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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning all, just wondering what other peoples views and opinions are on the recent verification requirements by some users, we winked a couple to get a cheeky ish message to say they noticed our most recent verification was over 2years ago and wow! , I know this is a while on paper but it doesn't gain credit for meets out with fab,also I am pretty sure there is some people who probably can't or couldn't for whatever reason, thoughts on this?? |
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By *ivi-sirMan
over a year ago
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My last proper verification was a while ago , but that doesn't take into consideration the people i meet regularly , if you were to leave a veri every single time you met someone that you usually meet then that could end up putting someone off as you have too many veris ,
Just seems sometime no matter what you do you cant please anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a real issue when you need verifications for people to take you seriously but how do you get verifications if nobody takes you seriously without them. Somebody has to be willing to take a chance or new members just get fed up and leave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We stipulate to anyone concerned that we do not want a verification at all.
To us it is just shouting to the world who, what, when, and how you were with others. Why not just put it on tripadvisor and add a star rating.
What happens between us and anyone stays with us and them. Why do we need to tell anyone else. |
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"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lol"
What would you say it was that attracted you to them |
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"I wouldnt meet a guy that his last verification was yrs ago.
Cpls are different theres 2 of you for a social meet or otherwise."
What about the couples profiles where it's just the guy, because his partner has left him but he continues to use his couples profile, pretending to be part of a couple! |
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"Then you block and move on "
Yes of course, but I was meaning that for me, no veris for a long time and no recent pics of said female are instant red lights, and if it gets to that stage, the way the chat goes, most guys are crap at trying to pretend it's the girl you're speaking with, they're all signs for me that it's just the guy, but not in all cases which means once again we're talking about time wasters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about the couples profiles where it's just the guy, because his partner has left him but he continues to use his couples profile, pretending to be part of a couple!"
This would be my concern with a couples profile that had no verifications within six months or so because things change  |
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"Morning all, just wondering what other peoples views and opinions are on the recent verification requirements by some users, we winked a couple to get a cheeky ish message to say they noticed our most recent verification was over 2years ago and wow! , I know this is a while on paper but it doesn't gain credit for meets out with fab,also I am pretty sure there is some people who probably can't or couldn't for whatever reason, thoughts on this?? "
My thought is... am I the only one that thinks that times go quickly?!
My last verif I think is a year old. This happened and that happened and this and that and bang! That's 9, 10 whatever months gone!
If people can't understand that stuff out with Fab happens we'll... tough... see ya!
Great if one can meet regularly but not everyone is in that position, not everyone wants to be in that position.
Do what works for you. You are on here for you. They don't like it or want to take the time to find out what you been up to in that time... tough. Roll eyes and ignore.
Happy fabbing  |
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"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lol"
In which case I would be suspicious, that's a red flag to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then you block and move on
Yes of course, but I was meaning that for me, no veris for a long time and no recent pics of said female are instant red lights, and if it gets to that stage, the way the chat goes, most guys are crap at trying to pretend it's the girl you're speaking with, they're all signs for me that it's just the guy, but not in all cases which means once again we're talking about time wasters!"
ok but as always go with your gut and if you someone thinks it's just the guy then more or less it usually just is.someones time is wasted only by someone letting it be. |
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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago
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I had a spell where my newest Verification was 9 months old...this was only because I had a regular lady who I met once week and two couples who I met occasionally so I wasn`t actively seeking any one else, then I moved house and suddenly it seemed to be a problem for some people. I had been meeting regularly but with the same small circle of friends and we weren`t going to verify each other every week. Also I went into an exclusive relationship for a couple of years 5 years ago so that was a reason for having my last veri 2 years ago. Not sure why it would make a difference but everyone has their reasons I guess. |
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"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lol"
I've been on many yrs and will never photo verify it's a con it verifies nothing imo
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lolI've been on many yrs and will never photo verify it's a con it verifies nothing imo"
Same! I’m real don’t need a piece of paper to say so |
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"I had few displayed but had some twat getting in touch with them telling them to get me to mail them.
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I had this too! I had blocked someone and they messaged my veris asking for pics of me and to get them to tell me to contact them. How about no?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lolI've been on many yrs and will never photo verify it's a con it verifies nothing imo
Same! I’m real don’t need a piece of paper to say so "
who said that??  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Seems everyone so far is on the same page, we weren't sure if we had our own version of thoughts on it, not to mention the couple in question had been members for over a year and still no photo verification themselves, glass houses and stones comes to mind lolI've been on many yrs and will never photo verify it's a con it verifies nothing imo
Same! I’m real don’t need a piece of paper to say so who said that?? "
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’ll give a verification usually for a social meet. I’ll rarely give another verification for a play meet. I’ve known some people for years on here so it would be strange if I was still verifying them. |
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