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Wondering where this went wrong. If it was an unverified and new profile I'd have thought nothing of it. However it was a verified profile that I'm pretty sure has been here for some time.
I was blocked by someone completely out of the blue. We had chatted a few times in the past and yesterday we chatted some more exchanged face pics which led to me saying I'd like to meet. They said they would to and I typed a reply suggesting some possible times, I hit send and boom I get 'you cannot message because the user has blocked you' (or something to that affect) did not see that coming. So I'm left pretty confused wondering what went wrong. Anyone else experienced this?
I'm only posting this because I'm actually gutted and secretly hoping it was caused by some weird glitch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true  "
Could be this or something you said. I've been mid conversation with someone and been blocked. And done the
Life is too short (and your Fab lifespan even shorter) to stress too much about it. |
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I'd have thought that had it happened after I sent it but I received one in return without asking and the conversation continued for some time. Like I said if it has been an unverified new profile I'd have just thought the realisation of an actual meet scared them away. It could still be that, who knows. Just found it really odd |
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"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?"
Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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There are some odd loopholes in fab UI design, but if you're blocked, just consider that as they didn't fancy your face and didn't want to be harsh about it. Forget it, move on...better that that being stood up for the meet! |
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"There are some odd loopholes in fab UI design, but if you're blocked, just consider that as they didn't fancy your face and didn't want to be harsh about it. Forget it, move on...better that that being stood up for the meet!"
That is very true. |
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"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?
Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name."
If the conversation is still there, I dont think she has blocked you personally. She maybe really likes you but has blocked all single men because shes fed up being bombarded with shit. I would try and message her back and see what's said. |
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If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..  |
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"They've maybe blocked single guys. If your messages ate still there, you should be able to reply and ask?
Here's the really odd thing. The conversation is still there. Even showing the blue dot going on and off next to their name.
If the conversation is still there, I dont think she has blocked you personally. She maybe really likes you but has blocked all single men because shes fed up being bombarded with shit. I would try and message her back and see what's said."
I like your positive take on it. It'd be nice if you're right. But when you try to message it comes back and says I can't send to that profile. Below that it says 'Why? Because your blocked' In the case of where single guys has been blocked it says you can't for that reason.
As much as I prefer your outlook sadly I think everyone else has hit the nail on the head. |
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"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school.. "
I did that once....they tore me a new arsehole then blocked me  |
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"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school.. "
Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him |
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"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent."
I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x |
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"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.
I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x "
That's exactly it. I guess it's bothered me because I just wouldn't do that. |
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"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..
I did that once....they tore me a new arsehole then blocked me "
Four holes are a goal now. |
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"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true
But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x"
Actually, this is just basically meaning that you should be glad it never went any further OP. Sod them, you're better off without x |
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"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..
Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him"
It can't be the same friend as mine, he said the woman he likes was very articulate . That's definitely not Mrs Doggy |
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"If you're blocked the conversation you had stays unless you delete it. What's her name and I'll ask her for you.. You know the way it was done in school..
Ha ha yea my mate fancies you why won't you speak to him
It can't be the same friend as mine, he said the woman he likes was very articulate . That's definitely not Mrs Doggy "
Ram it  |
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"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true
But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x"
its not a rule to say it. I've been block for other reasons or another. Don't go moaning about it.
Then you get block even more |
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"They didn’t like your face pic so took the “easy way” out ... blunt but true
But why would they not just say straight away and still go along with meeting up? Don't get these people x
Actually, this is just basically meaning that you should be glad it never went any further OP. Sod them, you're better off without x"
Yea maybe you're. I don't get why someone wouldn't just be honest either. I'm glad I'm not alone thinking this. |
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"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.
I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x "
I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on |
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"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.
I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x
I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on"
I've blocked people sometimes without ever exchanging messages. It could be a status, a username, something someone said on the forum. To avoid someone I would never ever meet and have absolutely no interest in ever hearing from I have used the block button.
But after exchanging loads of messages, face pics and both still seem up for meeting I'd think it would be the decent thing to say to someone you've had a change of heart. But that's just me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This first time I've (known) someone has blocked me and I've taken it to heart. I know the craic though, just forget it and move on. Just having a bit of a vent.
I would be livid. No excuse for bad manners and treating folk that way. We are adults and should be adult enough to say no thank you. Chin up and move on.x
I've been blocked without even speaking to some people on here. Went to look at their profile for the first time and BLOCKED, shrugged it off and moved on
I've blocked people sometimes without ever exchanging messages. It could be a status, a username, something someone said on the forum. To avoid someone I would never ever meet and have absolutely no interest in ever hearing from I have used the block button.
But after exchanging loads of messages, face pics and both still seem up for meeting I'd think it would be the decent thing to say to someone you've had a change of heart. But that's just me x"
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"Wondering where this went wrong. If it was an unverified and new profile I'd have thought nothing of it. However it was a verified profile that I'm pretty sure has been here for some time.
I was blocked by someone completely out of the blue. We had chatted a few times in the past and yesterday we chatted some more exchanged face pics which led to me saying I'd like to meet. They said they would to and I typed a reply suggesting some possible times, I hit send and boom I get 'you cannot message because the user has blocked you' (or something to that affect) did not see that coming. So I'm left pretty confused wondering what went wrong. Anyone else experienced this?
I'm only posting this because I'm actually gutted and secretly hoping it was caused by some weird glitch."
Yes, wouldn’t bother your arse if I were you |
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"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch  "
Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet! |
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"I've blocked people sometimes without ever exchanging messages. It could be a status, a username, something someone said on the forum. To avoid someone I would never ever meet and have absolutely no interest in ever hearing from I have used the block button. "
Haha I thought this was just me. Passive-aggressive status updates hurling contempt into the void get a block ever time. Nine times out of ten these are the same people proclaiming "no dramaz". |
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"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch
Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet! "
Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon |
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"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch
Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!
Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon"
Slip of the finger?
Good for you x |
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"My faith in humanity has been restored. What I said I was secretly hoping for turned out to be the case. Looks like it was a glitch
Nice one lad....you'll be chuffed to bits now? Good luck with a meet!
Thanks, I'm absolutely over the moon
Slip of the finger?
Good for you x"
Read this forum thread and felt guilty? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happened to me twice almost three times before by the same person was chatting away then blocked they then messaged again with a few different pics and then blocked, 3rd time I got in there 1st blocked her had a beer and moved on some folk are weird accept it and move on. |
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