"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
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"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
Awesome
Xx
Don't forget to book in for a full STI screening in 3 months time
And don’t forget to remove ‘safe sex’ from your profile "
Because he selected safe sex does that mean he can’t enjoy bare? Theres nothing on the selection to suggest that selecting safe means you don’t indulge in bare!
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I’m sure you’ll find a lot of guys who BB take their health more seriously than the casual who might do it occasionally and run the risks. More guys practicing BB will be on prep and get regular checkups.
Lots of chat about it on a similar sounding page . If people don’t like the topic just move on. It’s really easy. |
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"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
Awesome
Xx
Don't forget to book in for a full STI screening in 3 months time
And don’t forget to remove ‘safe sex’ from your profile
Because he selected safe sex does that mean he can’t enjoy bare? Theres nothing on the selection to suggest that selecting safe means you don’t indulge in bare!
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But only listing safe sex is misleading those who don’t wish to meet barebackers, honesty is always the best policy |
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Fair comment but not so fair about your comment re testing and std, you seem to have a bee in your bonnet about that particular issue. Last time I checked the site conditions were that we had to be adults. So as an adult I’m sure we can take whatever steps we feel relevant and necessary. |
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People also expect honesty and openness to allow them to make informed decisions, possibly expecting to meet someone who practices safe sex (as listed on their profile) only to find out after the meet that they participate in bareback |
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"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
Awesome
Xx
Don't forget to book in for a full STI screening in 3 months time
And don’t forget to remove ‘safe sex’ from your profile
Because he selected safe sex does that mean he can’t enjoy bare? Theres nothing on the selection to suggest that selecting safe means you don’t indulge in bare!
But only listing safe sex is misleading those who don’t wish to meet barebackers, honesty is always the best policy"
I presume you won’t turn down vaginal sex? Because you listed anal sex only! |
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"Vaginal or anal it wouldn’t be bareback, you’re starting to clutch at straws now"
No… no I’m not! Do you only do anal? Or did you find that there is no vaginal option? Maybe it’s a problem with the site that you can’t tick the bareback box because it doesn’t exist. Possibly the OP IS happy to do safe sex, should that be required… and has indicated that! How would he identify that without ticking the safe sex option? Are the tick box choices requirements … ie if water sports is ticked then they will only meet if water sports is going to happen? To say the OP is dishonest in ticking the safe sex box isn’t really that fair with so few options. If you use that as an indicator of whether someone does bare you are being a bit naive I think!
I’m not sure the OP was looking for interrogation of his profile when he posted his joyous news. I think he was aiming for titillation, as most are.
It appears though you are getting a bit annoyed too with your status …. Because someone chooses to tick phone sex doesn’t mean they have to have phone sex with you! |
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I think you need to read the OP’s original post where he states he’s just had and gave bareback, yet doesn’t reflect this on his profile, therefore misleading those that may want to meet him, thinking that he only participates in safe sex. You’re trying to condone people being deceitful and therefore risking peoples sexual health |
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"I think you need to read the OP’s original post where he states he’s just had and gave bareback, yet doesn’t reflect this on his profile, therefore misleading those that may want to meet him, thinking that he only participates in safe sex. You’re trying to condone people being deceitful and therefore risking peoples sexual health "
That’s where you’ve read things that are simply not there! His choice to give and receive bareback, he’s made a post stating that he’s just done it. There is no option for him to say he gives or receives bare sex. Like on your profile you can’t tick the box that states vaginal sex… it doesn’t exist!
Misleading, deceitful, risking others sexual health??? It’s for people reading and then engaging to ascertain whether they would like to meet and fuck him and I’m sure further conversation regarding whether protection will be used or not. Your assumptions that ‘safe sex’ option is ‘only safe sex’ is misguided.
I’ll pop back to check but im pretty sure your bare cock is in some mouths on your profile … is this the ‘safe sex’ you adhere to?
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"I think you need to read the OP’s original post where he states he’s just had and gave bareback, yet doesn’t reflect this on his profile, therefore misleading those that may want to meet him, thinking that he only participates in safe sex. You’re trying to condone people being deceitful and therefore risking peoples sexual health
That’s where you’ve read things that are simply not there! His choice to give and receive bareback, he’s made a post stating that he’s just done it. There is no option for him to say he gives or receives bare sex. Like on your profile you can’t tick the box that states vaginal sex… it doesn’t exist!
Misleading, deceitful, risking others sexual health??? It’s for people reading and then engaging to ascertain whether they would like to meet and fuck him and I’m sure further conversation regarding whether protection will be used or not. Your assumptions that ‘safe sex’ option is ‘only safe sex’ is misguided.
I’ll pop back to check but im pretty sure your bare cock is in some mouths on your profile … is this the ‘safe sex’ you adhere to?
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"People also expect honesty and openness to allow them to make informed decisions, possibly expecting to meet someone who practices safe sex (as listed on their profile) only to find out after the meet that they participate in bareback"
Would that matter if a condom was used |
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"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
Awesome
Xx
Don't forget to book in for a full STI screening in 3 months time
And don’t forget to remove ‘safe sex’ from your profile
Because he selected safe sex does that mean he can’t enjoy bare? Theres nothing on the selection to suggest that selecting safe means you don’t indulge in bare!
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That's a very poor argument! Once someone has barebacked they're no longer safe and it isn't really wise to advertise as if you are. |
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It's a good point...
If the site offered a Bareback checkbox option you could tick, safe, BB, or both...
This would show preferences clearer and also give you the option to avoid those who do BB and minimise your risks as you prefer... |
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By *ill37Man
over a year ago
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Regardless of options on site should always discuss the boundaries then it’s clear also if an individual or couple don’t share your thoughts move on why critasie there choices it’s there’s not yours
Is there such a massive difference with oral sex and penatrive sex still a transfer of bodily fluids
You may give blowjobs using a condom but what about tonguing a pussy (sorry if choice of words offends ) what do you use |
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"Just back from yng guys flat where I both have and received bareback
Awesome
Xx
Don't forget to book in for a full STI screening in 3 months time
And don’t forget to remove ‘safe sex’ from your profile
Because he selected safe sex does that mean he can’t enjoy bare? Theres nothing on the selection to suggest that selecting safe means you don’t indulge in bare!
That's a very poor argument! Once someone has barebacked they're no longer safe and it isn't really wise to advertise as if you are."
Once someone has barebacked they’re no longer safe???? Qualify that nonsense statement!
If you have safe sex with someone who has bare sex … is there a difference? The only difference I can see is that if your choice of barrier fails… in which case the same barrier could fail having sex with someone who only does safe!
Regardless the OP has no option to identify in their profile listing that they do bare! The OP appears though, at the time of writing, to be open to safe sex!
The knee jerk aim to vilify the OP has clearly identified the respondents naivety to tick boxes here.
As for a poor argument…. Jeez!
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"It's a good point...
If the site offered a Bareback checkbox option you could tick, safe, BB, or both...
This would show preferences clearer and also give you the option to avoid those who do BB and minimise your risks as you prefer... "
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