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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Can't speak for everyone else but I certainly view profiles. If someone messages or sends a wink I always check the profile before I decide whether to respond or not, but I also actively seek out profiles that interest me. Sadly the quality of the majority of male profiles is pretty poor though, but that makes the good ones stand out more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Both good to know. There’s a lot of tempting profiles but no real interest so wasn’t sure if it was a case of not doing the right thing or because there’s a healthy bit of competition and need to up my game ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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You've been on here 2 weeks... That's nothing. If you thought you could join & you'd be fighting the women off you were mistaken. The competition on here is fierce, you need to put the effort in, be prepared for lots of rejections and develop a thick skin. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi fancy checking out mine and telling me what you think? Struggling for meets aswell and been on a while now, had a couple but they where a while back x"
3 pics, two or you dick, not very inspiring.
Minimal text which says very little about who you are and what you have to offer.
Definitely room for improvement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't do crazy search on profiles. However if someone has caught our eye on forums, we tend to have have a nosey then check veri's and thier veri's and so on lol.
If someone views us we check them out.
Maybe head along to socials or cjs to meet people. There's always a great atmosphere and can turn out to be the fun your after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be scared I knew someone! Maybe try a club further from home "
Everyone is but if you bumped into someone at a club they are there for the same reason you are |
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And I think most women and couples would look at someone's profile incognito, as usually if a male sees they have been viewed they get a wee semi and immediately message the person to arrange a date. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And I think most women and couples would look at someone's profile incognito, as usually if a male sees they have been viewed they get a wee semi and immediately message the person to arrange a date. "
Interesting- didn’t know they could do that. Lol we’re all the same it seems... |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"And I think most women and couples would look at someone's profile incognito, as usually if a male sees they have been viewed they get a wee semi and immediately message the person to arrange a date. "
So very true ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right now it makes sense... so I have possibly been viewed but because my profile/I ain’t fitting the bill, I haven’t had anything back. Maybe a zoomed in dick pic will do the trick ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to view profiles of those who have winked or sent a message or check out some from the forums. We also search every now and again, esp if we’re looking to set up a meet, but never really that successful, so just meet ppl at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's this stealth mode you talk of. I didn't know this exists???
Crap didn't realise we could hide us being nosey buggers
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You figured it out yet? . Account....then Privacy Settings... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's this stealth mode you talk of. I didn't know this exists???
Crap didn't realise we could hide us being nosey buggers
You figured it out yet? . Account....then Privacy Settings..."
Yes got it thanks, duh ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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