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Help getting wife over final hurdle.
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I have tried to write this as its happened and is a true reflection of events. I'm now stuck and need advice to get her to the next step.
Wife : I think you're right about him at work.
Me : Yeah of course I am.
Wife : I'll have to stop taking his gift.i hadn't thought about it properly.
Me : You could always give him what he wants haha.
Wife :Only you think that, but he won't be getting it and you won't have your silly fantasy played out
Me : Poor guy he's given you loads of gifts and gets nothing back.
Wife : I'm his manager apart from the fact it wouldn't be right im a happily married woman.
Me : Just cause your happily married doesn't mean you can't have a bit of adult fun.
Wife : OK JUST STOP ITS NOT HAPPENING.
Me : Chill woman, you're the one taking his gifts, what did you think it ment.
Wife : I think he is just been nice. He is a nice man..... and not like that, I hadn't thought of it like that until you said.
Me : Your not that niave I know.
Wife :Well obviously I am. Or is it just cause you have been going on about this, that I’m now looking at it the same way as you and it is just the kind gesture I thought it was in the beginning.
Me :Ask him if he wants anything for the gifts.
Wife :That would be like saying my husband thinks you want to fuck me. But I think you're just been nice..... weird if nothing else
Me : So what are you going to do.
Wife : Nothing I guess.
Me : So just keep taking his gifts and leading him on.
Wife : No I'm not leading him on at all. I've not once done anything to give him any signals.
Me : Your short dresses and low cut tops which just about hold your tits in, are enough.
Wife :You haven't complained before.
Me : I'm not complaining.
Wife : I should be able to dress how I like and not have have to worry about men getting ideas, besides there is better looking girls with much more reveiling dresses and tops than me in the office and no other bloke has done this whilst I've worked there and I always wear similar clothing
Me : But does he buy them gifts haha
Wife : Sod off.
A few hours later
Wife : Im going to have to speak to him and say I don't need the gifts, it is very nice but its not required.
Me : Okay up to you but how many gifts has he gave you.
Wife I'm not sure really god knows how many boxes of chocolates flowers & wine I've had, and he replaced my earrings when I lost one in office but that doesn't mean I have to give him anything....Or I could buy him a bottle of something I guess.....
Your loving this.
Me : Yeah I am, you know I'd love you to have sex with another man and I think this whole thing could be the start of it if you play your cards right.
Wife: Look I don't want to play my cards right. We are married and to me that is to stay faithful.
Me :Its not cheating as I will know all about it.
Wife : NO its not going to happen. Especially as I work with him and if word got out it would be the end of my career.
Me : You said that happens all the time with people at work shagging each other.
Wife : Well not me.
A week later
I receive a picture message. A box of chocolates with the words another gift from him.
Me : At least it's only chocolates this time. have you spoke to him yet.
Wife : No. I will later.
At home on the evening.
My wife got home around 2030 ish I knew she had been working late night to supervise some office works. I had made her a bit of supper and we sat at the table as she ate it. She told me she had managed to speak to him but it had not gone as she had thought it would.
She had told him his gifts were very nice and that she really appreciated them but he didn't need to buy her them.
He had said he was saying thank you to her for the amount of help she gives him in work as without her he probably would of been sacked a long time ago. She had told him it was her job but he had stopped her and said that other managers had not helped him in the past. He said he would like to give her more than the silly little gifts he had already gave her and suggested he could take her for a meal. She had stuttered and said she will ask if I mind.
He asked her if I know about the gifts and she said I did. He said if I didn't mind that then surly I won't mind her having a meal out with him.
Wife : What do I do now.
Me : Go for meal and see what happens.
Wife : No that would send the wrong message out.
Me : Only wrong message if you don't
Wife : SHUT UP I'M NOT SHAGGING ANYONE ELSE.
Me: So back to square one. Lots of gifts and no rewards for him. He has tried so hard.
Wife : According to you. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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If you really want to water this seed of an idea, back off a little, next time you begin getting a bit playful in bed, hold back a bit use your fingers, talk again about it once shes getting close, tell her it's just a fantasy idea, tell her a story involving him as you play with her, make it her fantasy too, let her cum hard while associating it with him.  |
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By *4pu55yMan
over a year ago
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"I have tried to write this as its happened and is a true reflection of events. I'm now stuck and need advice to get her to the next step.
Wife : I think you're right about him at work.
Me : Yeah of course I am.
Wife : I'll have to stop taking his gift.i hadn't thought about it properly.
Me : You could always give him what he wants haha.
Wife :Only you think that, but he won't be getting it and you won't have your silly fantasy played out
Me : Poor guy he's given you loads of gifts and gets nothing back.
Wife : I'm his manager apart from the fact it wouldn't be right im a happily married woman.
Me : Just cause your happily married doesn't mean you can't have a bit of adult fun.
Wife : OK JUST STOP ITS NOT HAPPENING.
Me : Chill woman, you're the one taking his gifts, what did you think it ment.
Wife : I think he is just been nice. He is a nice man..... and not like that, I hadn't thought of it like that until you said.
Me : Your not that niave I know.
Wife :Well obviously I am. Or is it just cause you have been going on about this, that I’m now looking at it the same way as you and it is just the kind gesture I thought it was in the beginning.
Me :Ask him if he wants anything for the gifts.
Wife :That would be like saying my husband thinks you want to fuck me. But I think you're just been nice..... weird if nothing else
Me : So what are you going to do.
Wife : Nothing I guess.
Me : So just keep taking his gifts and leading him on.
Wife : No I'm not leading him on at all. I've not once done anything to give him any signals.
Me : Your short dresses and low cut tops which just about hold your tits in, are enough.
Wife :You haven't complained before.
Me : I'm not complaining.
Wife : I should be able to dress how I like and not have have to worry about men getting ideas, besides there is better looking girls with much more reveiling dresses and tops than me in the office and no other bloke has done this whilst I've worked there and I always wear similar clothing
Me : But does he buy them gifts haha
Wife : Sod off.
A few hours later
Wife : Im going to have to speak to him and say I don't need the gifts, it is very nice but its not required.
Me : Okay up to you but how many gifts has he gave you.
Wife I'm not sure really god knows how many boxes of chocolates flowers & wine I've had, and he replaced my earrings when I lost one in office but that doesn't mean I have to give him anything....Or I could buy him a bottle of something I guess.....
Your loving this.
Me : Yeah I am, you know I'd love you to have sex with another man and I think this whole thing could be the start of it if you play your cards right.
Wife: Look I don't want to play my cards right. We are married and to me that is to stay faithful.
Me :Its not cheating as I will know all about it.
Wife : NO its not going to happen. Especially as I work with him and if word got out it would be the end of my career.
Me : You said that happens all the time with people at work shagging each other.
Wife : Well not me.
A week later
I receive a picture message. A box of chocolates with the words another gift from him.
Me : At least it's only chocolates this time. have you spoke to him yet.
Wife : No. I will later.
At home on the evening.
My wife got home around 2030 ish I knew she had been working late night to supervise some office works. I had made her a bit of supper and we sat at the table as she ate it. She told me she had managed to speak to him but it had not gone as she had thought it would.
She had told him his gifts were very nice and that she really appreciated them but he didn't need to buy her them.
He had said he was saying thank you to her for the amount of help she gives him in work as without her he probably would of been sacked a long time ago. She had told him it was her job but he had stopped her and said that other managers had not helped him in the past. He said he would like to give her more than the silly little gifts he had already gave her and suggested he could take her for a meal. She had stuttered and said she will ask if I mind.
He asked her if I know about the gifts and she said I did. He said if I didn't mind that then surly I won't mind her having a meal out with him.
Wife : What do I do now.
Me : Go for meal and see what happens.
Wife : No that would send the wrong message out.
Me : Only wrong message if you don't
Wife : SHUT UP I'M NOT SHAGGING ANYONE ELSE.
Me: So back to square one. Lots of gifts and no rewards for him. He has tried so hard.
Wife : According to you."
Be careful what you wish for mate, read this story...
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In my experience you're making the mistake of communicating with the part of her that's telling her to be a sensible dutiful wife. You need to be communicating with her body. Words won't turn her onto the idea. Just role play it out. Buy her some gifts and take her on a date and... Woo her.. But don't give her any sex, make her want it.. See how she crosses that line with you... Train her where the line is.. Take her there... |
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"In my experience you're making the mistake of communicating with the part of her that's telling her to be a sensible dutiful wife. You need to be communicating with her body. Words won't turn her onto the idea. Just role play it out. Buy her some gifts and take her on a date and... Woo her.. But don't give her any sex, make her want it.. See how she crosses that line with you... Train her where the line is.. Take her there... "
Thanks for the idea I will give this ago, this is something that I can work on during lockdown and hopefully when out she will be ready to try it.
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