So been speaking to nice woman for couple of weeks, and arranged to meet for coffee this morning.
Messaged this morning to confirm details and been blocked. Women moan about guys on here, but a some women are not much better. If not interested just say rather wasting two weeks of messaging.  |
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"So been speaking to nice woman for couple of weeks, and arranged to meet for coffee this morning.
Messaged this morning to confirm details and been blocked. Women moan about guys on here, but a some women are not much better. If not interested just say rather wasting two weeks of messaging. "
Had you taken the chat off here?
And you didn’t get stood up if you didn’t even get out the door (just saying)
It happens all the time block her and move on |
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over a year ago
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Everyone is capable of timewasting
However she probably lost interest and didn't know how to say it to you do blocked instead not the best way but you know where you stand |
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"So been speaking to nice woman for couple of weeks, and arranged to meet for coffee this morning.
Messaged this morning to confirm details and been blocked. Women moan about guys on here, but a some women are not much better. If not interested just say rather wasting two weeks of messaging. "
you wernt stood up !
The lady obviously changed her mind & rather than tell you she blooked you or maybe shes blocked you accidently and doesnt realise .. it can happen
Just put it down to experience and move on  |
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Don't understand why people don't have the courtesy to let you know. Things do come up, or someone can have a change of heart, but just let the other person know.
You're not alone OP. Comes with fab unfortunately. I lost track of the amount of no shows and time wasters x |
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"Don't understand why people don't have the courtesy to let you know. Things do come up, or someone can have a change of heart, but just let the other person know.
You're not alone OP. Comes with fab unfortunately. I lost track of the amount of no shows and time wasters x"
Because, sadly it’s the cowardly way of doing things. If someone changed their mind and just told me, I’d respect them more for it and thank them for doing so. |
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In regard to male and female behaviour... there’s good and bad both sides. In regard what happened to you OP, yes I agree it was poor but as also said you weren’t technically stood up. A wee point... it could be she changed her mind but thought she might get ping pong mails of why/what did I do or say wrong/can we still chat etc etc. Sometimes that happens so it’s less hassle to block. As others have said, block and move on  |
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"In regard to male and female behaviour... there’s good and bad both sides. In regard what happened to you OP, yes I agree it was poor but as also said you weren’t technically stood up. A wee point... it could be she changed her mind but thought she might get ping pong mails of why/what did I do or say wrong/can we still chat etc etc. Sometimes that happens so it’s less hassle to block. As others have said, block and move on "
There is no excuse...shes spoke for 2 weeks and arranged a coffee meet. Only when he tried to arrange the details she blocked him. If the timewaster had any decency at all. She should have at least demonstrated why she didnt want too. Nothing to do with Table Tennis.IMO |
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"Don't understand why people don't have the courtesy to let you know. Things do come up, or someone can have a change of heart, but just let the other person know.
You're not alone OP. Comes with fab unfortunately. I lost track of the amount of no shows and time wasters x
Because, sadly it’s the cowardly way of doing things. If someone changed their mind and just told me, I’d respect them more for it and thank them for doing so."
This male and femal cowards out there /// |
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"I've experienced this with every woman that I've arranged to meet on here. Never with a guy."
It's all men that have let me down in the past 4 years as I said above everyone is capable of timewasting |
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"I've experienced this with every woman that I've arranged to meet on here. Never with a guy.
It's all men that have let me down in the past 4 years as I said above everyone is capable of timewasting"
Same here. Definitely not only women who do this x |
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"I've experienced this with every woman that I've arranged to meet on here. Never with a guy.
It's all men that have let me down in the past 4 years as I said above everyone is capable of timewasting
Same here. Definitely not only women who do this x"
Seeing as we’re all in the same boat, we should think about making it rock   |
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"I've experienced this with every woman that I've arranged to meet on here. Never with a guy.
It's all men that have let me down in the past 4 years as I said above everyone is capable of timewasting
Same here. Definitely not only women who do this x
Seeing as we’re all in the same boat, we should think about making it rock "
Clever  |
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"Or it was a guy unless you know for definite it was a woman who created the profile.
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This. Had you only conversed on here or had you spoken to her on the phone? If only here, did the profile have verifications proving she was genuine? If not, you can't be sure it was a real profile.
If she was genuine then as stated above there could be many reasons for her block. Its unfortunate but the nature of the game, I'm afraid. Hopefully next time will be better for you |
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I got stood up this morning so I’ve now amended my profile to say that we need to speak on phone first - if people are genuinely interested in me I guess that won’t be a problem- just a quick call to say hi are u up for meet -yep- good see you then |
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"You didn't technically get stood up then"
Still bullshit but! Doesn’t make it right at all. Way too common in here.
The last meet I had set up text me well after the agreed meet time, where I had been sitting waiting to tell me her “relatives have just turned up” wanted to spend time with them... maybe so but don’t be wasting my time by having me attend the meet, keep me waiting, then stand me up. Cock of a thing to do to someone. |
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Least you got a txt lol
Last guy left me waiting outside a pub..albeit I was sitting in the car but no txt no explanation and he left the site when I clicked on to see if he'd been on to contact me there  |
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"Least you got a txt lol
Last guy left me waiting outside a pub..albeit I was sitting in the car but no txt no explanation and he left the site when I clicked on to see if he'd been on to contact me there "
Would’ve quite honestly rather have been blocked in the morning like the OP. Woulda saved me a wasted journey and a load time text or not. |
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So do I kola...the last guy that stood me up honestly I'd been chatting to for months!
He was always the 1 asking to meet for a social..finally say yes and he goes AWOL on me lol |
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Im a bit like Kola here.
I would need to build up some trust before even getting to a meet stage and thats just for a social.
I find with mutual communication over a period time it can eliminate the issues of ghosting or no shows.On a plus side, it can also build up trust with others possibly looking to interact with me.
It's very contradictory of me in some way as i seem off the cuff spontaneous sexually but i have never since the site began jumped into bed with someone in a matter of days or a couple of weeks.
Touch wood..I've never been stood up or ghosted.
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"Stupid question... what’s ghosted?
I’m you know
Ghosted - the conversation just stops and they never talk to you again"
Ah yes.... have had that on many an occasion as well. I actually think I’ve more people blocked now than what’s live on the site cos of ignorance |
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"Least you got a txt lol
Last guy left me waiting outside a pub..albeit I was sitting in the car but no txt no explanation and he left the site when I clicked on to see if he'd been on to contact me there "
That's just cruel ! |
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