I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending "
Block & do your own search  |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending "
Activate your message filters and invest time in searching for those that appeal to you instead 
Saved me enough hours to actually meet people  |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending Block & do your own search "
Do you always send the first message then ? |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending Block & do your own search
Do you always send the first message then ? "
If I like the look of a profile I have no problem in sending them an email |
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww  "
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum post |
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum post"
just type the word violin inbetween these () |
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()
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Oh I might answer some of my messages now lolol
Wow lol
Can you do it with most things then "
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()
[/quote/]
Wow lol
Can you do it with most things then "
Yeah pretty much I think |
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()
[/quote/]
Wow lol
Can you do it with most things then Yeah pretty much I think "
Your a fountain of knowledge, (brilliant) |
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"I have one unread message....its from admin. My fiver is due. Glad someone cares...lolAwwww
Love that wee icon
Don’t suppose stuff like that is available for messages ?
In fact how did you get it for a forum postjust type the word violin inbetween these ()
[/quote/]
Wow lol
Can you do it with most things then Yeah pretty much I think
Your a fountain of knowledge, (brilliant)"
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Quite simple really. If you have no intention of merging someone due to how they come across or how they look then block them.
Trust me it saves a lot of time.
There’s only so many times you can say a polite no thanks before they start taken it personally and turning abusive!
You’d be doing yourself a favour |
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I tend to just ignore mine and only reply to friends.
I don't worry about the number at the top. I rarely even delete these days.
I use the site my own way. |
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I have taken to using the filters and having clear outs as and when time allows. Also blocking those I am uninterested in to save the hassle of repeated messages. |
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over a year ago
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I never have that amount of unread message. 
I use my filters and delete any that have blatantly not read my profile and block ones that are rude or abusive and I never mass delete as I find they tend to fall off my inbox after so long. |
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I have none lol
But yeah it can be imagine it’s mental for ladies n couples and even worse when a guy goes “why you not replying “ as they think there message is there in big bold letters saying read me
Maybe that’s why I don’t message much as I know how mental things are
Winks aren’t much use either as you also have soo many |
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Met with a girl last night she showed me she had 500 odd unread mails. I was shocked, woman get absolutely hounded on this no wonder some of them get frustrated. I wouldn't mind 500 mails from woman though haha |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending "
Be an ignorant wee bastard like me and dinghy them 
I expect a message to thank me for this btw... |
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"It be nice to get some messages 
You should apply for the job as the OPs PA then less of the old
You’re Only as Old as You Feel"
PA...personal assistant...Did you think I meant OAP? |
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"I have 204 unread messages
How the hell is anyone meant to deal with that
You guys have a go that we are all rude but seriously it’s almost a full time job just being polite
Problem is you send a polite no thanks and that generates another message
It’s never ending
Activate your message filters and invest time in searching for those that appeal to you instead
Saved me enough hours to actually meet people "
Exactly how it works best for me. |
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"I just did a delete all and hid my profile so a nice empty mail box
Only friends and people I've chatted to in the past message me which is a bonus "
Nice innit |
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over a year ago
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"I've had 1 message today.
It's being fat and in the back of beyond I think."
Oban isn't that far out. You folks have electricity and mains gas. And shoes. |
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