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... what excuses do most people use with family/friends to escape for fun? I'm sure it can't be easy for some to get regular babysitters etc for going to clubs
We've had friends ask us where we always go or they ask us for dinner/drinks when we've got plans to goto the club but we just tell them we've got a work thing on in the morning so need to escape for a early sleep
What excuse do you regularly use?
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"I've never done that. I have a higher regard for my friends and family than anyone I've ever had fun with "
So you just tell them you've got fun planned? Think you are missing the whole point to my question 
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over a year ago
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Actually thinking about it we very rarely lie. Because all of my hubbys work pals know we swing, and my close friends do as well.
Both our families live hours away so we arnt really in that predicament lol x |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Work normally xlol with my mate tracey  that none of my family knows lol
Me too. Think my family are beginning to think i have a female lover"
The same Tracey? She gets around a bit.
I’m either partying with old uni or school friends or taking part in an organised tournament.
Have you got Tracey’s or Aud’s contact details as a backup plan?  |
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Just out with friends no need to elaborate further .
However when my kids were younger and we were meeting my sons would be like okay have a good time dont rush back but my daughter was a nightmare with a million texts asking where we were ,who were we with and when will you be home lol  |
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"Just out with friends no need to elaborate further .
However when my kids were younger and we were meeting my sons would be like okay have a good time dont rush back but my daughter was a nightmare with a million texts asking where we were ,who were we with and when will you be home lol "
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It was always family functions we attended prior to swinging life but we have a social life outwith family, it's a million questions from my mum, oldest kids and family.
We started off by saying new friends we met when we went out in Glasgow one weekend in the summer (not a lie) and so far we have been invited to 4 birthday bashes, 1 halloween party and soon a hogmanay party at a friend's houses (cjs) hahaha. Have to keep it real lol Family all know we go out Once a month for date night but no specific date so we babysit our grand kids in return my older son and daughter babysit my 2 youngest 14 and 6.
The questions come due to lack of party pics, as I always used to post pics of parties now nothing lol |
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"It was always family functions we attended prior to swinging life but we have a social life outwith family, it's a million questions from my mum, oldest kids and family.
We started off by saying new friends we met when we went out in Glasgow one weekend in the summer (not a lie) and so far we have been invited to 4 birthday bashes, 1 halloween party and soon a hogmanay party at a friend's houses (cjs) hahaha. Have to keep it real lol Family all know we go out Once a month for date night but no specific date so we babysit our grand kids in return my older son and daughter babysit my 2 youngest 14 and 6.
The questions come due to lack of party pics, as I always used to post pics of parties now nothing lol "
Just need to make sure lots of pics at pre drinks
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Yeh I will try lol make it more believable, I always end up too busy chatting and having fun during socials lol feel like a kid sneaking and lieing to my parents though but all in the name of fun times |
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I used to go solo to cjs, but used excuse of Meet-up (app) which lets you join in social things such a dinners/quiz nights/board games/knitting etc hobbies with other solo people.
My mum used to ask me SO many questions; where you going? Do you want dropped off? Etc. How did you meet Ian?
I take photos pre party and don’t tag location. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No regular excuse used but grateful for ideas. We go off for weekends and when I go back work on Monday my colleagues say 'you up to much at the weekend', I'm like 'not really, quiet one' with images of hot, sweaty bodies writhing about in my head.
Or if we do say we're going away, we have the same issue with photos. Or not telling people we are in their city in case they ask why we didn't call to arrange something with them. |
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Sometimes I wish I had that problem but since I went back to nightshift it's kinda killed my social life over the years...if I say I'm in my bed I probably am but not in a fun way with someone lol, and nobody thinks twice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"House party in glasgow... friend of a friends house
You can guess where I'm talking about if you know me... lol"
Well since the daughter found eddies mobile number and fab reference hahaha don’t think she believes where I go now she thinks I’m a mad sex maniac |
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I dont play much now but just said i was off out on a date
I still got loads of questions from sons friends etc quite touching really that they want poor me to meet someone, if only they knew half of it |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
Aviemore and regularly visit Glasgow |
We usually tell folks we are just headed off to a friends for drinks/dinner/night out etc. Most of our friends know now so no need to lie to them, but need an excuse for chief dog sitter my mum.
My work colleagues did think it was a bit odd that I did a pole performance at your birthday party though K, and I got some extra funny looks when I told them the birthday girls had a lap dance too!
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