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As ive said on previous posts i just dont get the no kissing rule some insist on ..they will commit the most intimate sexual acts possible but draw the line at kissing because its something that should only be done between couples hmmmmmm |
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I've only experienced the no kissing rule once, makes the whole experience a bit more...dunno...mechanical. it was one of my first 3somes so since then I've often asked if kissing is ok when I'm meeting couples |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
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well someone has to be the first i suppose - we dont do kissing. there are a couple of things we dont do in a meet and keep just for us as a couple and this is one of them. but its on our profile so anyone who feels strongly about it just wont message us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a form of detachment from the whole thing...kissing makes the actual sex personal as opposed to functional... just a thought. Wouldn't be my idea of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a common thing with hoovers, apparently, and is about the dissociation of sex for business and sexy for pleasure. I can understand why some choose it as a rule but there are few scenarios where it would work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol  but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting!  yuk! Lol. Auds.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting! yuk! Lol. Auds.x"
Geeza kiss Auds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knew a couple many years ago where kissing was not allowed except from each other, they didn't get very many meets as a result.
Me, I personally love kissing, it's the one thing that I would not give up for no one. |
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"nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting! yuk! Lol. Auds.x"
Have to agree Auds nothing worse than a sloppy wet kiss espacially with sloppy wet tongues yuckkkkkkkkkkkkk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing is right up there with a blind man walking past the fishmongers and tipping his hat and saying "Morning Ladies" 
I love kissing,it's very sexy and sensual too..good oral hygiene is a must though for both to enjoy the experience of kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No kissing is right up there with a blind man walking past the fishmongers and tipping his hat and saying "Morning Ladies"
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Pmsl 
Couldn't have fun with people that were against kissing but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love kissing, looking at the forum its only TnT that dont do kissing... i find that very strange but hey if they think kissing is more intimate than shagging then cool, i just dont see it myself. Surely shagging my wife is more intimate than kissing her???? |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
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"We love kissing, looking at the forum its only TnT that dont do kissing... i find that very strange but hey if they think kissing is more intimate than shagging then cool, i just dont see it myself. Surely shagging my wife is more intimate than kissing her????"
we didnt say it was more intimate, we said there are some things we like to keep for just us as a couple and this is one of them |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
funland |
"I knew a couple many years ago where kissing was not allowed except from each other, they didn't get very many meets as a result.
Me, I personally love kissing, it's the one thing that I would not give up for no one. "
we havent found getting meets a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But why do you do shagging but no kissing? very very strange to us .... surely sex is more intimate? kissing is intimate also , but just adds to the sexual swinging. Just couldnt do the sex but no kissing, sorry TNT just couldnt |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
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"But why do you do shagging but no kissing? very very strange to us .... surely sex is more intimate? kissing is intimate also , but just adds to the sexual swinging. Just couldnt do the sex but no kissing, sorry TNT just couldnt "
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and neither should you. I couldnt meet a couple, or have bi sex and so i dont. some folk dont like anal or rimming so they dont (i do). We just like some things to be kept for us, so we do. Again i have never said kissing is more intimate than sex as it obviously isnt but is one of a couple of things we choose not to share and never understand why its ok to say no to things like anal but not to kissing - but hey we are all unique in our thoughts and deeds; guys who are interested in a meet can read our profile where it says what we wont share and they can then choose not to contact us.
We have never found it to be an issue and dont have a problem sharing it in the forum either. To each their own as i always say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally respect TnT's choice not to kiss, that's their personal thing, only happened to me once when myself and a female friend met a married couple who both said 'no kissing' my friend told me afterwards that the guy was snogging the face off her in the kitchen!!! |
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"I totally respect TnT's choice not to kiss, that's their personal thing, only happened to me once when myself and a female friend met a married couple who both said 'no kissing' my friend told me afterwards that the guy was snogging the face off her in the kitchen!!!"
lmao hope the mrs aint reading this now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever had one meet where there was no kissing as much as it was still a decent meet you can't get engaged in it as you normally would. It's just I like as part of the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a 1 to 1 meet I need kissing however if meeting a couple I am not fussed if it's there rules  I understand why people won't kiss on meets it's a very intimate thing....sex just just be sex without emotions if you choose it to be that way. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a 1 to 1 meet I need kissing however if meeting a couple I am not fussed if it's there rules I understand why people won't kiss on meets it's a very intimate thing....sex just just be sex without emotions if you choose it to be that way. xx"
Can just**..........typo |
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if person doesnt wish to kiss during a meet then tha is their choice and right .however i will execise my choice and right not to meet them lol !
to me kissing s part and parcle of the whole build up and exsperience .im here to enjoy myself so why denie my self one of life true pleasure of kissing . mmmmmwwwahhhh!!!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally respect TnT's choice not to kiss, that's their personal thing, only happened to me once when myself and a female friend met a married couple who both said 'no kissing' my friend told me afterwards that the guy was snogging the face off her in the kitchen!!!"
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"if person doesnt wish to kiss during a meet then tha is their choice and right .however i will execise my choice and right not to meet them lol !
to me kissing s part and parcle of the whole build up and exsperience .im here to enjoy myself so why denie my self one of life true pleasure of kissing . mmmmmwwwahhhh!!!! xx"
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and just to say why its more intimate... someone is in your face looking into your eyes kissing you and connecting with you.... that's why its different from sex to me...... with sex its just that sex..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't meet anyone I didn't think was worthy of a snog. That rule is usually for call girls lol. Not saying anyone who don't kiss is a call girl btw before I get lynched. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have absolutely no desire to kiss another guy, but love kissing other girls. For me kissing and slow sex is kept for my partner. When we meet guys for mmf I want shared hard and fast, the hot slow intimate stuff follows after our guest has left.
Kissing girls is a completely different issue x
If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have absolutely no desire to kiss another guy, but love kissing other girls. For me kissing and slow sex is kept for my partner. When we meet guys for mmf I want shared hard and fast, the hot slow intimate stuff follows after our guest has left.
Kissing girls is a completely different issue x
If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. X"
curious to know why you wont kiss a guy but will a girl? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a couple a few times who had a no kissing rule. I have to admit I found it bizarre at first.
You can tell a lot about someone from the way they kiss so it can give some good pointers as to what they're like sexually, or at least how they're feeling at that particular moment.
In saying that, the couple I met are so friendly and pleasant that any awkwardness about no kissing was purely on my part and soon disappeared once I got my head around it. And I've met them a few times so it couldn't have been that bad
It's better with kissing IMO, but can work without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me kissing is a big part of fun for me and because it would be girl/girl with me only then the more kissing the better hehe
xx"
Just the thought! Mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to kiss, it adds tot he experience and makes it more alive... but then if someone else is not comfortable doing it I would not push them. Respect their boundaries. |
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lol!! my kisses are more intimate to me than sex.... sex can come without any sort of emotion for many but kissing well its different..... like you have sex with a condom so your protected but when you kiss your not... your swapping fluids with someone and to me its something I want to save for DD.... maybe Kissing is different to others but for me its like when you kiss someone your letting them into your space... its personal enchanting amazing and exquisite... or is that just when I kiss DD???? |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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"lol!! my kisses are more intimate to me than sex.... sex can come without any sort of emotion for many but kissing well its different..... like you have sex with a condom so your protected but when you kiss your not... your swapping fluids with someone and to me its something I want to save for DD.... maybe Kissing is different to others but for me its like when you kiss someone your letting them into your space... its personal enchanting amazing and exquisite... or is that just when I kiss DD???? "
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Don't see it as any different from other likes and dislikes. There is a number of things i do with my partner that i would never do with someone else and it is my choice. If it results in getting less meets from people who will only meet if kissing is part of it then so be it but have never found it a problem so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have absolutely no desire to kiss another guy, but love kissing other girls. For me kissing and slow sex is kept for my partner. When we meet guys for mmf I want shared hard and fast, the hot slow intimate stuff follows after our guest has left.
Kissing girls is a completely different issue x
If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. Xcurious to know why you wont kiss a guy but will a girl?"
Sorry just saw this, dead simple really, it's my choice. Also, I have a guy at home to snog all night, but I dont have a girl at home. My sexual plays with guys who join us are always threesomes, not slow intimate sex, I have that with my partner. However the sex I have with girls is slow and kissing is a part of it. Having sex with guys and girls is totally a different scenario
Each to their own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol!! my kisses are more intimate to me than sex.... sex can come without any sort of emotion for many but kissing well its different..... like you have sex with a condom so your protected but when you kiss your not... your swapping fluids with someone and to me its something I want to save for DD.... maybe Kissing is different to others but for me its like when you kiss someone your letting them into your space... its personal enchanting amazing and exquisite... or is that just when I kiss DD???? "
I'd be hoping to swap fluids thru oral lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" My sexual plays with guys who join us are always threesomes, not slow intimate sex, I have that with my partner. However the sex I have with girls is slow and kissing is a part of it. Having sex with guys and girls is totally a different scenario
Each to their own x"
And you apply the same rules when you meet couples? (i.e. you only kiss the female half and not the male). |
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