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So when does one change into the other
I came across a profile the other night and on the description she had athletic, but there was a profile pic of her top half including the top of her arms etc. When did looking like you weigh 20st become athletic
Some put curvy and you see pics and they aren't curvy, they are fat
So without proper pictures how are guys supposed to know who we are actually chatting to
Then if it comes down to actually arranging a meet you are expecting someone slim to turn up then you feel the earth shake and this huge thing swings the door open and the description doesn't fit the reality (never happened to me but it's possible for it to happen or has happened to someone if they don't share a pic first)
Or has it happened to anyone (i'm sure it's bound to have)
Ok there may be some room for poetic licence but athletic in your profile when fat as fuck photo says totally different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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.....maybe they identify as an athlete.... 
Get where you're coming from...folk should be more honest and not talk mince.
But the fat as fuck comment is a bit shite. |
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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Maybe she was a shot putter?
People can describe themselves as how they see fit  |
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I get the point of people not being honest about their descriptions, cos that gets right up my nose too, but the tone of the OP is horrible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A horrendous OP.
A perfect example of why the body type category shouldn’t exist. Everybody has eyes and can make up their own mind, no need to have folk labelling themselves. |
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I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but
Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same
So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)
I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description
And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck
I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes
All i'm saying is at least be honest
They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that
That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke |
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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
"So when does one change into the other
I came across a profile the other night and on the description she had athletic, but there was a profile pic of her top half including the top of her arms etc. When did looking like you weigh 20st become athletic
Some put curvy and you see pics and they aren't curvy, they are fat
So without proper pictures how are guys supposed to know who we are actually chatting to
Then if it comes down to actually arranging a meet you are expecting someone slim to turn up then you feel the earth shake and this huge thing swings the door open and the description doesn't fit the reality (never happened to me but it's possible for it to happen or has happened to someone if they don't share a pic first)
Or has it happened to anyone (i'm sure it's bound to have)
Ok there may be some room for poetic licence but athletic in your profile when fat as fuck photo says totally different "
Who the fuck are you to judge what a woman wants to call herself??? Free country mate! |
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Stop trying to come across as all righteous
You never do it when your out on the town or out on the pull
You've never done it cause you love ALL women every shape size and age
Like fuck !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but
Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same
So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)
I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description
And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck
I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes
All i'm saying is at least be honest
They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that
That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke "
How the fuck does someone at 20st angle their pics in such a way as to appear "athletic"?
You just getting bitter and twisted auld yin cause your eyes ain't what they used to be?  |
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Free country right ???
Well she was as fat as fuck and wasn't athletically built - FACT
Free country to state my mind
Don't like what i'm saying then don't feel the need to reply and just say fuckin idiot and go on to the next post
I'm stating what i think and was my post so why do you feel you need to stick your oar in
Same with anyone else reading this
Don't like what i'm saying then fuck off and read someone else's post
I was only asking when does one become the other in un-pc language
No need to get all triggered and have to run to the doc tomorrow with ptsd ffs |
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Exactly - how can they angle the camera to try and appear athletic when they are the width of a bus
Cant be done and i dont think filters can do that either ... lol |
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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
"Free country right ???
Well she was as fat as fuck and wasn't athletically built - FACT
Free country to state my mind
Don't like what i'm saying then don't feel the need to reply and just say fuckin idiot and go on to the next post
I'm stating what i think and was my post so why do you feel you need to stick your oar in
Same with anyone else reading this
Don't like what i'm saying then fuck off and read someone else's post
I was only asking when does one become the other in un-pc language
No need to get all triggered and have to run to the doc tomorrow with ptsd ffs "
Mate sounds like you are the one that’s triggered
You have posted on a public forum so everyone is free to answer you actually!
And maybe these girls just like pissing men off and seeing their faces when they realise they aren’t athletic  |
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"I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but
Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same
So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)
I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description
And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck
I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes
All i'm saying is at least be honest
They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that
That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke "
if you have seen the photos and can clearly see they aint as desribed then just ignore the profile... that would be the best thing to do surely ! |
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I'm not triggered
I was asking when does one become the other because you can be fat and class yourself as curvy because you are (just various degrees) but there is no way in hell can you class yourself as athletically built when you're the size of a back end of a truck
Even circus mirrors can't do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nasty |
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I did ignore it
I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described
It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines accurate I'm large so I put large if anyone has a problem with it then tough titties |
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A can do worse ones than that if you want  |
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"I did ignore it
I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described
It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol "
sadly the site doesnt give you the option to describe yourself as fat as f**k lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did ignore it
I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described
It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol sadly the site doesnt give you the option to describe yourself as fat as f**k lol "
Haha if it did I'd be on that |
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Exactly Miss
If anyone has a problem with your profile then they can just ignore it because you tell the truth and it might no be for everyone and everybody has a type they like or don't like whether they want to admit it openly or not and honesty is always the best policy because you have a better chance of actually meeting the right people you want to attract |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I have seen guys do it too seen some in clubs their profiles day athletic but they are far from it |
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No but it does give you fabulous
At the very least the lady could have put curvy because as i said there are degrees of being curvy as totally opposed to athletic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually had this discussion the other day with somebody I’d recently met, they asked me why I’d had large when she would describe me as curvy, my question is when does curvy become large and large become curvy...
My explanation is at least if I put large and they described me as curvy then it’s a pleasant suprise rather than they meet me and be a lot bigger than expected x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly Miss
If anyone has a problem with your profile then they can just ignore it because you tell the truth and it might no be for everyone and everybody has a type they like or don't like whether they want to admit it openly or not and honesty is always the best policy because you have a better chance of actually meeting the right people you want to attract "
(Played a blinder there mate...nicely done....good recovery  ) |
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Totally agree with you Miss
And i know guys will do it too, but i don't look at guys profiles so can only comment on what i see on the ladies ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had many people say I'm large with shape so I don't know if that makes me curvy or not I just think I'm large so I guess no one gets a shock |
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Just saying it the way it is Doggy |
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I just looked at your profile there Miss and you say you're fat, but i have seen bigger than you putting curvy in their description so thats what i mean about curvy and degrees cause even fat folk are curvy so they're no lying
As opposed to being fat and putting down athletic |
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A sumo wrestler is an athlete. Can he, therefore, class his body as athletic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just looked at your profile there Miss and you say you're fat, but i have seen bigger than you putting curvy in their description so thats what i mean about curvy and degrees cause even fat folk are curvy so they're no lying
As opposed to being fat and putting down athletic "
Did a fat bird steal your selection box when you were a wean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A sumo wrestler is an athlete. Can he, therefore, class his body as athletic?"
You have a point there |
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At least you are being honest though Jess
And if you meet someone and they tell you you are not as large as you said you were then thats always a nice comment to receive rather than describing yourself the exact opposite then when someone meets you giving you the exact opposit or worse comment |
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NOPE - FAT
And a sumo would tell ye that
They are very very large |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh exactly, I’d die if somebody ever said to me “your a lot fatter than you described”
I did used to have curvy on my profile until a couple messaged a guy who verified me asking him if I was actually curvy or just fat... I thought this was proper rude instead of just asking me or even asking for a picture! |
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That is just rude and down right schnidey too asking others if you are fat or not
Keep curvy in your profile an just say you are a bbw size whatever (if you want to) and if you don't like it then move along
Or a big girl and if it's not for you then neither are you but at least you are telling people what to expect to start with and not saying you are built like twiggy when your pinky is fatter than twiggy ....
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By *azzle99Woman
over a year ago
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Curves created in the gym, but definitely not athletic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you ever thought maybe the person whose profile you saw had clicked the wrong button by mistake when making her profile ..regardless dont think the fat as fk comment is very nice |
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Nothing wrong being curvy
But that is how you also describe yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever thought maybe the person whose profile you saw had clicked the wrong button by mistake when making her profile ..regardless dont think the fat as fk comment is very nice "
Fat fingers? (Oops...runs and hides... ) |
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There's a big gap between athletic and fabulous
Like i said if she had put curvy then i would have disagreed with her description but there are degrees in the curvy category and i would have disagreed with her description
But even a blind person can tell if they are thin or fat without seeing in a mirror |
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There’s a difference though between being annoyed and talking about people lying over their size, age or whatever and referring to them as far as Fk. I mean, you could have put it in a way that sounded less cruel and twattish.
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I think your description of average, is that accurate ? |
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Would have to say so cause that what my underwear says Medium
Or my jeans 30" waist so that would have to be pretty average would it not
Although my tops are large or xl depending on the tshirt
Or would you prefer i change it to fat as fuck or what? |
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Now I had some popcorn around here somewhere.... |
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"Would have to say so cause that what my underwear says Medium
Or my jeans 30" waist so that would have to be pretty average would it not
Although my tops are large or xl depending on the tshirt
Or would you prefer i change it to fat as fuck or what?"
I'd rather you change it to 'shitty personality'  |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
East kilbride |
Just out of curiosity, How fat is "fuck" ? |
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I don't though
Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality
Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me
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Fatter than curvy and a lot fucking fatter than athletic
Hope that's cleared that up for you |
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So tired of guys claiming that they're 'just being honest' when what they actually mean is that they have no manners, no class, and think that everyone should be forced to listen to their sad little attention seeking opinion.
Good job on making yourself look like a massive dickhead, OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe It’s time to have a personality descriptor too
I’ll not only be fat as fuck but cunty as fuck too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't though
Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality
Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me
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When you start describing people as being fat as fuck you lose all credibility or bonus points for personality of the year award |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't though
Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality
Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me
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Are you offended by the fact that it's not okay to be offensive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a horrible thing to say to someone. I knew someone once who said about his friend and I quote "she's too fat to fuck". That's no friend! I was absolutely disgusted when I found out what he said to her but just sums him up in a nutshell really  x |
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I don't want to be personality of the year and i'm no into being any kind of personality i don't do that whole celeb fucking shite nor pc or right think
I'll speak my mind whether you or anyone else likes it or not
There is still (only just but it's still there) such a thing as free speech
You in your profile describe yourself as how you are and you don't hide your size or try to be someone you aren't
I would read your profile and know exactly who you were and you are a large lady and iv'e nothing against that or anyone of any size
But when you are like about 20st and describe your build as athletic when she's fat as fuck then that's a whole different ball game |
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I never said it to anyone
I haven't spoken to this lady nor will i and i certainly wouldn't pull her up about her description either
But doesn't mean i can't have an opinion on a forum
Have you seen some of the shit folk post about in here
I'm just doing the same |
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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago
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On the plus side if you ever decide to go for a job in Trumps Diplomatic Corps, you can use this thread as your cv  |
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YEP i am so
OFFENSE is never given - only taken |
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WTF HAS TRUMP GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING
Get a grip billy ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ATHLETIC-AVERAGE-CURVY-FABULOUS..
I would happily meet anyone in this category ..
ONLY
If there was a connection communication and personality..
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OP, a little tip for you. If you look at the bottom right corner of someone's comment you'll see a button marked 'reply+quote'. If you use it, people will know who you're replying to.
And yes we do have free speech. You have the right to display your nasty personality, and other people have the right to tell you you're a dick
Also, you may want to take the part out of your profile about not judging others, as that's exactly what you're doing. |
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Exactly - but when someone described theirselves as athletic then what would you expect to see when you met that person
Would it be someone slim slender or whatever you want to call the build or would it be someone weighing more than you
Remember only by their description who would you expect to meet and answer truthfully if you can ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not judging others and i wouldn't have a problem having a social meet with the lady and having a good chat coffee etc.
And like i said to Jess Miss etc
They described themselves honestly and would happily meet any lady socially i don't have a problem with size
I have the problem with someone saying on their profile their build is athletic and they are the exact opposite of that
So if i was to meet this person going on her description then that is not who i would think i was going to meet therefore she is not who/what she claims to be
Whats so hard to understand about that
I was speaking to a lady and she had the same thing happen with her except it was a guy so i know guys do it too but i don't look at guys profiles only women so can only speak as i find
"OP, a little tip for you. If you look at the bottom right corner of someone's comment you'll see a button marked 'reply+quote'. If you use it, people will know who you're replying to.
And yes we do have free speech. You have the right to display your nasty personality, and other people have the right to tell you you're a dick
Also, you may want to take the part out of your profile about not judging others, as that's exactly what you're doing. "
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You chicken out or thought it wasn't too pc enough your answer ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if i was to meet this person ..."
I don't think you're going to have to worry about meeting any person |
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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago
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"WTF HAS TRUMP GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING
Get a grip billy ffs "
No need to shout. It is nothing to do with the content just the attitude, offensive, ignorant, abusive and loud. I couldn't help but draw parallels. Don't think it's me that needs to get a grip |
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I don't think you're going to have to worry about meeting any person "
Maybe not you but there's more people on fab and not all read the forums too
And i have had mail from a couple of women about this topic and their experiences too
So you and a few others might find this a bit distasteful or don't like the way i talk, others don't have a problem with what i'm saying o it's horses for courses and each to their own |
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No need to shout. It is nothing to do with the content just the attitude, offensive, ignorant, abusive and loud. I couldn't help but draw parallels. Don't think it's me that needs to get a grip"
I'm talking about someone's profile description and your bringing your politics into something that's totally unpolitical
Want to talk politics then open another discussion and i'll contribute to that if it's a worthwhile topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not very a very nice way to speak about other. I seriously hope your perfect.
Kind regards
Fat as fuck |
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"That's not shouting, it's typing something in capitals
I'm emphasising the point to make it stand out more than just lower case letters
Shouting at you is using your voice in a highly raised retort
No need to shout. "
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"Not very a very nice way to speak about other. I seriously hope your perfect.
Kind regards
Fat as fuck "
NOPE !!!! Not even close |
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