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over a year ago
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I had one years ago in 2013. Best encounter I've ever had. We saw each other a few times over the years that followed.
Never been brave enough to do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"
That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"
Aww. In that case set it up and I’ll pretend I don’t know you when I knock on the door.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've experienced both good and bad - one girl who refused to send photos until we had met, but the rapport and connection was immense. That was incredible, the chemistry totally spoiled over into the real world over hot chocolate and quickly turned into a dayuse scramble. Bad... Oh yes, a random Tinder "date" in Inverness. She came over, awkward, inexperienced and on the verge of a panic attack, wouldn't kiss or let me touch her and treated me to the dryest wank of my life before almost literally running away. I'm not that bad...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol
That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different "
That takes some bottle. Bet you were buzzing though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol
That's kinda what I did. I thought he was winding me up when he replied. Now though it seems different
That takes some bottle. Bet you were buzzing though! "
I had far more bottle and confidence then than I do now for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.
Too many weirdos now to do it sadly."
Do you really think people have got more weird?
Or is it that you're less impulsive now? |
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"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.
Too many weirdos now to do it sadly.
Do you really think people have got more weird?
Or is it that you're less impulsive now?"
This, we are alot less impulsive than we used to be.
We need to plan ahead most times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Used to do this back in my younger fab days.
Too many weirdos now to do it sadly.
Do you really think people have got more weird?
Or is it that you're less impulsive now?"
maybe a bit of both but defo more cautious. |
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We will on occasion meet randomly. Had a few really good meets with people who literally didn’t even know their names just arrange to meet and get right into it. Also had some disappointing meets of this kind but just gotta take good with the bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awww I used to love a good random spontaneous meet. More often it didn’t work out but one that springs to mind was amazing  
Doesn’t tend to happen nowadays.
Maybe I’m too cautious.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awww I used to love a good random spontaneous meet. More often it didn’t work out but one that springs to mind was amazing
Doesn’t tend to happen nowadays.
Maybe I’m too cautious. "
I think there would be more to worry about if you weren't cautious on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there would be more to worry about if you weren't cautious on here "
It's a sad fact that you have to be more stringent. Far too many scams and frankly worrying tales around not do your due diligence. |
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Met my 1st meet in her shop to see how we'd et on after chatting, (had seen each other's faces on kik), well, we got on , and got it on right there....is that random enough. This was a Sunday after chatting from friday |
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"I would love to book a hotel and add a meet then sit back and see what happens. Not brave enough though lol"
I think a woman would get more replies to this than a guy or a couple. True a lot of them would be creepy or desperate ones, but I think any woman doing it would have her pick of guys.
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I used to do random meets via here & Craigslist. I never had a frightening experience with either platform.
Did have folk not take me seriously or stand me up & of course not all meets were "electric", very much a wham bam thank you mam type meets, some became frequent.
Again this was back 2013/14/15.
Far more cautious now thanks to an ass that had nowt to do with these platforms but used what I did to try shame me publicly. Cost me my job & home.
I'm just as impulsive but definitely more cautious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone every made this happen for real ? "
Yes, first proper meet on here was after a planned one was cancelled last minute. Was amazing. Had good few with same couple afterwards - also an amazing chef! Sometimes the best things happen when you least expect it. Random pub nights as an example. How many times have you not planned to go out but ended up ‘out-out’ and had the best time? Exactly. See. |
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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I sometimes wish girls on here were more spontaneous but completely understand why they aren't!
All but one of my meets have been pre planned but the one spontaneous meet that I had was very hot.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to do random meets via here & Craigslist. I never had a frightening experience with either platform.
Did have folk not take me seriously or stand me up & of course not all meets were "electric", very much a wham bam thank you mam type meets, some became frequent.
Again this was back 2013/14/15.
Far more cautious now thanks to an ass that had nowt to do with these platforms but used what I did to try shame me publicly. Cost me my job & home.
I'm just as impulsive but definitely more cautious."
That’s shocking! Although not the first I’ve heard of. A few I know including myself have had issue with stalking. Me, thankfully he didn’t know where I lived, but managed to track me down on social media. I instantly blocked him, but in hindsight thankfully he didn’t do as was done to you. To loose what you lost is terrible! |
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