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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thinking about cheating on my wife for the first time, I know the person wouldn’t tell my wife but I’m worried the guilt will get me to and I’ll confess.
Any suggestions from people who regularly cheat? |
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"Thinking about cheating on my wife for the first time, I know the person wouldn’t tell my wife but I’m worried the guilt will get me to and I’ll confess.
Any suggestions from people who regularly cheat?"
I don't regularly cheat or cheat at all but here are my suggestions,
You can't guarantee the person won't tell your wife. If they don't you can't guarantee someone who knows you or your wife won't tell her.
Don't confess, that's you doing a bad thing knowing that you are going to hurt your wife by actually telling her you've done it, are you resentful in some way?. 
My final suggestion is don't do it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thinking about cheating on my wife for the first time, I know the person wouldn’t tell my wife but I’m worried the guilt will get me to and I’ll confess.
Any suggestions from people who regularly cheat?
I don't regularly cheat or cheat at all but here are my suggestions,
You can't guarantee the person won't tell your wife. If they don't you can't guarantee someone who knows you or your wife won't tell her.
Don't confess, that's you doing a bad thing knowing that you are going to hurt your wife by actually telling her you've done it, are you resentful in some way?.
My final suggestion is don't do it.
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Thanks for this, maybe I am resentful and should probably hold off until I am thinking straight |
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Cheating is easy living with it is hard.
And have you throught about LOVE
Do you love the person your going to cheat on?
Will you fall in love with the new person, or will they fall in love with you. |
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"Thinking about cheating on my wife for the first time, I know the person wouldn’t tell my wife but I’m worried the guilt will get me to and I’ll confess.
Any suggestions from people who regularly cheat?
I don't regularly cheat or cheat at all but here are my suggestions,
You can't guarantee the person won't tell your wife. If they don't you can't guarantee someone who knows you or your wife won't tell her.
Don't confess, that's you doing a bad thing knowing that you are going to hurt your wife by actually telling her you've done it, are you resentful in some way?.
My final suggestion is don't do it.
Thanks for this, maybe I am resentful and should probably hold off until I am thinking straight "
I think that's wise.
What are you resentful about, sex? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I'd echo what others have said ,don't do it op
Your playmate might not tell your wife ,but you may get caught other ways & is it really worth it ?.
Really think it over because it could change your life for good & hers if she does find out.
You say you're resentful, definitely cool off and think about it before making any rash decisions . |
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By *eejay2015Woman
over a year ago
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Why do you want to cheat on your partner?
If your relationship has broken down, do something to fix it or let her know and walk away from it but don't cheat on them.
Cheating definitely is not good, it's cruel and destroys everything and I say that from personal experience having had it done to me.
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"Don't do it if u love ur wife. It's not worth losing her just to fuck someone else. The grass isn't greener on the other side & u will hate urself for cheating "
exactly this. Shame not everyone feels guilty for doing so though |
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