a wank watching porn online
I remove all bodily hair hoping that would turn her on but it doesn’t
I could go on and on "
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Try asking her what she wants rather than dragging her around Ann Summers, there's more to sex (and wanting it) than a woman feeling she has to dress up like a porn star to have a rewarding intimate relationship..oh and she prefers a hairy cock, she mentioned it last time she was on the forum!  |
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