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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following on from the Sex for Money thread and with a little gentle encouragement from Irish, I decided to write about my experiences of being paid for sex.
So there i was one day....
Curious as to what was next in life for me. I had heard talk of sugar daddy websites and always laughed it off, but curious as to what they were really all about.
Anyway I decided I would make a profile one day, afterall what was the harm right? I didn't really know what to expect but before I knew it men were offering me all sorts of money, gifts, holidays in exchange for sex and believe it or not to talk and say thinga they couldn't normally talk about with significant others or family.
I have always been attracted to an older man so I thought surely this can't be this easy! I must stress this is my own opinion. Some people struggle mentally with "selling yourself" so I spent some time getting familiar with the site and getting to know what was out there.....
Then the day came to meet my first client. He had travelled from south of the border for our meet. I was pretty flattered, again i was thinking I'm just going to meet a guy and I'll find him attractive anyway? Although there were nerves, what if I didn't live upto expectations.
So there I was putting on my makeup, doing my hair and slipping into some sexy lingerie. One tip I would give if you are dating or have a married client, tone down on the perfume ladies. I felt good and i looked good.
The taxi journey to the hotel was nerve wracking, but once I got there and he kissed me i was fine.....I had great sex and got paid for it? I remember sitting in the hotel room alone afterwards thinking surely this isn't as simple as it seems. I mean I just made the easiest money of my life. I didn't feel used afterwards it was always a concern I guess but i felt super empowered and so damn sexy in my own body. I called a close friend who I had confided in as safety is a major part in any meet paid or not. I had a phone tracker app and safe words set up incase i needed help... Thankfully in the years I escorted I never needed to....
Would you like to hear more?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the encouragement xx
Part 2
Being sensible and trusting your gut is essential. Soon I got some other clients. A couple of them became regular and I was making enough money to survive and thrive may i add.
I'm not saying its all a fairytale , its not. You get timewasters, you get mean people, you get nasty men wanting vunerable women but you also get great men who are maybe lonely, Professionals who want company but not a relationship or maybe a married client with a kink they want to explore....
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Part 3 and the last part for the time being, but I may be persuaded to write some more.
It was so empowering being able to pick my clients and satisfying their every desire. Especially being a girl with a lot of self doubt. I began loving my body and feeling more confident in myself.
Of course not everyone will feel that way but I sure did. There was something incredibly sexy about a man going weak at the knees for you, giving you anything you wanted at times.
I escorted for a few years and I enjoyed every second of it but every good thing comes to an end and now I'm back to what's my next chapter. All I have to say is what a chapter that was, I lived a life of luxury, best hotels, best restaurants, nights out anytime I wanted, endless shopping and gifts. All for doing something i loved, very minimal people know about my sugarbaby life and I still find that such a turn on. My very own dirty little secret
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