What do you do when you receive a nice compliment from someone you would never meet? I know most of these aren't quite sincere, very likely a copy and paste message with really only one goal (whatever hole  ) in mind. Still good to get a compliment though.
Would you reply with a "thank you", knowing that the next message will be "how are you?", or "would love a meet" (yes, these pretty much are the only 2 responses we know are definitely coming).
Would you give them the polite no thanks, not for me - straight away, even though they haven't suggested meeting up yet.
Or would you delete and not reply?
I know i shouldn't, but still feel bad just deleting a message without responding. But at the moment I am more inclined to do just this and was wondering what other fabbers do with these kind of messages x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it a profile I'm not interested in il send a 
If then a follow up message comes I delete.
Saves time I used to engage in conversation but I hate stringing anyone along so now I just delete in the hope the take it as a no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheers and
Followed swiftly with a "read the effin' profile" once they get overly friendly and want my Kik, Skype, postcode and national insurance number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheers and
Followed swiftly with a "read the effin' profile" once they get overly friendly and want my Kik, Skype, postcode and national insurance number."
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"What do you do when you receive a nice compliment from someone you would never meet? I know most of these aren't quite sincere, very likely a copy and paste message with really only one goal (whatever hole ) in mind. Still good to get a compliment though.
Would you reply with a "thank you", knowing that the next message will be "how are you?", or "would love a meet" (yes, these pretty much are the only 2 responses we know are definitely coming).
Would you give them the polite no thanks, not for me - straight away, even though they haven't suggested meeting up yet.
Or would you delete and not reply?
I know i shouldn't, but still feel bad just deleting a message without responding. But at the moment I am more inclined to do just this and was wondering what other fabbers do with these kind of messages x"
Simple really. I’d politely inform them they messaged the wrong profile. That or “Dude, when my profile states straight I really mean it. But thanks for the offer.” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate compliments but do just say thank you and then proceed to state we only do social meets and cjs so if they are looking for private meets we are not for them or him /her.
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I'm not good at accepting compliments, and luckily on here, that's not a skill that's in high demand
I give compliments to funny updates, or sexy photos, but don't want/expect a response, it's a kind of in the moment thing |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
If I get a compliment I say thankyou.
If I give a compliment I don’t need anything in return - it’s my own opinion and as long as that person has read it then that’s good enough for me.
I’d like to think it made them smile, even if only for a minute or two.
I don’t compliment to get a shag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you do when you receive a nice compliment from someone you would never meet? I know most of these aren't quite sincere, very likely a copy and paste message with really only one goal (whatever hole ) in mind. Still good to get a compliment though.
Would you reply with a "thank you", knowing that the next message will be "how are you?", or "would love a meet" (yes, these pretty much are the only 2 responses we know are definitely coming).
Would you give them the polite no thanks, not for me - straight away, even though they haven't suggested meeting up yet.
Or would you delete and not reply?
I know i shouldn't, but still feel bad just deleting a message without responding. But at the moment I am more inclined to do just this and was wondering what other fabbers do with these kind of messages x"
I have complimented but with no expectation of a meet. None at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Thankyou for your kind words. Goodbye and good luck with your search x" seems to work quite well when respectfully closing the door"
This and versions of it |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I tend not to reply tbh.
Guys throw around compliments willy nilly on here and most (not all) are insincere . 
At a guess at least 3 / 4 others will be getting the exact same compliment. "
No far more than that. I cut and paste at least 20 messages/compliments at a time otherwise the trade off success rate is too low to bother with. |
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"I tend not to reply tbh.
Guys throw around compliments willy nilly on here and most (not all) are insincere .
At a guess at least 3 / 4 others will be getting the exact same compliment.
No far more than that. I cut and paste at least 20 messages/compliments at a time otherwise the trade off success rate is too low to bother with."
Ha ha. Well I tried to play it down a little.  |
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By *issxxx73Woman
over a year ago
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"Not great at taking compliments! Most compliments you get on here take it with a pinch of salt. "
Nice ass btw 
Aye take it with a pinch of salt too. Most are sliding into inboxes left right & centre |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not great at taking compliments! Most compliments you get on here take it with a pinch of salt.
Nice ass btw
Aye take it with a pinch of salt too. Most are sliding into inboxes left right & centre "
Got to agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say thank you
Hiding my profile though makes my inbox practically that of a males lol no mail hahaha
I love the ones when it's not hidden, wow youre stunning etc
Eh are you psychic cause I don't have any pics on display is the response lol |
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By *azzle99Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
It all depends on the compliment. I often get “nice legs/heels” as that’s all can be seen, so it’s specific to having looked at my profile. That on its own is just a delete. If it’s more detailed where they’ve read profile and made reference to something specific that might give me more reason to reply with a thanks.
Instant delete for “you’re hot” type of message, how do they know what’s to be revealed after my legs lol! |
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