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In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.
In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.
Neither have blocked me though.
Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab! |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me. 
I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.
Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop  |
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"Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me.
I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.
Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop "
No toys from pram here, just a wee rant to get frustration off my chest!
Off to corner shop to see who's near by! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you broke their phone oi you..I was trying to be diplomatic and you come in trample all over with your size 10 boots!!  "
Och...you know me...Charm School Drop Out |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe you broke their phone oi you..I was trying to be diplomatic and you come in trample all over with your size 10 boots!!
Och...you know me...Charm School Drop Out "
I though that was very diplomatic for Doggy |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me.
I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.
Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop
No toys from pram here, just a wee rant to get frustration off my chest!
Off to corner shop to see who's near by!"
Oh, I didn’t mean you lol. I know you take it in your stride 
Now then...who was down the corner shop?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.
In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.
Neither have blocked me though.
Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"
Happened to me twice - one blocked, one didn’t. The last time however we continued chat and they were spot on  .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't let it get you down and stay positive."
It’s no problem, not everyone wants to meet or chat further. Looks wise , you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
However I suppose trying to see it from the other point of view, knocking some back maybe has resulted in abusive messages - maybe they think that will happen all the time. Who knows!
Anyway, just going to send you my face pic just now
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't let it get you down and stay positive.
It’s no problem, not everyone wants to meet or chat further. Looks wise , you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
However I suppose trying to see it from the other point of view, knocking some back maybe has resulted in abusive messages - maybe they think that will happen all the time. Who knows!
Anyway, just going to send you my face pic just now
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I’m not really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear this. That must be gut wrenching. I tell everyone I think they are handsome, even if I’m not sexually attracted to them and then I just leave it there and slowly fade away. X |
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"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.
In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.
Neither have blocked me though.
Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"
perhaps the key is give a face picture sooner in the conversation. Attraction is key to alot of people..
Without chemistry there really is no point in prolonging conversation.
It does mean it isn't rude to not reply. But Maybe a face picture quicker will give you a quicker answer rather than waiting and being disappointed with no response after prolonged long conversation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recently been accused of being a time waster after chatting then replying that wasnt attracted to someone after a little bit.
Some face pics arent very flattering so sometimes give the benefit of doubt and then if no connection with chat too its a no from me in a polite way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You either get on with it or come off Fab. Fab has just become a place where guys jump through hoops for females and then most of the time don't even get a face picture in return after you send one. Happened many a times for me. I've just carried on with it and have spoken to a lot of genuine beautiful women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....
OK little one, simmer down 
Past experience has put me off showing common decency!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just send it with first messsage to avoid disappointment problem solved "
Exactly. No point in talking if there's no attraction. Unless you are happy just just to chat and gain a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....
OK little one, simmer down
Past experience has put me off showing common decency!
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Yeah. These guys are absolute tits too. No one should experience this. If someone says no thanks to me then that's cool. We aren't all suited for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete all the messages and move on.
I tend to send a face pic on first message and I've learned to just delete it from sent messages immediately. It's extremely rare for couples or ladies to ever reply and that way I'm not left wondering if they've even read it. When I click a profile that says I've mailed them more than a month ago I block the profile as I obviously wasn't what they were after so I might as well not come up on their local update feed or who's near list. |
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"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....
OK little one, simmer down
Past experience has put me off showing common decency!
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Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"
That’s a bit harsh
It’s all about preferences.
Some like some don’t.
Block and move on.  |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.
In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.
Neither have blocked me though.
Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"
Get used to it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A saying I've never understood how is it their loss if they dont want it ?
I think that saying actually means pfft I'm a legend in my own lunchbox and the worlds crazy for not seeing it "
Nah you're right myself and the others should say we don't fit in with the desired image the beautiful people of fab demand and stop wasting the others air.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re not always going to be to someone’s liking.
But a thanks but no thanks reply would’ve gone along way!
I’ve always been brought up to treat people the way I’d like to be treated. Unfortunately not everyone shares that.
My advice would be to forget about it, move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....
OK little one, simmer down
Past experience has put me off showing common decency!
Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block "
Same here I’ve had horrible messages back after a polite no thanks but still try to just give a no thanks. |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....
OK little one, simmer down
Past experience has put me off showing common decency!
Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block
Same here I’ve had horrible messages back after a polite no thanks but still try to just give a no thanks. "
Still better saying no thanks. Just cause other people are dicks no need for everyone else to be.
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exactly 