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An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only message people who peak my interest, I would never message anyone to voice my opinion regarding morale high ground..
What does that achieve, each to their own |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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Definitely not to have a go.
But I did message a guy once I didn’t even know. His profile text was so badly written and punctuated but based on his verifications seemed a good sort. So I edited his profile text and messaged him with it. No idea if he used it or not. |
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"Definitely not to have a go.
But I did message a guy once I didn’t even know. His profile text was so badly written and punctuated but based on his verifications seemed a good sort. So I edited his profile text and messaged him with it. No idea if he used it or not. "
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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"
No sane people would waste time doing it  |
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ? No sane people would waste time doing it "
That's your first mistake on here....assuming folk are sane! |
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ? No sane people would waste time doing it
That's your first mistake on here....assuming folk are sane!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you hell, everyoe is here for their own personal pleasure (whatever it may be) if married/attached dont interest you that's your discretion and definitely shouldnt be judge for it, x |
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"Would you hell, everyoe is here for their own personal pleasure (whatever it may be) if married/attached dont interest you that's your discretion and definitely shouldnt be judge for it, x"
who people choose to meet and their reasons for doing so should be no ones business other than the two people meeting in my opinion .
If people dont like or have any interest in a certain group then move onto the next profile its really that simple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is never a good time or right time to have a go at someone just cause they said no thanks
Some people can't take the idea that they aren't gods gift and every person they message will instantly demand to meet lol
Everyone has their tastes, type, kinks and in this modern age people should be respectful for that
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I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio. |
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"
I would never do this as the way I see it if there on here it’s none of my business as it doesn’t effect me in any way.
It’s them who have to live with it if there cheating or married or whatever other reason there on here it’s there choice not mine. |
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio."
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio."
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever! |
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!"
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!" |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!" "
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part "
Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Or folk messaging agreeing with you about a status or forum post but are too cowardly to do it in public "
I agree with this. Hang on, I disagree! Wait, maybe I’m on the fence. Oh well, least my indecisiveness is public.
However, I’ve decided on whipped cream btw oldie. Better PM you about that one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message all sorts of people for all sorts of reasons
It's a soul destroying place pretty quickly if messages are only limited to those you're interested in meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab."
My thoughts too. A guy mailed me yesterday just to call me fatso, didn't bother me in the slightest; deleted and blocked. It did make me wonder what people get out of doing stuff like that though? Must be sad times indeed if that's the only way they can try and get attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I message all sorts of people for all sorts of reasons
It's a soul destroying place pretty quickly if messages are only limited to those you're interested in meeting "
I can vouch for you on this, but your weren't being nasty or rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best way to annoy someone who has offended, annoyed or been nasty in a message is don't reply, delete message and block . That would piss them off more than you replying as thats just playing into thier hands and giving them the attention they seek, for some people any attention is better than none. I've seen that alot.
I've had a few messages, one message to let me know they had seen me at cjs but didn't approached as I looked too snobby and stuck up , I said OK cool
( me snobby or stuck up hahaha.)
Then few messages from different people questioning what I've said on forum whether it's true or not  and why would I mentioned it? But clearly was part of the discussion topic and if its something I can relate to or have experienced I'm an honest enough person to share but I'm OK with giving people answers and proof when questioned,I don't have to but no skin off my back, if they really interested in my life so be it .
Or commenting on a post in general and before I knew it, there messages from someone telling their side of story and trying to draw me into the fab bitching drama and take side , to which I replied. "I commented on a post in general, I don't know these ladies and unsure why I need to know this as I don't do drama regardless of who it is about", I'm here for fun that's it.
I do think the forums are good, some fun with great banter but some Bitchy and some damn right nasty but I just put it down to people being sexually frustrated, why else be on a site like this and have a bad attitude or be grumpy. Only explanation I can come up with
Keep it to the forums not private messages unless you want to get jiggy with it  |
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"People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab.
My thoughts too. A guy mailed me yesterday just to call me fatso, didn't bother me in the slightest; deleted and blocked. It did make me wonder what people get out of doing stuff like that though? Must be sad times indeed if that's the only way they can try and get attention. "
Really sad bastard lol |
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"Best way to annoy someone who has offended, annoyed or been nasty in a message is don't reply, delete message and block . That would piss them off more than you replying as thats just playing into thier hands and giving them the attention they seek, for some people any attention is better than none. I've seen that alot.
I've had a few messages, one message to let me know they had seen me at cjs but didn't approached as I looked too snobby and stuck up , I said OK cool
( me snobby or stuck up hahaha.)
Then few messages from different people questioning what I've said on forum whether it's true or not and why would I mentioned it? But clearly was part of the discussion topic and if its something I can relate to or have experienced I'm an honest enough person to share but I'm OK with giving people answers and proof when questioned,I don't have to but no skin off my back, if they really interested in my life so be it .
Or commenting on a post in general and before I knew it, there messages from someone telling their side of story and trying to draw me into the fab bitching drama and take side , to which I replied. "I commented on a post in general, I don't know these ladies and unsure why I need to know this as I don't do drama regardless of who it is about", I'm here for fun that's it.
I do think the forums are good, some fun with great banter but some Bitchy and some damn right nasty but I just put it down to people being sexually frustrated, why else be on a site like this and have a bad attitude or be grumpy. Only explanation I can come up with
Keep it to the forums not private messages unless you want to get jiggy with it "
Lions don’t concern themselves about the opinions of sheep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"
Why would you mail someone if your not interested in them just to berate them. that just seems a bit thunder cuntish.lol |
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Honestly don’t get why someone would mail someone on this just to give them abuse. Seems pretty pointless. Don’t waste time on people not interstate instead start messaging and replying to like minded people |
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"Honestly don’t get why someone would mail someone on this just to give them abuse. Seems pretty pointless. Don’t waste time on people not interstate instead start messaging and replying to like minded people "
Its bitter bored people who get off on drama, people need to learn to have fun, life would be so much better for them if they just knew how lol |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
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There is never a good time or a good enough reason to simply message someone to berate them.
Especially if you have no interest in them.
If someone says something very objectionable or offensive then they may expect criticism but not abuse.
As to the reason the abuser does it, I believe after the past year of my life that there are positive and negative people.
The latter get their pleasure from dragging other people down and they feed off the pain and misery they inflict.
Most of us have ups and downs and sometimes get a bit snappy but we know when we have overstepped the mark and apologise and make amends.
The abuser doesn't, they are sociopaths and don't believe they have done or are every in the wrong.
They are in all walks of life and therefore on Fab unfortunately. |
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part
Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme. "
“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”
Millie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?
Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"
Absolutely not. Although it's a nice easy block |
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"Definitely not to have a go.
But I did message a guy once I didn’t even know. His profile text was so badly written and punctuated but based on his verifications seemed a good sort. So I edited his profile text and messaged him with it. No idea if he used it or not. "
Couldn't check it, after he put you on the block list? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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not at all... but i've had some abuse on here.. the only consolation is i'll never meet these guys and they won't find me for real... pretty sad stuff really |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Definitely not to have a go.
But I did message a guy once I didn’t even know. His profile text was so badly written and punctuated but based on his verifications seemed a good sort. So I edited his profile text and messaged him with it. No idea if he used it or not.
Couldn't check it, after he put you on the block list? "
Quite possibly. But never checked tbh. A “take it or leave it” scenario. My nose still has skin on it. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part
Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.
“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”
Millie "
Offt. That’s a little dark. |
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part
Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.
“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”
Millie
Offt. That’s a little dark. "
Blame Jack & Mrs Doggy
M x |
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"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.
That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!
"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"
Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part
Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.
“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”
Millie
Offt. That’s a little dark.
Blame Jack & Mrs Doggy
M x"
M - are u causing grief again ?????? |
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