OK, I'm finally in a position to attend a party at CJs, and have wanted to to go for years!
But I am SO nervous about it.
The thought of walking in there on my own terrifies me.
Is it really as relaxed as it seems?
Reassurance needed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much so. My partner and I went for the first time last week. We were shown around, explained the rules and then we went to the bar and had a drink. We got chatting to a few people and it was if we were just at a house party. Until later on upstairs where fun was happening... |
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Yes deffo Staff are fantastic and so welcoming and people so nice and friendly. Plenty of banter in the smoking area! As long as you are polite and respectful when approaching people and start a conversation you will be fine! ?? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Can understand how it may feel daunting going there for first time but once you walk through the door you'll wonder why you were soo nervous about it lol ..just Don't get pissed and make an arse of yourself and don't go expecting to get your leg over and you'll be fine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went for the first time a few weeks ago in a Saturday night and had a lovely time. Chatted to lots of folk there, and ask just nice genuine people. As previously said, don't just focus on the sex side, if you are friendly and spend time chatting that side of things is more likely to happen for you. Just try to relax, have a beer and chat. It's s good night out. |
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Thanks so much for all the advice and reassurance!
It certainly sounds like my kind of place.
Relaxed, no pressure, fun if you want it etc.
I am definitely going to book a space ay the next "fun for all" evening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Literally what I wanted to ask.
Going still gives me the fear lol. I'm sure everyone is nice, but dont want to be one of those solo guys stuck on my tod all night. ??
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