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By *iveaday OP Couple
over a year ago
Anywhere |
The club's in PDI are so quiet at the moment. We know it's that time of the year, just before things start to get busy. But got 8 of us going to 2x2 tonight. Be great if more people joined us and had a busy night together all in one place. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"The club's in PDI are so quiet at the moment. We know it's that time of the year, just before things start to get busy. But got 8 of us going to 2x2 tonight. Be great if more people joined us and had a busy night together all in one place."
Love 2x2! Nudie night as well, have fun!  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thankfully 2x2 was great last night. Chris is back from his holiday. Our faith as been restored."
I'm glad to hear that. When we were there in March, Chris wasn't there very much and the atmosphere was c**p, we had almost decided not to return, but we're going to give it one more go in October. What other clubs do you recommend, other than 2x2? |
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By *iveaday OP Couple
over a year ago
Anywhere |
"Thankfully 2x2 was great last night. Chris is back from his holiday. Our faith as been restored.
I'm glad to hear that. When we were there in March, Chris wasn't there very much and the atmosphere was c**p, we had almost decided not to return, but we're going to give it one more go in October. What other clubs do you recommend, other than 2x2? "
Sorry, we are 2x2 addicts. We try the other clubs but just for a change. The trouble is when Chris is away its not the same place. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thankfully 2x2 was great last night. Chris is back from his holiday. Our faith as been restored.
I'm glad to hear that. When we were there in March, Chris wasn't there very much and the atmosphere was c**p, we had almost decided not to return, but we're going to give it one more go in October. What other clubs do you recommend, other than 2x2?
Sorry, we are 2x2 addicts. We try the other clubs but just for a change. The trouble is when Chris is away its not the same place."
we are 2x2 addicts too and so have not been to other clubs, but you're right, not the same without Chris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secrets is good in the Cita.We spent some time there in June and it's a good alternative to 2x2.We will be mixing both clubs when we go back in October. |
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By *iveaday OP Couple
over a year ago
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"went to the 2by2 last night rubbish"
Strange, wasn't as busy as naked night on Thursday. We had reasonable last night, left at 3am. Didn't realize we wasted 4 hours in a rubbish club. But everyone has their own opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"went to the 2by2 last night rubbish
Strange, wasn't as busy as naked night on Thursday. We had reasonable last night, left at 3am. Didn't realize we wasted 4 hours in a rubbish club. But everyone has their own opinions."
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"went to the 2by2 last night rubbish
Strange, wasn't as busy as naked night on Thursday. We had reasonable last night, left at 3am. Didn't realize we wasted 4 hours in a rubbish club. But everyone has their own opinions."
Yes we've found nude night is always busiest night |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Secrets is good in the Cita.We spent some time there in June and it's a good alternative to 2x2.We will be mixing both clubs when we go back in October. "
Might give this a try in October |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Interesting to hear people's opinions. Yes it does depend who is there and people do move about in groups to different clubs. In March, we had more bad nights than good in 2x2. There was just something lacking and its hard to put your finger on it. Will give it another go and see what happens, but can see us moving on to another club. Appreciate all your views! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arrive a week on Thursday. Book into la mirage, shower, ready and straight out to nude night in 2x2. Can't wait. We didn't try nude night in June. Every other night was great. We love this club now after initially steering clear. 5th time now in gc. Getting to be regulars now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi,
We are off to PDI in November for the first time as swingers and we can't wait! However there is one slight cloud on our horizon and I wondered if you guys who have been recently could advise? We"ve read here on the forum that the clubs can let lots of single men in that do not like taking no for an answer and also do not understand the basic rules of the game? Is this true please and if so which clubs should we avoid? Its not that we are shy or anything but we are fairly new to the scene and this unwanted attention is not for us at the moment.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Hi,
We are off to PDI in November for the first time as swingers and we can't wait! However there is one slight cloud on our horizon and I wondered if you guys who have been recently could advise? We"ve read here on the forum that the clubs can let lots of single men in that do not like taking no for an answer and also do not understand the basic rules of the game? Is this true please and if so which clubs should we avoid? Its not that we are shy or anything but we are fairly new to the scene and this unwanted attention is not for us at the moment.
Xx "
To my knowledge, all clubs let in a limited amount of single guys in and most will be respectful. If you have any problems, talk to the owners and hopefully they will sort it out. Just to add 2x2 on a Monday is couples only. Have fun and don't worry about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't really have a favourite club as it all depends on the music...the atmosphere and the people in there at the time
We like them all for different reasons
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secrets have a couples only area. No single men allowed in the area unless invited and the owner polices it well. We had 6 around us one night and the owner chased the lot of them. 2x2 has a room which can be locked from the inside. Quite small but big enuf for what u have planned. We where too pissed to remember eternity lol. |
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"Hi,
We are off to PDI in November for the first time as swingers and we can't wait! However there is one slight cloud on our horizon and I wondered if you guys who have been recently could advise? We"ve read here on the forum that the clubs can let lots of single men in that do not like taking no for an answer and also do not understand the basic rules of the game? Is this true please and if so which clubs should we avoid? Its not that we are shy or anything but we are fairly new to the scene and this unwanted attention is not for us at the moment.
Xx "
As a single male the clubs won't tolerate couples being pestered, all clubs there limit the numbers on any night and if guys screw up and are asked to leave you won't be allowed back.
Of course you will get guys trying to groupe you as you play as you will with couples in close proximity but just say no to them.
It is difficult to stop if your in the back rooms say in 2x2 and see Chris at the time but after just let him know who is being a prat.
This is why I like fun4all, Richard and Angie although they don't play always keep an eye out for unwanted pest.
In general clubs are safe from dickheads, the dunes, well now there is a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been to PdI.on a number of occasions and the more experience you get
You will find it easier to deal with unwanted attention.Sometimes a polite not
interested is good enough or on occasions
you might have to be a little more rude. |
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"Interesting to hear people's opinions. Yes it does depend who is there and people do move about in groups to different clubs. In March, we had more bad nights than good in 2x2. There was just something lacking and its hard to put your finger on it. Will give it another go and see what happens, but can see us moving on to another club. Appreciate all your views! "
the thing that was lacking was realy good company, we went to a cpl of clubs didnt take much notice of what was going on around us as we were having a great time simply because we were in fantastic company x |
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Hey
We've never been to a club before (we've been to a few parties and met single ladies before). Would anyone be willing to show us the ropes?
Not saying we will play but jus don't want to go alone. We are in pdi until Saturday
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your help and advice. Like I said we are not shy or insecure and we enjoy the company of others when playing....the wife loves a goodd thumble but it's just some of the stories on here portray an image of larger louts having a laugh at your expence, which is not what we are looking for. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks for all your help and advice. Like I said we are not shy or insecure and we enjoy the company of others when playing....the wife loves a goodd thumble but it's just some of the stories on here portray an image of larger louts having a laugh at your expence, which is not what we are looking for. "
Gosh, never experienced that in 2x2, not seen lager louts and I don't think Chris would tolerate that. As they say, Secrets has a couple's only area, so maybe try there, have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to Gran Canaria last year, didn't go to 2x2 because of stories we heard about single males and thats not our thing ,we did try and go and whilst walking towards club was asked if we were going by single males in street, so we turned round. did mainly go to fun 4all and secrets which were fab that bieng said we are back this October and will be going to 2x2 on couples night and see what the club is like.
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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago
Zurich. NOT London. |
"We went to Gran Canaria last year, didn't go to 2x2 because of stories we heard about single males and thats not our thing ,we did try and go and whilst walking towards club was asked if we were going by single males in street, so we turned round. did mainly go to fun 4all and secrets which were fab that bieng said we are back this October and will be going to 2x2 on couples night and see what the club is like.
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I had a similar experience, but persevered to make it through the (very) rude & abusive locals into the club, to have single males wanking at me, in very close proximity, before I had even made it to the bar. I'll stick with the clubs in Cita or Eternity, I'm not running that gauntlet again, it was horrible. |
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By *anbrCouple
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
We did have a problem there last November. An older,local man put his hands between Caz's legs from behind,without invitation whilst we were at the swing with another couple. I told him no but less than 10mins later he did it again. Spoiled our night. Also constantly get guys trying the doors of the playrooms whilst in having fun.
Not our favourite place but we always pay a visit on couples night.
Never, ever had an issue going to or from the club though. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Think it's fair to say, we have all had different experiences, good and bad, in different clubs. Our negative experience, albeit a couple of years ago, was in fun4 all, where we were in the large room with a couple and 3 single lads barged in 3 times. Management didn't want to know, hence, we don't go in there anymore. I would urge anyone in 2x2 to report any of these problems to the team in there, no one should have to put up with that and I'm sure they don't want to lose your custom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately some of these single
men think it is ok.to intimidate cpls.
Sometimes you might let things go.
Other times you might have to tell them
to go f- themselves.or words to that effect.They seem to understand that better than being nice. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Unfortunately some of these single
men think it is ok.to intimidate cpls.
Sometimes you might let things go.
Other times you might have to tell them
to go f- themselves.or words to that effect.They seem to understand that better than being nice. "
You will find if there is a problem, it is normally young Spanish lads, not sure why the clubs are letting them in, if it means them losing custom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few options so hopefully
you will find what works for you.
From our point of view we stay away from
2x2 on Sunday night as it allows more single men in.They call it Gigolo night
if my memory is correct so that should
explain everything.
To those of you like that kind of night
no offence.It's just not for us. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!!"
Hi you two. Please don't feel deflated. So Monday night's in 2x2 is couples only. Yes avoid Sundays as it is greedy girls night and they let in unlimited single guys. I think Secrets club has a couple's only area, someone will correct me if I'm wrong on that! As I've said before, Imagine bar in cita centre would be a good place to start your evening. The owners are very helpful and you will meet others there who can offer some info too. We've been going many years here and have never had any major issues with anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We prefer Fun4all as it is a more relaxed club still with facilities. Good for a boogie too!"
We will probably start here and have a boogie, then maybe try 2x2 on couples night...don't want freaked out or hassled by lots of single males thinking it's open season....fun with couples only, sorry guys.
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As a single male and regular frequentor of my local club it's such a shame that it sounds like so many couples are being pestered by these rude idiots. Gives us decent single males a bad reputation and and even more difficult time in finding willing
partners/couples to play with.
Apologies for the idiots anyway and always report them if they continue to overstep the mark as it's not acceptable and could end up with more serious consequences for the next person/couple.
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"Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!!"
we have been 2x2 I've never been hassled a polite no thanku usually sorts it is don't understand all the bad comments it's no different from any other club I say a polite no thanks 8d that do'sent work they get a full fuck off do'sent put me off  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"As a single male and regular frequentor of my local club it's such a shame that it sounds like so many couples are being pestered by these rude idiots. Gives us decent single males a bad reputation and and even more difficult time in finding willing
partners/couples to play with.
Apologies for the idiots anyway and always report them if they continue to overstep the mark as it's not acceptable and could end up with more serious consequences for the next person/couple.
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It does make it look bad for decent single guys, like yourself,but it seems to be the young Spanish boys who are the perpetrators. Again, in my experience, after many years, I have not seen a lot of trouble and yes most will disappear with a firm 'no thank you'. If not, they all understand a much firmer 'f*** off', although it's not a word I like to use!  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!!we have been 2x2 I've never been hassled a polite no thanku usually sorts it is don't understand all the bad comments it's no different from any other club I say a polite no thanks 8d that do'sent work they get a full fuck off do'sent put me off "
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"As a single male and regular frequentor of my local club it's such a shame that it sounds like so many couples are being pestered by these rude idiots. Gives us decent single males a bad reputation and and even more difficult time in finding willing
partners/couples to play with.
Apologies for the idiots anyway and always report them if they continue to overstep the mark as it's not acceptable and could end up with more serious consequences for the next person/couple.
It does make it look bad for decent single guys, like yourself,but it seems to be the young Spanish boys who are the perpetrators. Again, in my experience, after many years, I have not seen a lot of trouble and yes most will disappear with a firm 'no thank you'. If not, they all understand a much firmer 'f*** off', although it's not a word I like to use! "
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"Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!!we have been 2x2 I've never been hassled a polite no thanku usually sorts it is don't understand all the bad comments it's no different from any other club I say a polite no thanks 8d that do'sent work they get a full fuck off do'sent put me off
Agreed, it's not enough to bother me, or put me off! (you have to be firm with them and enjoy your night unfortunately single blokes are not going to disappear clubs make more money off them we've met some nice single guys it's just a few who try spoil it but I don't let them bother me x
Yes same here. It can however, put new people off if they only hear the bad things! "
Hasn't put us off but I am sure you guys will look after us newbies and keep us right.. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks Guy's, really appreciate all your feedback even if it has left us feeling slightly deflated. Could anybody advise which night is couples only night in 2x2, or any other club for that matter. I think we will just tour around until we find a club that suits our needs without any hassle. We really can't understand why any club owner would let this go on as it is so short sighted and leaves a huge gap i the market for a couples only club!!we have been 2x2 I've never been hassled a polite no thanku usually sorts it is don't understand all the bad comments it's no different from any other club I say a polite no thanks 8d that do'sent work they get a full fuck off do'sent put me off
Agreed, it's not enough to bother me, or put me off! (you have to be firm with them and enjoy your night unfortunately single blokes are not going to disappear clubs make more money off them we've met some nice single guys it's just a few who try spoil it but I don't let them bother me x
Yes same here. It can however, put new people off if they only hear the bad things!
Hasn't put us off but I am sure you guys will look after us newbies and keep us right.. "
I'm sure you'll be fine! |
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