"Anyone any advice? We seem to be getting nowhere"
Tbh your profile doesn't give much info on what you both like, says you are both straight! , so what is it you're looking for, full swop couples /female? People will want to know this in your own words not just by the interest section . Add a wee bit more to your profile give people an idea what it is you both like and what your preferences are .
All your verifications are cams so for some couples this might be a put of as there has been no actual meets and some don't like playing over cams, not all some .
Have you been to any swingers clubs ie cjs, as daunting as it may seem, you get to meet alot of people at clubs and pre social drinks and the atmosphere is great .
Some couple choose to meet socially and at clubs rather than private meets due to time wasters and let down. So more and more finding club the better option.
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"Anyone any advice? We seem to be getting nowhere
Tbh your profile doesn't give much info on what you both like, says you are both straight! , so what is it you're looking for, full swop couples /female? People will want to know this in your own words not just by the interest section . Add a wee bit more to your profile give people an idea what it is you both like and what your preferences are .
All your verifications are cams so for some couples this might be a put of as there has been no actual meets and some don't like playing over cams, not all some .
Have you been to any swingers clubs ie cjs, as daunting as it may seem, you get to meet alot of people at clubs and pre social drinks and the atmosphere is great .
Some couple choose to meet socially and at clubs rather than private meets due to time wasters and let down. So more and more finding club the better option.
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Agree with this, and they have a young age range, obviously up to them and their preferences but its very limiting |
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"Anyone any advice? We seem to be getting nowhere
Tbh your profile doesn't give much info on what you both like, says you are both straight! , so what is it you're looking for, full swop couples /female? People will want to know this in your own words not just by the interest section . Add a wee bit more to your profile give people an idea what it is you both like and what your preferences are .
All your verifications are cams so for some couples this might be a put of as there has been no actual meets and some don't like playing over cams, not all some .
Have you been to any swingers clubs ie cjs, as daunting as it may seem, you get to meet alot of people at clubs and pre social drinks and the atmosphere is great .
Some couple choose to meet socially and at clubs rather than private meets due to time wasters and let down. So more and more finding club the better option.
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Agree with this, and they have a young age range, obviously up to them and their preferences but its very limiting |
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Agree with this, and they have a young age range, obviously up to them and their preferences but its very limiting "
Have to disagree with that tbh. 18-40 seems fine. The age range is a preference as you acknowledge so you can’t expect people to change their preferences just to get meets. No meets are better than meets with people that are not what you are looking for (for all involved). Not meaning to argue, just a difference in opinion 
Social meets are the way forward we would say, so many lovely people are more than happy to meet up for a no pressure gossip. |
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Agree with this, and they have a young age range, obviously up to them and their preferences but its very limiting
Have to disagree with that tbh. 18-40 seems fine. The age range is a preference as you acknowledge so you can’t expect people to change their preferences just to get meets. No meets are better than meets with people that are not what you are looking for (for all involved). Not meaning to argue, just a difference in opinion
Social meets are the way forward we would say, so many lovely people are more than happy to meet up for a no pressure gossip. "
Yer they are free to do as they please obviously. I wasn't suggesting they change their age range.
Get stuck straight in at a club, we did, going to a club can be just a social if you want it to be.
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"Anyone any advice? We seem to be getting nowhere"
I'm really surprised you aren't getting any meets. Is it that you aren't getting any messages or none from people who catch your eye. If it's that no one is catching your eye, then you just need to be patient and wait for the right ones to come along. I assume you are also contacting people you find of interest and again you have to keep trying. Follow the advice already given and review your profile and maybe attend socials or clubs. For what it's worth I'd gladly meet but am outside your age range.
Good luck.
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