Hi folks! Been on here a while now but this is my first forum post! I see posts from woman all the time moaning about the messages some guys send. I try to keep my messages about that persons profile but are messages being lost or is it that with so much choice, woman just aren’t interested? Any tips would be great to help me move forward on here |
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We think it’s a fine balance of being just too flooded with messages from both guys / couples and not having interest in the ones reaching out. Some would have read the profiles, but most not, then there’s the time aspect too as most fems inboxes must be a bit mental as fems are in such high demand.
Before we ever send an email we read the page as you do, see if we click with what they say or are with what they are looking for then finally we think about if she/they are ones we would confidently approach in person. If yip, we pm, if not we don’t .
(Edited for a bitch of a typo. Probably see another once I press send) |
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Absolutely!
I can understand why, but it is a real pain in the arse.
the ratio of females/couples to single guys is so outweighted, plus a lot of fake or timewasting guys, makes it a real challenge for the genuine ones!
Best advise is be patient, open and honest and go to some socials. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Whilst a lot of fakes and time wasters mean single men can be tarred with the same brush, I’ve seen single women’s inboxes. It’s madness.
You can send a message but it will disappear off the bottom of an inbox within 2-4 hours on a woman’s inbox. So they will never see it.
Don’t take it to heart, it’s just a fact of fab life. Keep trying and you’ll get there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree
Most women read the profile BEFORE opening the message.
If they are interested will reply if not they delete or reply with a jo thanks.
Well that's what I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not just about the message.
It’s everything that comes with it and everything that’s on your profile including pictures.
You have it all out there for all to see so it probably all comes down to whether they find you attractive or not.
If you aren’t getting replies then it’s probably because they don’t.
Harsh but true.
Simple really   |
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