Keep your fantasy in your head if doesn't share it and that way you keep your marriage intact
(unless you're not happy with your wife and if that's the case then get out and find someone else who will share your fantasies and life)
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She fuckin loved it with me . 
You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post
Split personality or just two faced ?"
My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..
I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.
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She fuckin loved it with me .
You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post
Split personality or just two faced ?
My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..
I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.
No need to apologise to him, it probably got him hard lol
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She fuckin loved it with me .
You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post
Split personality or just two faced ?
My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..
I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.
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Think the man is just spoiling for a fight tonight  |
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never push anyone on something they’ve already said no to, if she changes her mind she knows it’s something that would be welcomed otherwise your just showing her disrespect by repeating the question, on that note does she know you’re bi? One here ? |
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She fuckin loved it with me .
You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post
Split personality or just two faced ?
My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..
I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.
Think the man is just spoiling for a fight tonight "
Or on the naughty step  |
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Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.
It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.
So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.
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"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.
It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.
So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.
Rant ends"
Try finding more common ground that u can both enjoy toys watching adult movies or maybe think about cpls therapy rather than letting something small destroy your marriage is it that shes genuinely not interested in swinging or is there deep seeded trust issues my husband when he 1st spoke about swinging I was like fuck no but after years of talking and working past my own issues based on previous issues I've had i was the one to bring it back up i can assure u pushing the issue will push her away |
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"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.
It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.
So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.
Rant ends"
Jesus
If she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t want it. Is that difficult to understand? Take your tantrum and leave if your fantasy is more important than your marriage |
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"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.
It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.
So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.
Rant ends
Jesus
If she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t want it. Is that difficult to understand? Take your tantrum and leave if your fantasy is more important than your marriage "
Put it this way pal if you cant respect your wife and her wishes, few months down the line she will find a man that does ,it easy solution really ,Wife or swinging which one is more important in the long term  |
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