Seems many short term holiday makers are looking for 'Swingers Venues' at their holiday resort of choice. We meet couples socially first, in a bar or on the beach and if we click we have several options open for playing. Like our home, their apartment or hotel room or on a quiet beach. It has been thus for many years. Is a 'Swingers Venue' actually hedging your bets against being stood up? Disappointment at who turns up? Having a greater choice of partners on the night? Or to save having to bother to make contact with anyone?
IMHO you generally met better quality swingers before the advent of computers. People who were happy to exchange letters and photos by snail mail and who both knew what they wanted and were both happy to play.
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" Is a 'Swingers Venue' actually hedging your bets against being stood up? Disappointment at who turns up? Having a greater choice of partners on the night? Or to save having to bother to make contact with anyone?
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1. Yes because when we used to do private meets it happened quite a few times.
2. Yes again because we were disappointed many times.
3. Yes and it also gives the option of multiple partners on the night.
4. No. We are quite happy to make contact first but meeting in a club gets rid of problems one and two and still gives us the option of number three. |
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"Seems many short term holiday makers are looking for 'Swingers Venues' at their holiday resort of choice. We meet couples socially first, in a bar or on the beach and if we click we have several options open for playing. Like our home, their apartment or hotel room or on a quiet beach. It has been thus for many years. Is a 'Swingers Venue' actually hedging your bets against being stood up? Disappointment at who turns up? Having a greater choice of partners on the night? Or to save having to bother to make contact with anyone?
IMHO you generally met better quality swingers before the advent of computers. People who were happy to exchange letters and photos by snail mail and who both knew what they wanted and were both happy to play.
I think it cut out a lot of the dreamers! "
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Quality over quantity every time for us, which often leads to very long, mutually rewarding and satisfying friendships.
Truly open-minded people rarely have pages of stipulations and requirements. |
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"Seems many short term holiday makers are looking for 'Swingers Venues' at their holiday resort of choice. We meet couples socially first, in a bar or on the beach and if we click we have several options open for playing. Like our home, their apartment or hotel room or on a quiet beach. It has been thus for many years. Is a 'Swingers Venue' actually hedging your bets against being stood up? Disappointment at who turns up? Having a greater choice of partners on the night? Or to save having to bother to make contact with anyone?
IMHO you generally met better quality swingers before the advent of computers. People who were happy to exchange letters and photos by snail mail and who both knew what they wanted and were both happy to play.
I think it cut out a lot of the dreamers! "
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