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over a year ago
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Hi all I was wondering if some of you could help me, I'm interested in trying bdsm I'm obviously new to it but was wondering if anyone has any ideas of how I can get into it and share any ideas or experiences with me on what makes a good sub and dom
Ps I'm switch and so want to play as both |
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Good evening dinkykud,
Well the first advice I have to give you is you have to find out who you is, what your preference are, there a web site that has a lot of info its called Fetlife its free to join this is your decision, though when I first started out many, many years ago and yes I am that old.
Don’t let people assume if you are Dom or Sub ot even Switch but make this discussion in your own time there is no rush, it’s a bit like Star wars when you think about it once down the dark side there is no coming back, which is true in a way but its not a dark side it’s the side of this person that’s been there all the time finally awakening and seeing the sunlight for the first time. But once you do go down this path you will never be the same as you was.
I read a lot did some research into it and read tons of stuff on the subject, but I will say this to you be careful as your new it’s like being alone in a sweet shop its can be very additive.
If you want any more info please ask me I will point you in the right direction
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well if I am honest I'd like to try both submissive and dominant roles as they are both very exciting for instance having total control of a person's body to do as I please, but on the other hand surrendering or having control taken away from me is also very much a turn on especially anal play I would particularly like to be fucked by a strap on wearing lady and love having my tight little bottom whipped |
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its when the power is given back called TPE total power exchange, its were most that have the high powered jobs need that release find it more beneficial because for that period of time its their realise I would though give you something to think about on here, if you like both parts Dom and Sub they are known as Switches never turn from being Dom to sub or vice versa in play for one it confuses the other sets them off balance. also the best about being a Switch is some say its the best of both words it may give you some peace and sanity to understand this.
Always make your intentions clear from the start I don’t know any Switches on here they haven’t made themselves known to me but if you can find one then they maybe be able to help you with some advice possible start a conversation about this.
I have some light hearted chat in the forums but on BDSM I never joke about that unless it’s with someone I know.
I don’t know where you are from but try and find a much in your local city and go, talk to others I always found years ago that talking to people at these places helps a lot because they understand what your going though.
I think possibly starting a thread off may do the trick ask people what their views are on it, if you want any other advice please feel free to ask me if I don’t know I can always find out for you.
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"I wouldn't mind meeting a dom woman, but hey, who wouldn't lol  "
their called Dommies  I would be careful though make sure you know what your getting into first because some of them maybe what your thinking and what they want may be totally different and you could be put off for life!!!  |
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