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So how did everyone get into swinging?
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over a year ago
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Walking the dog, couple going at it in a car in the carpark, I just sniggered and though ha busted, then they opened the door and he shouted interested, found out later it was a known sort of area and the rest was history as they say |
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My gf went to a Ann Summers party with a freind from my work, Well that friend really shit stirred between both of us.
During an argument my gf randomly said "Why didnt you ask me for a threesome I've always been bi curious" which shocked me as id never of thought that of her, Plus this was still taboo back then.
As it turns out the so called friend told her I was pissed off with her as she wouldnt do it but I actually just mentioned once it was a fantasy (isnt it every guys)
Years n years later we finally had a threesome and the women that joined us told us about the swinging lifestyle and cjs. Although it sounded good still at that point it wasnt for us.
Wee while after that we went to polo's and met someone and had another threesome, I say threesome but it was more like the one Ross in friends had.
As last one didnt go to plan we decided to give cjs a try, Had a great time and thats what really got us im to swinging.
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"My gf went to a Ann Summers party with a freind from my work, Well that friend really shit stirred between both of us.
During an argument my gf randomly said "Why didnt you ask me for a threesome I've always been bi curious" which shocked me as id never of thought that of her, Plus this was still taboo back then.
As it turns out the so called friend told her I was pissed off with her as she wouldnt do it but I actually just mentioned once it was a fantasy (isnt it every guys)
Years n years later we finally had a threesome and the women that joined us told us about the swinging lifestyle and cjs. Although it sounded good still at that point it wasnt for us.
Wee while after that we went to polo's and met someone and had another threesome, I say threesome but it was more like the one Ross in friends had.
As last one didnt go to plan we decided to give cjs a try, Had a great time and thats what really got us im to swinging.
Mr"
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"My gf went to a Ann Summers party with a freind from my work, Well that friend really shit stirred between both of us.
During an argument my gf randomly said "Why didnt you ask me for a threesome I've always been bi curious" which shocked me as id never of thought that of her, Plus this was still taboo back then.
As it turns out the so called friend told her I was pissed off with her as she wouldnt do it but I actually just mentioned once it was a fantasy (isnt it every guys)
Years n years later we finally had a threesome and the women that joined us told us about the swinging lifestyle and cjs. Although it sounded good still at that point it wasnt for us.
Wee while after that we went to polo's and met someone and had another threesome, I say threesome but it was more like the one Ross in friends had.
As last one didnt go to plan we decided to give cjs a try, Had a great time and thats what really got us im to swinging.
Mr
How would you have felt if she'd told you she wanted another guy to fuck her?"
At first Id of been gutted, But by the time we went to cjs for the first time it was fine.
Mr
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Came out of a vanilla relationship that had been on/off since Uni over 10 years.
Did meet-up events to get confidence back up and then decided I still liked sex; googled ‘adult sex parties’ (incognito window ofc) then found cjs and the rest is history  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a long relationship that wasn't the best a friend recommended the site as I wasn't ready to get involved but had suddenly found my libido, don't swing though just meet single guys when I'm single and in that mood |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A conversation on fantasies lead to this site "
Same for me (ninja) dong planted the seed and at first I was like nope no way, then it was a I’ll think about it, then a maybe then before I knew it I asked him how we go about getting a single guy and his reply “there’s sites for that” has me a bit shocked lol. I wouldn’t exactly class us as swingers this as were only after single guys but anyway here we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had an affair with a married lady when I was 15 and the notion of shagging married women kinda grew.
Learned all about cuckolding and have been at it since.
Have a kinky streak about me that goes down the BDSM route but that’s another story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always been open minded and non judgemental regards sex. The gasps from other who judged sexual exploits didn’t faze me. I just thought ‘good on ye’. Came out the other side of an 18 year relationship stronger with a bit more confidence. I’m a need to know lassie and my journey of accepting me for me also found me wanting to know why particular things sexually got me going. Seen a pic on another site with fab at the bottom. And here I am 
Creeped about for months. Never thought I would put pictures up, never thought I would meet, never thought I would post on the forums. Met some amazing people through swinging who are and will be lifelong friends.
Best thing I ever done was finding fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner wants to explore her attraction to women. We decided that we’d like to do that within the context of our relationship, rather than something she does by herself. So we joined Fab. Chatting to folk here and visiting CJs for the first time, we think we’re on the right track, but we’re taking it slowly. Hopefully we can also make some new friends in the process. |
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Caught a ex partner on this site and a few others sites. Once I’d calmed down I asked to go see what is was about. Went to Cjs and met some lovely people almost 10 years later and I’m still here as a single female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was doing a thesis on the world's most fabulous singers at Uni in the days of t9 predictive text. Google brought me here. I flunked Uni. "
Ha ha... I laughed out loud! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Was chatting to a guy online, he said his parents were swingers, and so was he. He told me about fab so I could see his pics. I joined, met a few single guys, one of them took me to CJs on a TV admirer night and I had a great time. I organised a few social events and met some lovely people.
I’ve even been to a Fab wedding! |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
Scottish Borders |
Before we were married we were having conversations during sex about including someone else which we both found made us extra horny. Eventually asked a mate to join us and that night stands out as one of the sexiest nights of our lives. Fast forward a few years and the internet arrived. Found a scottish swinging site, joined that and made friends, some fairly locally and started attending events. Went to clubs and had a whale of a time. Having been together for several decades now we find swinging gives our sex life a turbo boost every now and again when it needs it. Still at it, still loving it, still finding friends and long may it continue. |
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We love watching others and being watched, did start out doing live stuff on Instagram but got reported and banned, found this site and very much enjoying our experiences.
Mrs is bi and we’ve managed to meet and chat to a few couples that are happy with girl on girl fun only which works great for us |
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I'd just ended a long relationship, was horny but not wanting to start a new relationship. It was early 2000's and so it was either head to a nightclub to try a pull some pissed up, likely somewhat less than focused on quality sex lady...
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Take to this new internet site called swingingheaven I discovered while looking for hookup sites. I had a couple of 1 on 1 meets, but was then approached by a couple to be a voyeur / watch them.
Within about 15 mins of meeting we were at thier house, within another 15mins I found myself joining in....
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
Scottish Borders |
"How do you get on topic to ask a mate to join you? "
Me and he habitually got quite pissed on a weekend so one night when we were chatting after a particularly good night I said "can I ask you something personal" he said "off course" so I d*unkenly asked if he fancied fee, who was still my girlfriend at the time. He said he did so I asked if he fancied coming back some night and fucking her. He pretty much jumped at the chance. The next night when I told fee he'd agreed she nearly had an orgasm there and then. Sex was mind blowing just talking about it. |
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On a business trip with best friend staying at a hotel and he told me he was meeting a women from Adult Friend Finder at the bar later and would I chum him down incase she didn’t show
She showed and we all ended up in the hotel room, rest is history |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
inver somewhere |
Had been single for a while and had a whinge to my pal... who had been on the scene for a few years at that point...
Went along to socials... visited cjs at the farmhouse..
Still go to cjs today... don't play so much... but I have a lot of friends on the scene now...and cos is my way to socialise and see all of them...
Also... like my buddy noshrinking.... i don't swing as such... just single guys for me too
Don't do drama!! |
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But I like it haha x
Claire
