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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really like this married colleague of mine and I'm sure she fancies me but not sure how to tell if I can make a move without risking our work relationship if I'm getting things wrong, I'd love some advise from married women who fancies guys they work with! |
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So I was in this situation, now we are fucking and she loves being on my cock. Plus I’ve done it before…
The key is to try and get her alone which can be hard in a work environment. The first one we had a meeting off site alone so that aided me and the second I met on a Saturday in town. Whatever you do please don’t be in appropriate in the workplace.
And you have to actually be bold but not creepy and put it out there that you fancy her whilst trying to be respectful. |
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Some simple but sincere compliments would be absolutely fine and not creepy. You’re hair looks amazing today, what’s that perfume you’re wearing, you smell great!
If she’s interested I’m sure she’ll do the rest x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some simple but sincere compliments would be absolutely fine and not creepy. You’re hair looks amazing today, what’s that perfume you’re wearing, you smell great!
If she’s interested I’m sure she’ll do the rest x"
Yes, I have done some of the above, we message on IG as well, she smiles when she sees me in the office and sometimes make an excuse to come to the kitchen to make coffee while I'm making one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some simple but sincere compliments would be absolutely fine and not creepy. You’re hair looks amazing today, what’s that perfume you’re wearing, you smell great!
If she’s interested I’m sure she’ll do the rest x
Yes, I have done some of the above, we message on IG as well, she smiles when she sees me in the office and sometimes make an excuse to come to the kitchen to make coffee while I'm making one."
It all sounds very positive for you, there are signs she could be interested.
Does she ever talk about her partner 8n a bad way or praise him.
It's really difficult to push that little bit harder.
Are you able to take lunch together or a drink after work?
Sometimes some flirty banter may get you somewhere?
I've had a relationship with a married woman at work it's quite something. |
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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago
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If you’ve already tried compliments, suggestive chat, flirting and she still seams interested I thing it’s time you asked her out for a drink or simple admitted she was starting to turn you on and should either cool it or if she wanted move it on to the next stage.
I’ve had several relationships with work colleagues but only two who were married. One we had full sex the other she wouldn’t be unfaithful by having g full sex but e joyed kissing, touching and oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you’ve already tried compliments, suggestive chat, flirting and she still seams interested I thing it’s time you asked her out for a drink or simple admitted she was starting to turn you on and should either cool it or if she wanted move it on to the next stage.
I’ve had several relationships with work colleagues but only two who were married. One we had full sex the other she wouldn’t be unfaithful by having g full sex but e joyed kissing, touching and oral"
I'm with you randy, it's difficult to go further sometimes as others have intimated above |
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It’s never straight forward. I got back with an ex who is married and she told her husband when d*unk. It got messy and she ended up staying as financially she’d lose everything. I think she will keep having affairs. Hope she’s not called Becky |
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