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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you have to get to no the person first , feel comfortable with them and trust them, make sure they no what your happy with nd what your not. have a safe word so if they do something you dont like or you have had enough yout can say it and they will stop. start with just a bit of blindfolind or just tie your hands down loosely then wen you comfotable you can go futher
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In addition to the advice already given I would say it's important to define what being a good submissive means to you and then it's important to find a compatible dominant. Work out your limits, discuss them beforehand and stick to any that are hard limits. Redefining limits should be doine in the cold light of day IMO not in the heat of the moment 
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"how do i overcome my fears to be a good submissive. Being held down and restrained without fighting and complaining"
Submission and domination are never givens.
They are role assumptions only where you have to earn respect.
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