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Our Journey into swinging and me becoming a BBC lover !
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We then started to visit other BMFC venues, namely Arousals / Eurekas and made some great friends.
We also, started arranging private meets with black guys. Hotels or at their places, always with hubby in attendance and armed with his camera
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Anyway, over the next few years. More clubs / more private meets and a few more greedy girl nights chucked in for good measure.
We sort of drifted away from meeting couples, we did have two trips to Blackpool. Trip one was to meet a single girl, we arranged to meet in the pub and then went to our hotel room. Everyone had a great night, I had my first girl on girl experience and hubby fucked her a few times BUT she turned really weird after the meeting and we since found out she was married and was on holiday with her hubby and he didn’t know she was meeting anyone !!
Our other trip to Blackpool, was a weekend away arranged by Helen. BMFC had taken over a couple of hotels for the weekend, so we went back up there for that. It was a great weekend and we meet some lovely people
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Now days, we try to attend as many parties as we can.
The question I get asked most, mainly from single white guys that message my special account is....
Why black guys only !
Well, as I’ve said already. I love the black on white colour contrast when playing, it really does turn me on. I find that black guys are mostly very polite and do also talk to us as a couple, not just me and ignore hubby. Plus, yes cock size is a bonus but that’s not the be all and end all of why I play with them BUT mostly, it’s because it’s what I want
That said, we are now also leaning to wanting to play with more couples (obviously after COVID)
Probably more soft swap at the moment but you never know what may happen on the night
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So, that’s a brief rundown of how we got started and where we are today 
I will add, that if you are a couple and you are just starting your Journey into the world of swinging. The most important things to remember are to TALK everything though with your partner, set rules and don’t break them.
Don’t feel pressured to do anything you are not happy doing, not by your partner or the people you are meeting.
TRUST is important, if you haven’t got that, then this may not be the life so for you !!
Above all, it’s meant to be fun. If you’re not enjoying it, then don’t do it
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) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.
In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.
I don't know about the other readers but I would be most interested to hear from either or both of you (assuming you're willing to share further) how Mrs Just's experiences with black guys materially differed from sessions with white blokes? For instance, when there was a significant size difference, intensity of orgasm or assertiveness/dominance?
Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.
"Great story and helpful info for lots of people." | |||
"I was just going to say the same thing. It was good of you Mrs & Mr Just to share your experiences. The manner in which your journey, if I can use that word, was told above was most refreshing as it is from the female perspective and avoids all the "uh uh oooh", " oh fuck oh fuck" and "aaaaaaagggghhhhsss" (though I'm sure a very lucky fly on the wall - & Mr Just - would have heard plenty of those ) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.
In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.
I don't know about the other readers but I would be most interested to hear from either or both of you (assuming you're willing to share further) how Mrs Just's experiences with black guys materially differed from sessions with white blokes? For instance, when there was a significant size difference, intensity of orgasm or assertiveness/dominance?
Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.
Great story and helpful info for lots of people. "Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there. It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys. I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys. I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on. I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more. I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting?? As I say, is difficult to explain. | |||
"Great story and helpful info for lots of people." I’m glad you liked it and if it does help others, even better | |||
I will still maintain my single profile and will continue to meet some of my “special” friends when time allows.
Xx | |||
"I was just going to say the same thing. It was good of you Mrs & Mr Just to share your experiences. The manner in which your journey, if I can use that word, was told above was most refreshing as it is from the female perspective and avoids all the "uh uh oooh", " oh fuck oh fuck" and "aaaaaaagggghhhhsss" (though I'm sure a very lucky fly on the wall - & Mr Just - would have heard plenty of those ) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.
In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.
I don't know about the other readers but I would be most interested to hear from either or both of you (assuming you're willing to share further) how Mrs Just's experiences with black guys materially differed from sessions with white blokes? For instance, when there was a significant size difference, intensity of orgasm or assertiveness/dominance?
Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.
Great story and helpful info for lots of people.
Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there.
It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys.
I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys.
I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on.
I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys
They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more.
I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting??
As I say, is difficult to explain.
"Many thanks for your reply Mrs Just. The points you made about the similarly endowed or equally unsatisfactory white/black lovers you've had, is well made. I think I understand what you mean and it goes to show that the most erogenous zone in a woman's body, which has soo many, is the one between her ears. We can't see inside the cranium, probably a good thing really  so I'll just continue to enjoy the visible outer parts of a woman's body coz us simple fellas are all about the visual. This might in some way explain why Mr Just really enjoys seeing you being satisfied... more than satisfied usually.. by your black lovers and why lots of guys (or so I'm told  ) like seeing white ladies being looked after by black guys.
Note to self: better do some more.. ah.. research... yeah that's the word... better do some more of that one handed research on the Interweb & add your profiles to my Fab Hotlist in case some. hot pics or vids find there way into your public gallery.
Thanks again
Arnie xx  | |||
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"I was just going to say the same thing. It was good of you Mrs & Mr Just to share your experiences. The manner in which your journey, if I can use that word, was told above was most refreshing as it is from the female perspective and avoids all the "uh uh oooh", " oh fuck oh fuck" and "aaaaaaagggghhhhsss" (though I'm sure a very lucky fly on the wall - & Mr Just - would have heard plenty of those ) that I usually see in erotic stories, which are also enjoyable in their own right; the good ones.
In any relationship,as you have correctly stressed,trust is important and your experiences show that commuication is also a crucial part of it being successful and enjoyable for all involved.
I don't know about the other readers but I would be most interested to hear from either or both of you (assuming you're willing to share further) how Mrs Just's experiences with black guys materially differed from sessions with white blokes? For instance, when there was a significant size difference, intensity of orgasm or assertiveness/dominance?
Thank you again for your story, it was most enlghtening and enjoyable.
Great story and helpful info for lots of people.
Thank you for the feed back, it was a cut down view of how we got where we are today but the main points are in there.
It’s difficult to put in to writing, the difference I personally feel about White guys V Black guys.
I have been with some great white guys and some that I’d never want to play with again, the same can be said about black guys.
I love looking at black skin when it’s laying next to or on top of me, it really does turn me on.
I’ve had VWE white guys and black guys but I enjoy the naughtiness of playing with black guys
They both hit the same spots within me but I just enjoy Black guys more.
I have a white hubby and we have great sex, it could well be that playing with black guys subconsciously means going against the grain thus makes it a bit taboo and that’s what makes it exciting??
As I say, is difficult to explain.
Many thanks for your reply Mrs Just. The points you made about the similarly endowed or equally unsatisfactory white/black lovers you've had, is well made.
I think I understand what you mean and it goes to show that the most erogenous zone in a woman's body, which has soo many, is the one between her ears.
We can't see inside the cranium, probably a good thing really so I'll just continue to enjoy the visible outer parts of a woman's body coz us simple fellas are all about the visual. This might in some way explain why Mr Just really enjoys seeing you being satisfied... more than satisfied usually.. by your black lovers and why lots of guys (or so I'm told ) like seeing white ladies being looked after by black guys.
Note to self: better do some more.. ah.. research... yeah that's the word... better do some more of that one handed research on the Interweb & add your profiles to my Fab Hotlist in case some. hot pics or vids find there way into your public gallery.
Thanks again
Arnie xx " | |||
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"Thanks for sharing guys, we have just started down the same path as you guys and are loving every minute. Xx" Enjoy | |||
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"Did you try the pool Helens daughter is a fire cracker "I assume you mean the pool at Abfabs ? Yes, we used to spend a lot of time in there. Met Helen’s daughter a few times | |||
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"We are often asked if we are a cuck couple and find ourselves explaining not, now realise we are also a Stag and Vixen couple x " Glad to have helped
Xxxx | |||
