So having a coffee today with a fellow fabber and the chat was all about married and singles and who accepts what etc and it got me thinking about morals
The mere mortals of society would view swinging to be unacceptable whereas to us it’s the norm
Yet within our ‘normal’ groups we are all different
Some people don’t meet married but cheating people, some don’t meet bi, some won’t meet in cars or outdoors
So fab morals
Where do yours lie !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our morals are Always tell each other the truth.
Do not cheat as no need to if we in this together.
Treat others as you want to be treated.
Don't judge other people
Be dependable, if we plan to meet people we stick to it and hope its the same other way round. Be honest with people if we don't like a situation or couple we need to say rather than feel awkward and it ruin our experiences. |
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"Watch no get morals and preferences mixed up. It's a dangerous path to tread. I'm getting the popcorn out for this one. "
I’m meaning a lot think that is not acceptable to meet with someone who is married so that’s their fab morals Rather than a preference
I won’t meet married men as a single as there is a risk a disgruntled wife will come after me -so that’s a preference as will meet married with my OH as feel there is a safety net
And this might have opened a can of worms so get some juice with that popcorn is my advice
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I think we all have morals on one thing and another and thats fine but when you see updates or forum posts from other members having ago at other members because they feel so strongly about their morals some think they have a right to do this which is wrong in my opinion.
Ive seen one profile continually have a go at married or attatched people constantly . |
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Morals within the swinging lifestyle is a funny one. Society may not approve having an affair outwith a relationship, but it's still seen as 'normal'. Have your partner watch or join in and it's wrong. I suppose its a sad reflection on the value society in general places on honesty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.
If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day. |
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"I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.
If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My only grey area is married men fucking without permission. I used to think I was a good & honest person, but I'm just as complicit with their lying.
Sure life isn't black & white and I do still encourage them to talk to their wives and fix things...ask the hard questions. |
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"I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.
If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day."
This |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
What you do is your business, I'll only comment if it's illegal or not consenting.
After that its your life enjoy it and if you have an opinion on me.
I'll happily give you 10p to phone someone who gives a fuck.
That's all folks.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it's live and let live. I grew up in a place where a lot of what is normal in some places are taboo, and others that are frowned upon in those other places are accepted.
While a personal moral code is important, trying to impose it on others becomes dangerous esp. when many people share the same code and a minority exists in the same space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, if someone wants to play away from home they will.
The opinion of strangers on a sex site won't and shouldn't really make any difference.
Everyone has their own reasons.
If I'm attracted to someone , we get along, they hold my attention and I'm tempted to meet them, I will. Their life outside of that is not my concern.
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