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So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv met a guy a few times that didnt like oral.
No worries just went home got it off the hubby to finish me off lol.
But it is a huge part of my sexual preference.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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That's a good question.. I'm not sure, never thought about it before.. Oral sex both giving and receiving is an important part for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frankly I've stopped most men going down on me because every single one has been shit compared to when I was a dyke! I've zero time to teach them. I orgasm when sucking cocks, without being touched, so that's damn awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups |
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By *obi_DDCouple
over a year ago
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"I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups "
Your photos look great - you've definitely got nothing to 'make up for'  If anyone tells you that you do, that's a good reason not to go down on them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If oral from the get go was off the table either by giving or receiving then I wouldnt meet. We are not sexually compatible in a most obvious way so its a non starter for me. |
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"I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups "
You look pretty awsome to me wtf are you on about  |
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"I could happily go without recieving but I'd really miss giving. Aside from the fact I really enjoy doing it, I think there's a bit of me that almost feels it kinda makes up for the fact I'm not body beautufil. I know that's weird but we all have our hangups "
Definitely nothing to make up for. Just had a sneaky peak at your profile and that body is gorgeous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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I would think that’s rather selfish if one expects to receive but doesn’t give. If both don’t enjoy oral, that’s fine. Me personally, I love hours long, touching, teasing and pleasing. I’m well aware there are other erogenous zones in the body. But, fab is about mutual pleasure. For me... I probably wouldn’t meet unless he/she had skills that would give pleasure as much as oral. That’s my tuppenceworth missus! H x |
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Would be a definite deal breaker for me, I love oral, I enjoy giving but not going to lie if you are doing a good job going down on me I'm going to sit back and enjoy that for as long as it lasts 
without oral, sex isn't on the cards 
Although nothing worst than a woman trying to deep throat me and they look like they're got a hamster stuffed in their face
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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Me and Mr both live giving and receiving oral. I can sometimes find getting warmed up a bit difficult, so some alone time just to do oral before conquering the world is needed. I'd say without oral sex is t completely off the cards, I slept with a guy who wouldn't go down, but I didn't go back to him. Big dick, incredibly small not warmed up hole just doesn't feel nice imo |
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Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.... I really enjoy giving oral but receiving has never been high on my list as it takes me ages to climax and I either end up getting more frustrated or the guy gives up thinking they've been down there long enough. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....
Does this bring up another question.... Is oral more about mental stimulation than it is physical? Do people get off on the thought of giving oral more than they do the physical feeling of receiving it?
Or they could all be lying to look good in front of potential meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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Snogging is the main decider for me, if the snog dont work nothing else will,
and I simply love snogging the right girl
nothing is on the table unless the snog works |
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over a year ago
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"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....
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I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".
The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember... |
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"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....
I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".
The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember... "
If push came to shove and I had to choose I'd probably say I prefer giving. Only because, perhaps like a lot of women, I can sometimes worry I'm taking too long to come and then your mind starts racing. |
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"So it seems that most people prefer giving more than they actually like receiving.....
I'm calling bullshit on this. On the forecourt of Fab everybody proclaims themselves "BEST AT BJS OR SO I'M TOLD" or "I CAN LICK ALL DAY!!!11".
The majority sell themselves as the perfect giver - few will say meh, "I hate giving oral" because that's rubbish self promotion. Fab is a shop window remember... "
I will be honest and say I’m happy to reciprocate and enjoy doing so but I definitely prefer receiving selfish I know but honest |
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Going back to a previous thread..
If I was God for a day, I'd give women a second clitoris on their tongue, make their tonsils a g-spot, then I'd give men a frenelum tongue-tip.
It may need a little refinement as eating and drinking would become embarrassing, the whole human race would be constantly humming, and mouth squirting may be frowned upon, but the possibilities are endless. |
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
I would still be prepared to meet, but. I would be a bit disappointed (I love to give).
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
"
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
I would still be prepared to meet, but. I would be a bit disappointed (I love to give).
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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I would be disappointed, as I love giving oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love receiving but love giving more .. when my tongue takes over from my mind like bad twin good twin scenario and flicks over a woman’s ass and she moans and her nails dig in then even better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a deal breaker no, wouldn’t cancel a meet because of it no.
I do prefer to give rather than receive also unless I’m in a kink role play where the Dom in me requires the Sub to clean me
But def not a deal breaker |
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"That's a tough one. While I like receiving, I much prefer giving.
So not receiving wouldn't bother me, not giving might though.
L x"
Mrs B happy to let you give but would like to have a little taster in return  |
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"So hubby says to me if I’m feeling fat ‘never mind you’ll always have a mouth’ thinks he’s funny but he
Reckons that if BJs were off the table the messages would dramatically drop.
Fair enough I love giving BJs and enjoy seeing how much guys love getting them
But recently a meet told me that he didn’t go down - just didn’t like doing it
So what I’m wondering is
If oral was off the table from the get go would you still arrange a meet.
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I’d be pretty disappointed tbh receiving oral is one of my things
If I knew in advance then no
Relentless is a giver receiving a bj isn’t a big thing for him so if that was off the table it wouldn’t bother him
I do like to give though
Insatiable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all about everyone personal preferences.
I love oral sex. Always have since my teens. It’s such a nice part of foreplay. I actually prefer giving as making a woman or guy cum is such a turn on.
I love giving O and receiving.
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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Ohhh given oral to both male & female def turn on to me.
Love receiving oral too but not receiving myself wouldn't be a put of as as a sub I have been denied any pleasure for myself & that can be so horny too |
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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago
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Its an important part for me, more so giving than receiving. Importantly though, it depends on the reason for excluding it. Does that also exclude body kisses and teasing?
I find the play elements as important (if not more than) the actual sex. Otherwise it could be a short meet haha.
H x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a huge BJ fan, don’t dislike it, but not the be all and end all. Having my face all consumed ‘doon there’ in the lady garden however... that’s a must or it’s not happening.  |
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