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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nothing to do with entitlement, if a woman messages me I would either reply or let them down, I certainly wouldn't block them for no reason what so ever. It's pointless |
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"Nothing to do with entitlement, if a woman messages me I would either reply or let them down, I certainly wouldn't block them for no reason what so ever. It's pointless "
You’re new, stick about, you’ll find out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do females get a power trip on here? You send a decent 1st message non sexual etc and they block you? Pathetic if you ask me"
This topic is a weary one... there are good and bad both sides but the site clearly states (should anyone actually explore the site guidelines) that a non response is a polite no thanks and blocking can be used as a filter for both sexes so they don’t repeat message someone. Men in particular repeat message, often copy and pasted. If a woman responds saying no thanks, it can then lead to ping pong mails of “why not” “am I not your type” etc... therefore easier to block. As Regina said, there’s no entitlement on this site. Best thing anyone can do is hold there own dignity and keep their own standards regardless of sex. As Regina also said... head to the bar and chill OP, good luck  |
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Don't greet aboot it mate
If you get blocked you weren't getting fucked so obviously you weren't for them and they weren't probably for you either so
A: you got a lucky escape
B: Don't come across as a winey bitch about it on a forum thus reducing your chance of meeting someone who you might have actually got along with
C: Plenty more fish in the sea (or fanny on fab)
Most guys will have sent a decent mail to someone and get it instantly deleted no even looked at
Women on here get hunners o mail a day and canny answer them aw so you probably didnae hit the right chord with her or she just had too many and decided to bulk delete
Get over it and if you're just new on here
Get used to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't greet aboot it mate
If you get blocked you weren't getting fucked so obviously you weren't for them and they weren't probably for you either so
A: you got a lucky escape
B: Don't come across as a winey bitch about it on a forum thus reducing your chance of meeting someone who you might have actually got along with
C: Plenty more fish in the sea (or fanny on fab)
Most guys will have sent a decent mail to someone and get it instantly deleted no even looked at
Women on here get hunners o mail a day and canny answer them aw so you probably didnae hit the right chord with her or she just had too many and decided to bulk delete
Get over it and if you're just new on here
Get used to it "
Sorta that ish too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I can get that weirdos constant message I guess after being ignored. I certainly aint messaging a girl twice if I get ignored 1st time, I have my dignity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had plenty of them delete that doesn't bother me or what I was stating, I was on about being blocked. "
The site still states it’s a tool to be used to limit messages. Men as rule don’t get bombarded with messages, women do. Best not to dwell on it and move on OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had plenty of them delete that doesn't bother me or what I was stating, I was on about being blocked.
Some people block profiles that are no interest to them it's nothing personal
K"
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"I've had plenty of them delete that doesn't bother me or what I was stating, I was on about being blocked. "
Mate :
I've been through profiles of people and blocked them
Either because they weren't for me or i didn't fit what they were looking for so instead of them appearing on searches when i look through profiles they are never seen again
She done the same with you (if she looked at your profile)
Live with it
Get over it
Don't worry about it
And move onto the next profile/person/mail/whatever
Some sound advice to you free if your'e just new to this site |
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"Why do females get a power trip on here? You send a decent 1st message non sexual etc and they block you? Pathetic if you ask me
This topic is a weary one... there are good and bad both sides but the site clearly states (should anyone actually explore the site guidelines) that a non response is a polite no thanks and blocking can be used as a filter for both sexes so they don’t repeat message someone. Men in particular repeat message, often copy and pasted. If a woman responds saying no thanks, it can then lead to ping pong mails of “why not” “am I not your type” etc... therefore easier to block. As Regina said, there’s no entitlement on this site. Best thing anyone can do is hold there own dignity and keep their own standards regardless of sex. As Regina also said... head to the bar and chill OP, good luck "
Fuck me!!! Red said I gave good advice!!! I’m honoured and humbled Madame V.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do females get a power trip on here? You send a decent 1st message non sexual etc and they block you? Pathetic if you ask me
This topic is a weary one... there are good and bad both sides but the site clearly states (should anyone actually explore the site guidelines) that a non response is a polite no thanks and blocking can be used as a filter for both sexes so they don’t repeat message someone. Men in particular repeat message, often copy and pasted. If a woman responds saying no thanks, it can then lead to ping pong mails of “why not” “am I not your type” etc... therefore easier to block. As Regina said, there’s no entitlement on this site. Best thing anyone can do is hold there own dignity and keep their own standards regardless of sex. As Regina also said... head to the bar and chill OP, good luck
Fuck me!!! Red said I gave good advice!!! I’m honoured and humbled Madame V.xx"
Lol, you’re a very wise lady - see you in the bar xxx  |
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"Why do females get a power trip on here? You send a decent 1st message non sexual etc and they block you? Pathetic if you ask me
This topic is a weary one... there are good and bad both sides but the site clearly states (should anyone actually explore the site guidelines) that a non response is a polite no thanks and blocking can be used as a filter for both sexes so they don’t repeat message someone. Men in particular repeat message, often copy and pasted. If a woman responds saying no thanks, it can then lead to ping pong mails of “why not” “am I not your type” etc... therefore easier to block. As Regina said, there’s no entitlement on this site. Best thing anyone can do is hold there own dignity and keep their own standards regardless of sex. As Regina also said... head to the bar and chill OP, good luck
Fuck me!!! Red said I gave good advice!!! I’m honoured and humbled Madame V.xx
Lol, you’re a very wise lady - see you in the bar xxx "
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"Nothing to do with entitlement, if a woman messages me I would either reply or let them down, I certainly wouldn't block them for no reason what so ever. It's pointless "
Because you don't know the reason does not mean there is none  |
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"Why do females get a power trip on here? You send a decent 1st message non sexual etc and they block you? Pathetic if you ask me"
Op dont take it too personal just put it down that they wernt interested so rather than take the time to type you out a knockback reply they choose to block instead to save you possibly mailing them again |
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It is certainly getting worse on all sites and not just this one.
Recently someone posted that they wanted to go to Prague and wondered what people thought of it. As I had recently been there I sent a message detailing what the place was like and what to watch out for. It was read then deleted and not even a thank you for taking the time. |
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We have went to look at some profiles, only to find we have been blocked, no idea why as we have not even spoke with them. but it is there profile and can block anyone they want. No drama, just get on with life. |
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Care of Fab F&Q
"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the block button for people who repeatedly message, despite not receiving a reply the first time.......
Also I find that sometimes it’s easier to block than just delete to avoid the abuse I receive on here for not replying to everyone who messages.
Also if they don’t reply to your message, what does it matter if they block you? They’re clearly not interested |
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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago
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"Totally get everyone has different tastes and not everybody is attracted, either reply or don't etc but blocking someone is extreme and rude, "
I tend to send a sorry not interested message when I get round to answering
I have noticed people tend to block if they are not interested as it saves either of you sending another message and wasting time I dint think it should be taken personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because a lot of the women on here have probably been kicked about emotionally speaking, so they feel it's a way of getting some power back. Don't feel bad, just compare them to the male keyboard Warriors you find all over the internet and if you're a nice guy consider it their loss and move on, never be abusive though, we dont always know peoples story, that's my advice anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t know, I’ve blocked many an attractive woman after simply reading their profile or status update. It saves d*unk me messaging them and making an arse of himself when they’ve already stated I’m not their type.
I don’t do it as a personal attack and I hope it’d never be perceived that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing to do with entitlement, if a woman messages me I would either reply or let them down, I certainly wouldn't block them for no reason what so ever. It's pointless "
But I doubt your inbox is inundated daily with the same amount of messages as a woman’s ! And your profile doesn’t make you stand out |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
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OP used to have that same train of thought that it was good manners to reply to message. However after chatting to some women on here that is sometimes physically impossible for them to do with the amount of messages they get daily.
Also understand that some use the block button as the ultimate filter.
It is was is and as they say what is for you won't go by you.
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