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First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off? |
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"First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off?"
Not for me it makes me cringe |
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over a year ago
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You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing  |
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"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing "
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more  |
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"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more "
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi "
Wicked Uncle Ernie ... |
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"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi
Wicked Uncle Ernie ..."
That's my new user name right there. |
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over a year ago
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"I like it  but i don't associate that with actual dads  , I thinks it more to do with having a power dynamic thing...I think it's super kinky  "
Aye, but see you can get away with it at 22.
At 45, I just sound like a right fud! |
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"I like it but i don't associate that with actual dads , I thinks it more to do with having a power dynamic thing...I think it's super kinky
Aye, but see you can get away with it at 22.
At 45, I just sound like a right fud!"
Could always go for the next stage up & call him grandpa  |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi "
Wicked Uncle Ernie ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi
Wicked Uncle Ernie ..."
....like I said....he's old and a bit forgetful....tendency to post things more than once... |
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"I like it but i don't associate that with actual dads , I thinks it more to do with having a power dynamic thing...I think it's super kinky
Aye, but see you can get away with it at 22.
At 45, I just sound like a right fud!
Could always go for the next stage up & call him grandpa "
You sick puppy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not for me tbh but a lot of people like it and it’s a big thing in the kink scene but everyone has different views, for me personally it’s just like the sugar daddy thing and I can’t get old men using cash to attract younger women out my head, I even hate the saying who’s your daddy lol |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"You'll be accused of kink shaming in a minute...
Not for me...call someone "Uncle" on here just to noise him up though as he really doesn't like the "Daddy" thing
Never even thought of that, definitely not meaning that. Honestly just curious.
Uncle? I'm not sure which would creep me out more
He says it creeps him out but I know he's typing one handed stroking his semi
Wicked Uncle Ernie ...
....like I said....he's old and a bit forgetful....tendency to post things more than once... "
I've a stutter |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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Been discussed to death on here.
Some like it and some don’t, although the ones who don’t, usually have absolutely no understanding of what a DDlg dynamic actually is.
There are loads of people out there in the general population who would use the words “creepy” and “wrong” to describe all of you for being interested in swinging. There’s no need for any of you to extend that close minded attitude to others in our own scene.
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"I like it but i don't associate that with actual dads , I thinks it more to do with having a power dynamic thing...I think it's super kinky
Aye, but see you can get away with it at 22.
At 45, I just sound like a right fud!"
You've always sounded like a right fud |
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"I like it but i don't associate that with actual dads , I thinks it more to do with having a power dynamic thing...I think it's super kinky
Aye, but see you can get away with it at 22.
At 45, I just sound like a right fud!"
Yep, especially when there's a 30 something guy messaging wanting to be my daddy  |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"Each to there own and all that but when folk take it too far in a controlling manner than that’s where I draw the line. "
I’m not sure you, as an outsider to the relationship, can really determine how ‘far’ the dynamic should go. Unless one of the partner’s actually discusses their discomfort of the relationship with you. Then that’s abuse. But that is really not exclusive to relationships where one person is called daddy and it’s a shame that that is what you associate the term with.
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"Each to there own and all that but when folk take it too far in a controlling manner than that’s where I draw the line.
I’m not sure you, as an outsider to the relationship, can really determine how ‘far’ the dynamic should go. Unless one of the partner’s actually discusses their discomfort of the relationship with you. Then that’s abuse. But that is really not exclusive to relationships where one person is called daddy and it’s a shame that that is what you associate the term with.
Little "
I know the person very well and have tried to help break the fear cycle however sadly they keep returning. The term in this instance is his sign of dominance but as you say it’s their relationship and I’ll help and support where and when I can but know when to also but out. |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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"Make me feel ill and cringe massively
Your sneering judgement makes me feel ill. "
I dont judge others who like it at all but if someone asked me to do that yes I would feel ill but that's my points based on my life experience I don't judge anyone for there own life choices at all |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"Each to there own and all that but when folk take it too far in a controlling manner than that’s where I draw the line.
I’m not sure you, as an outsider to the relationship, can really determine how ‘far’ the dynamic should go. Unless one of the partner’s actually discusses their discomfort of the relationship with you. Then that’s abuse. But that is really not exclusive to relationships where one person is called daddy and it’s a shame that that is what you associate the term with.
Little
I know the person very well and have tried to help break the fear cycle however sadly they keep returning. The term in this instance is his sign of dominance but as you say it’s their relationship and I’ll help and support where and when I can but know when to also but out. "
The word “Daddy” has got absolutely F all to do with the situation you’re talking about.
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"It makes me wonder about the mindset of someone calling anyone but their dad “daddy”, I have the same problem with women who dress as school girls."
Met too just something creepy about a woman in short tartan skirts!
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over a year ago
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"Our neighbours next door used to fuck loudly and she would always call him daddy. Ended up moving rooms as the Mrs hated hearing them lol. "
Haha sounds like fun. |
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That's a big turn off and just weird. I certainly think it's a bit creepy too especially if the guy you're with isn't even old enough to be your daddy. Just the thought of being with a man old enough to be your dad is even creepier. Just my opinion  x |
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"First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off?"
Kink as you will have noticed is subjective some like it some dont as previously stated it's more to do with the power dynamics of the situation. |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque "
Comparing the use of the term and the context it gets used to the activities of Glitter and Saville is so narrow minded and wide of the mark and quite insulting to those I guess who find it a turn on. For a site that claims to be full of liberal minded people,these forums can really show some up as anything but. Again..just my opinion though. |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
Comparing the use of the term and the context it gets used to the activities of Glitter and Saville is so narrow minded and wide of the mark and quite insulting to those I guess who find it a turn on. For a site that claims to be full of liberal minded people,these forums can really show some up as anything but. Again..just my opinion though. "
Oh bless you sweepea I'm sorry I voiced an opinion you didn't agree with. You called me out as is your right and then called me anything but Liberal but I'm not allowed to voice my opinion????
I don't like that term and I find it very distasteful but each to their own etc that's my opinion right??? Or is it that my opinion is different than your opinion and that makes mine wrong in your eyes ?
I'd suggest you're the one who isn't very Liberal by calling out someone because they have a different idea to you. There are many words to describe people who don't listen to others views and only portray their views as correct. I'll make it simple for you hun I've done my bit for Queen and Country I've laid down everything that is important and risked it all and if my opinion upsets you then I suggest you try and take on someone with a weaker will than I have. |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
Comparing the use of the term and the context it gets used to the activities of Glitter and Saville is so narrow minded and wide of the mark and quite insulting to those I guess who find it a turn on. For a site that claims to be full of liberal minded people,these forums can really show some up as anything but. Again..just my opinion though.
Oh bless you sweepea I'm sorry I voiced an opinion you didn't agree with. You called me out as is your right and then called me anything but Liberal but I'm not allowed to voice my opinion????
I don't like that term and I find it very distasteful but each to their own etc that's my opinion right??? Or is it that my opinion is different than your opinion and that makes mine wrong in your eyes ?
I'd suggest you're the one who isn't very Liberal by calling out someone because they have a different idea to you. There are many words to describe people who don't listen to others views and only portray their views as correct. I'll make it simple for you hun I've done my bit for Queen and Country I've laid down everything that is important and risked it all and if my opinion upsets you then I suggest you try and take on someone with a weaker will than I have. "
Are you offended at being called out for expressing your opinion in an offensive way? |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
Comparing the use of the term and the context it gets used to the activities of Glitter and Saville is so narrow minded and wide of the mark and quite insulting to those I guess who find it a turn on. For a site that claims to be full of liberal minded people,these forums can really show some up as anything but. Again..just my opinion though.
Oh bless you sweepea I'm sorry I voiced an opinion you didn't agree with. You called me out as is your right and then called me anything but Liberal but I'm not allowed to voice my opinion????
I don't like that term and I find it very distasteful but each to their own etc that's my opinion right??? Or is it that my opinion is different than your opinion and that makes mine wrong in your eyes ?
I'd suggest you're the one who isn't very Liberal by calling out someone because they have a different idea to you. There are many words to describe people who don't listen to others views and only portray their views as correct. I'll make it simple for you hun I've done my bit for Queen and Country I've laid down everything that is important and risked it all and if my opinion upsets you then I suggest you try and take on someone with a weaker will than I have. "
You have your opinion, I have mine, no problem with that, thats what the forum should be for. I was merely conveying my opinion that the use of the term among consenting adults does not relate to any form of child abuse, you imply otherwise. Your opinion, thats fine, no need for anyone to get upset. |
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For almost every sexual preference there will be someone that finds it repugnant. An extreme example would someone who finds any sexual activity averse. Therefore regardless of what one finds arousing (even if within the confines of legality and consent) there will always be others who do not find it so. That is the right of each individual. The key issues are legality, consent and mutual pleasure. Adults should be able to express preference either way freely and civilly. Just my opinion  |
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"For almost every sexual preference there will be someone that finds it repugnant. An extreme example would someone who finds any sexual activity averse. Therefore regardless of what one finds arousing (even if within the confines of legality and consent) there will always be others who do not find it so. That is the right of each individual. The key issues are legality, consent and mutual pleasure. Adults should be able to express preference either way freely and civilly. Just my opinion "
It's not civil when people are using emotive and loaded language to express their preference |
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"For almost every sexual preference there will be someone that finds it repugnant. An extreme example would someone who finds any sexual activity averse. Therefore regardless of what one finds arousing (even if within the confines of legality and consent) there will always be others who do not find it so. That is the right of each individual. The key issues are legality, consent and mutual pleasure. Adults should be able to express preference either way freely and civilly. Just my opinion
It's not civil when people are using emotive and loaded language to express their preference "
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"First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off?"
It's a no thanks from me. Just weird. |
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"No judgement on those who use it, but I dislike it and would use it.
By the same token, anyone calling me mummy is an automatic delete and block!"
I never even thought about Mummy. Is that a thing? That one's not for me either. |
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"No judgement on those who use it, but I dislike it and would use it.
By the same token, anyone calling me mummy is an automatic delete and block!
I never even thought about Mummy. Is that a thing? That one's not for me either. "
Why does that seem more off somehow?  |
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"No judgement on those who use it, but I dislike it and would use it.
By the same token, anyone calling me mummy is an automatic delete and block!
I never even thought about Mummy. Is that a thing? That one's not for me either. "
Oh yes .. it’s a popular thread in my messages. Cringe ... |
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Yes, surprisingly common. Proper makes me cringe
"No judgement on those who use it, but I dislike it and would use it.
By the same token, anyone calling me mummy is an automatic delete and block!
I never even thought about Mummy. Is that a thing? That one's not for me either. "
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"No judgement on those who use it, but I dislike it and would use it.
By the same token, anyone calling me mummy is an automatic delete and block!
I never even thought about Mummy. Is that a thing? That one's not for me either.
Oh yes .. it’s a popular thread in my messages. Cringe ..."
I must be more naive than I thought. I don't think I could bring myself to call someone that. |
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"This is one of the few things I refuse to put on the anklets i make. One customer has asked for it but i am disgusted by it in all honesty."
But whore and slut is fine? |
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"This is one of the few things I refuse to put on the anklets i make. One customer has asked for it but i am disgusted by it in all honesty.
But whore and slut is fine? "
To me it is so I am happy to sell those. SLUT is also my biggest seller. Which does suprise me. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t call it disgusting as I’m not being judgemental.
It’s not for me but many would say our lifestyle choice is disgusting, which clearly it’s not to us. "
Unfortunately most “swingers” can’t see the irony in them shaming others for their sexual interests.
Using words like disgusting and creepy to describe something you know absolutely nothing about in a desperate attempt to put yourself above others in the pecking order is pathetic.
It’s actually quite embarrassing reading some of the opinions on this thread to be honest. Consenting adults can do whatever the f**k they like in the privacy of their own bedroom, get a life.
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"That's a big turn off and just weird. I certainly think it's a bit creepy too especially if the guy you're with isn't even old enough to be your daddy. Just the thought of being with a man old enough to be your dad is even creepier. Just my opinion x"
Dont be silly. You can not call someone creepy cos they fall in love with someone older. My ex was much older but once upon a time i loved him to bits and had 2 children with him. Does that make me a creep?. The daddy senario is not my thing but know someone who is happy in this situation. As long ad they are happy who are we to judge.
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
Comparing the use of the term and the context it gets used to the activities of Glitter and Saville is so narrow minded and wide of the mark and quite insulting to those I guess who find it a turn on. For a site that claims to be full of liberal minded people,these forums can really show some up as anything but. Again..just my opinion though. "
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"I wouldn’t call it disgusting as I’m not being judgemental.
It’s not for me but many would say our lifestyle choice is disgusting, which clearly it’s not to us.
Unfortunately most “swingers” can’t see the irony in them shaming others for their sexual interests.
Using words like disgusting and creepy to describe something you know absolutely nothing about in a desperate attempt to put yourself above others in the pecking order is pathetic.
It’s actually quite embarrassing reading some of the opinions on this thread to be honest. Consenting adults can do whatever the f**k they like in the privacy of their own bedroom, get a life.
D "
There's a difference between expressing that something isn't to your taste and shaming others. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t call it disgusting as I’m not being judgemental.
It’s not for me but many would say our lifestyle choice is disgusting, which clearly it’s not to us.
Unfortunately most “swingers” can’t see the irony in them shaming others for their sexual interests.
Using words like disgusting and creepy to describe something you know absolutely nothing about in a desperate attempt to put yourself above others in the pecking order is pathetic.
It’s actually quite embarrassing reading some of the opinions on this thread to be honest. Consenting adults can do whatever the f**k they like in the privacy of their own bedroom, get a life.
D
There's a difference between expressing that something isn't to your taste and shaming others. "
Agreed. This thread is full to the gunnels with judgemental people shaming others.
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"I wouldn’t call it disgusting as I’m not being judgemental.
It’s not for me but many would say our lifestyle choice is disgusting, which clearly it’s not to us.
Unfortunately most “swingers” can’t see the irony in them shaming others for their sexual interests.
Using words like disgusting and creepy to describe something you know absolutely nothing about in a desperate attempt to put yourself above others in the pecking order is pathetic.
It’s actually quite embarrassing reading some of the opinions on this thread to be honest. Consenting adults can do whatever the f**k they like in the privacy of their own bedroom, get a life.
D
There's a difference between expressing that something isn't to your taste and shaming others.
Agreed. This thread is full to the gunnels with judgemental people shaming others.
D "
I wouldn't say so, most people have just said it makes them uncomfortable.
I understand you feel insulted but just because someone hasn't tried something doesn't mean they don't have a clue or are having a go. I don't have any interest in watersports, the idea of peeing on someone or someone peeing on me is pretty gross to me so I would not examine it further. But I don't consider myself better than people who do enjoy it.
Hope that makes sense, I don't think I'm wording it right but that's the general gist. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque "
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
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You need to re-read what I wrote. I said most people, not all. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
You need to re-read what I wrote. I said most people, not all."
Are you for real? Aye, it’s ok to compare people to peadophiles as long as everyone on the thread isn’t doing it.
Interesting outlook.
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
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This. Some fairly awful stuff been said. I think people forget when they are writing this stuff that others into this kink will be reading. Would they say it to their face? I doubt it. |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
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Agree 100% |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
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This. Some fairly awful stuff been said. I think people forget when they are writing this stuff that others into this kink will be reading. Would they say it to their face? I doubt it. "
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
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This. Some fairly awful stuff been said. I think people forget when they are writing this stuff that others into this kink will be reading. Would they say it to their face? I doubt it.
If I type something I'll say it to their face. I'm not afraid to voice my opinion and if it's unpopular then so fuckity I don't care. "
Then I hope you will consider that the next time someone voices the opinion that guys dressing up as women are creepy and sick. Because outside your sheltered little fab world you know there are plenty. I would have hoped that would make you more tolerant towards the kinks of others. |
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
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You need to re-read what I wrote. I said most people, not all.
Are you for real? Aye, it’s ok to compare people to peadophiles as long as everyone on the thread isn’t doing it.
Interesting outlook.
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Yep, pretty sure I'm real. The majority of people on this thread didn't say that, and I didn't support the person that did, I very much disagree with them and found that comment distasteful.
I understand you feel very defensive about your interest, but claiming everyone on this thread is having a pop and being superior is wrong. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
You need to re-read what I wrote. I said most people, not all.
Are you for real? Aye, it’s ok to compare people to peadophiles as long as everyone on the thread isn’t doing it.
Interesting outlook.
D
Yep, pretty sure I'm real. The majority of people on this thread didn't say that, and I didn't support the person that did, I very much disagree with them and found that comment distasteful.
I understand you feel very defensive about your interest, but claiming everyone on this thread is having a pop and being superior is wrong."
The majority of people on this thread did actually make a comment belittling others kink and therefore shaming them.
At no point did I claim that “everyone” was having a pop but I did chose to highlight those who’s attitude is disgusting while you decided to just paint brush over that rather than calling it out.
Who said it’s my interest? I certainly haven’t said that in any of my comments. I will defend rigorously anyone’s right to their own sexual interests as long as it’s between consenting adults, just in the same way I will defend anyone’s right to choose or exist in their own sexuality, gender, religion, race or relationship status.
Shaming others for their own choices as so many have done on this thread is a very dangerous path to be going down and your attempts to white wash that are just as dangerous too.
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"Creepy as fuck.......
Seconded. Very glitter Saville esque
You need to have another read of this thread Leiaorgana if you honestly think no one is kink shaming here.
comparing those who take part in a certain kink to convicted paedophiles is a disgusting attempt to shame others for what they’re into and that’s just one example from above.
D
You need to re-read what I wrote. I said most people, not all.
Are you for real? Aye, it’s ok to compare people to peadophiles as long as everyone on the thread isn’t doing it.
Interesting outlook.
D
Yep, pretty sure I'm real. The majority of people on this thread didn't say that, and I didn't support the person that did, I very much disagree with them and found that comment distasteful.
I understand you feel very defensive about your interest, but claiming everyone on this thread is having a pop and being superior is wrong.
The majority of people on this thread did actually make a comment belittling others kink and therefore shaming them.
At no point did I claim that “everyone” was having a pop but I did chose to highlight those who’s attitude is disgusting while you decided to just paint brush over that rather than calling it out.
Who said it’s my interest? I certainly haven’t said that in any of my comments. I will defend rigorously anyone’s right to their own sexual interests as long as it’s between consenting adults, just in the same way I will defend anyone’s right to choose or exist in their own sexuality, gender, religion, race or relationship status.
Shaming others for their own choices as so many have done on this thread is a very dangerous path to be going down and your attempts to white wash that are just as dangerous too.
D "
Not whitewashing anything, I'm saying not everyone should be tarred with the same brush. Those people who made comments regarding Saville and Glitter as not the same as those people like myself who've said 'not for me' and they don't have my support, but will also not change their mind or withdraw their comments. Therefore I choose to ignore them.
With regard to it being your interest, you were aggressively defensive about it so it seemed it was something you enjoyed, I'm sure I'm not the only one who thought that.
Your point regarding defending people's rights to do and be whoever they are are shared, so that's irrelevant.
There will always be people on here who will say things to shock, or to create a stir, and perhaps get a kick out of it, that will never change. Either because they enjoy doing it or they genuinely believe it, I don't know. No one with any common sense believes that consenting adults sharing a kink equates to child abuse, and if they do they should give their heads a wobble. |
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"Maybe I am in the minority. Genuinely curious to see if I am. "
Nope creeps me out along with the young guys that want to call me mummy. Sickens me. A lot of young guys do like an older woman but the mummy thing creeps me out x |
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"Maybe I am in the minority. Genuinely curious to see if I am.
Nope creeps me out along with the young guys that want to call me mummy. Sickens me. A lot of young guys do like an older woman but the mummy thing creeps me out x"
I'd never even thought of Mummy until earlier in the thread. I've got to say I've never felt an urge to use it ha ha. |
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"First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off?"
In the right setting with the right partner, ie. a consenting adult, I love it. It's incredibly hot. But maybe that's because, as a well adjusted, open-minded, mature adult, I'm able to differentiate between a consenting adult and a minor. |
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"First off I really don't like the idea of being called Daddy. It kind of weirds me out. But I see loads of women's and couples profiles using the term quite a lot. I put a status up asking others thoughts on it and I wasn't alone. It got me thinking. I get the impression there's more women like this term than men. Or am I in a minority that thinks this is a turn off?
In the right setting with the right partner, ie. a consenting adult, I love it. It's incredibly hot. But maybe that's because, as a well adjusted, open-minded, mature adult, I'm able to differentiate between a consenting adult and a minor."
That's cool. Just to be clear though that isn't what I was referring to. I just don't want to be called Daddy. Not my thing. Just it seems a few on here have been getting themselves in to arguments and really bothered by this thread. My main reason for this post was to see if the preference was more from a female point of view or a male because I was thinking that it was. Didnt seem that way though pretty even I think. I also wondered if I was in a minority, like am I missing something. But I dont think I am. Everyone has what they like and don't like and that's cool. Just not for me. |
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