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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.
Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?
Does such a message ever actually work? |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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He can’t take rejection. He psychologically wants to make it look like he cane out of that situation better... like he wasn’t even trying with you of course you’re not interested.
He should just learn to take rejection. Practice makes perfect. I’m getting really good at it now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He can’t take rejection. He psychologically wants to make it look like he cane out of that situation better... like he wasn’t even trying with you of course you’re not interested.
He should just learn to take rejection. Practice makes perfect. I’m getting really good at it now."
That’s a great way of looking at it. I bet he’s getting more practice at rejection than most!
It’s fair to say that not everyone will be attracted to everyone else, and that’s not a problem if everyone behaves like an adult.
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Have had several guys send repeat copy & paste messages. I generally just ignore to be honest, if they can't be bothered sending a personalised message then why should I bother with a response?
I think they just fire the same messages out to anyone who is nearby in the hope that they will eventually get a response from someone.
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"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.
Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?
Does such a message ever actually work? "
I always put energy into messaging folk I have no interest of meeting, makes so much sense.....maybe he just gets off on rejection, that’s his kink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.
Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?
Does such a message ever actually work? "
Nope. Would only message people I want to meet or find out more about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.
Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?
Does such a message ever actually work? "
why bother n moan about it.. Just block n move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.
Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?
Does such a message ever actually work? why bother n moan about it.. Just block n move on"
Oh we do block and move on, and it wasn’t a moan, it just got me wondering what goes through some peoples minds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol
Is that the same?
I only reply to people I don’t wanna meet. I’m too shy to answer messages from people I do like the look of "
We have an early winner for lie of the year! You? Shy?
And I’m a virgin! |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol
Is that the same?
I only reply to people I don’t wanna meet. I’m too shy to answer messages from people I do like the look of
We have an early winner for lie of the year! You? Shy?
And I’m a virgin!"
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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On the flip side, many women/couples profiles are bare or just have the same rant of "dont send us dick pics bla bla", so how can you expect a personalised message?
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However, you could just send a copy/pasted standard Rejection message 
...and then block. Good workout for the fingers pressing Ctrl-V repeatedly!
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Happens all the time!!!
Love it when I get the “your photos are amazing, love them all” messages they usually get a bit coy when I point out there is actually no photos they can look at on my profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Happens all the time!!!
Love it when I get the “your photos are amazing, love them all” messages they usually get a bit coy when I point out there is actually no photos they can look at on my profile lol "
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