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What is your preference ?
A one off meet or a repeat meet.
If you prefer repeat meets what is it that leaves you wanting so much more ?
For me its a connection thats more than just a sexual one .
The ability to converse with each other on many topics and the ability to just totally chill out together  |
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By *bostCouple
over a year ago
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Ours has been repeat so far. But then again we wouldn’t be averse to a one off either.
The repeat has definitely been because a connection over and above just pants off. Good fun, up for a laugh and good chat. |
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"Ours has been repeat so far. But then again we wouldn’t be averse to a one off either.
The repeat has definitely been because a connection over and above just pants off. Good fun, up for a laugh and good chat. "
sounds good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you meet someone who you can chill with and enjoy a chemistry and experiment together then repeat meets happen ,
Also one offs as that’s the transient nature of this site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is your preference ?
A one off meet or a repeat meet.
If you prefer repeat meets what is it that leaves you wanting so much more ?
For me its a connection thats more than just a sexual one .
The ability to converse with each other on many topics and the ability to just totally chill out together "
I'm with you on this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both lol
Have met guys once and never repeated and have met others and then met a few times after that.
Never a plan just go with the flow.
I'm never the sort to want anything regular as to me that's more like an affair situation or regular to me would get boring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think both have their place.
A one off can be thrilling if the chemistry is there.
A repeat is nice because you become more relaxed with the person in turn the sex potentially gets better as you learn each other.
One isn't necessarily better than the other.
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"Both lol
Have met guys once and never repeated and have met others and then met a few times after that.
Never a plan just go with the flow.
I'm never the sort to want anything regular as to me that's more like an affair situation or regular to me would get boring."
why do you think it would get boring ?
If you are in a relationship or married it doesnt get boring if you keep the sex adventurious |
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By *bostCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Ours has been repeat so far. But then again we wouldn’t be averse to a one off either.
The repeat has definitely been because a connection over and above just pants off. Good fun, up for a laugh and good chat. sounds good "
It has been.
We know it’s worth a repeat when you are just chilling, naked and having a laugh. No inhibitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both lol
Have met guys once and never repeated and have met others and then met a few times after that.
Never a plan just go with the flow.
I'm never the sort to want anything regular as to me that's more like an affair situation or regular to me would get boring.why do you think it would get boring ?
If you are in a relationship or married it doesnt get boring if you keep the sex adventurious "
it would seem like an affair which I defo do not want.
The while point to me anyway being here is the thrill of new partners.iv got sex with my husband on tap why would I need another.the thrill is meeting new guys for me.i can have my cake and eat it  |
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"Both lol
Have met guys once and never repeated and have met others and then met a few times after that.
Never a plan just go with the flow.
I'm never the sort to want anything regular as to me that's more like an affair situation or regular to me would get boring.why do you think it would get boring ?
If you are in a relationship or married it doesnt get boring if you keep the sex adventurious it would seem like an affair which I defo do not want.
The while point to me anyway being here is the thrill of new partners.iv got sex with my husband on tap why would I need another.the thrill is meeting new guys for me.i can have my cake and eat it "
which Is fair enough |
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"Ours has been repeat so far. But then again we wouldn’t be averse to a one off either.
The repeat has definitely been because a connection over and above just pants off. Good fun, up for a laugh and good chat. sounds good
It has been.
We know it’s worth a repeat when you are just chilling, naked and having a laugh. No inhibitions"
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By *bostCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"We like to have socials before a proper meet. If we decide on a proper meet it is because we think there is a spark.
If we are right then they turn into more than one offs. "
Us in a nutshell. |
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Regular meets for me. Hate the clinical wham bam thing.
My best meets are the 2 guys I have been meeting regularly for over 2 years. Neither has got boring, in fact if anything it's got better the more we meet x |
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"Repeat for me but one offs do happen.
I prefer there to be a friendship, have a laugh,wee debate even...
To be relaxed in each others company "
100%. My friend I meet rips the piss out me and I reciprocate  definitely adds to our chemistry having multiple meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat for me but one offs do happen.
I prefer there to be a friendship, have a laugh,wee debate even...
To be relaxed in each others company
100%. My friend I meet rips the piss out me and I reciprocate definitely adds to our chemistry having multiple meets. "
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Definitely repeats. I’ve had some Fab playmates for a few years. It’s not all about the sex. Some have become good friends as well.
There is still an excitement about a one off meet as well though. |
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"What is your preference ?
A one off meet or a repeat meet.
If you prefer repeat meets what is it that leaves you wanting so much more ?
For me its a connection thats more than just a sexual one .
The ability to converse with each other on many topics and the ability to just totally chill out together "
Very much so, need to have a good laugh as well as good sex |
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"What is your preference ?
A one off meet or a repeat meet.
If you prefer repeat meets what is it that leaves you wanting so much more ?
For me its a connection thats more than just a sexual one .
The ability to converse with each other on many topics and the ability to just totally chill out together "
This is exactly what i look for. Regular always the way ahead. The connection makes everything else so much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is your preference ?
A one off meet or a repeat meet.
If you prefer repeat meets what is it that leaves you wanting so much more ?
For me its a connection thats more than just a sexual one .
The ability to converse with each other on many topics and the ability to just totally chill out together "
Repeats meets are awesome you never know what can come from them .lol pun not intended
It's a connection with someone on the same level there dosent seem to be that many about but when you do meet them the sex is amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have a place in the world
A repeat starts with a first time meet that could potentially be a one off.
There is a sort of suspense and magic about a one off, the unexpected and yes the clandestine secrecy about it.
If all goes well it turns into a repeat and as stated above if you turn each meet into an adventure that magic stays with you
The comfort of lying naked in a hotel room in the middle of the afternoon with a good friend has its qualities but can become too familiar unless you create a gap between meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Repeat.
It much better when you have a convention.
Yes it's a kind of relationship but if all party's are aware it adds to the fun and it's more relaxed and fun. |
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regular meets gives confidence in pushing boundaries together as you’ve built up trust in that person and means you can meet last minute if the opportunity arises and know you will have fun.
One offs can be good too If the attraction is there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A repeat connection is infinitely better. I've had enough of one offs, though enjoyed them deeply at the time. Good communication and respect goes a long way. I've a solid crew of good friends who were once lovers/dates. Rarities in filth, creativity, care and intelligence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think after giving a girl my best moves, I'd feel right rubbish if she didnt want to see me again. I dont think my delicate little feelings could handle that. Couldn't help but feeling I was rubbish. haha. Good job I'm a pure stud then! lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Repeats are awesome. Building up that connection. Need good levels of trust to do what we do.
I always used to have one offs too. On the side so to speak. But not done that for a long time now.
My repeats just now are absolutely awesome. Plus we've had others join us both males and females, to satisfy urges. Upcoming party too. Keeps it all fresh and exciting.
A year and a half of repeats and it still gets better and better |
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Repeat meets for me “female half”
Just feels nicer and I can relax more when I know what to expect. Plus you’ve met before so know them a little and i feel the sex comes more naturally.
Rather have a few quality fwb on here that I can trust and know will show up than fucking my way through the site lol
Quality over quantity for me, all the way! |
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Repeats are growing on me more as i feel more relaxed but still get the excitement as we get know each other we push boundries ,helps if you have a friendship too ,able to chat before and after ,have a laugh ,not saying one offs we wouldnt still do but find im F are more choosy ,each has their own plus and minus point you sort to suit yourselves .. |
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Sex is like any other aspect of life some things are great repeat but other times you may be chasing a high that you got from the first time that isn't ever going to replicate the original feeling so... Both have their place imo xx |
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