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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone have their own individual reasons for being here. And just wondering if yous want to share those reasons.
Mine......
I came out a relationship a year ago to which after going through heel for my then partner and her family I got a big raw deal!!! So I'm here for now to hopefully meet nice people, have some fun and see from there.... I'd like to discover the scene with a partner in crime or find a special FWB with a social element. |
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"Everyone have their own individual reasons for being here. And just wondering if yous want to share those reasons.
Mine......
I came out a relationship a year ago to which after going through heel for my then partner and her family I got a big raw deal!!! So I'm here for now to hopefully meet nice people, have some fun and see from there.... I'd like to discover the scene with a partner in crime or find a special FWB with a social element."
Sex plain and simple  |
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Fab suits me. After a bad relationship ended i made up my mind to continue with my life as a single women. Not easy when you like male company and still passionate about sex. I dont want dated but being able to enjoy carefree funtimes with the opposite sex whenever i can is a bonus and adds a spark to my busy life and a smile to my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not?  ffs ah was about to post that"
If yer no fast, yer last!
I thought you'd be super fast at typing too, coming from Coatbridge and having those extra fingers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How do you tell people on pof etc that you like 3 somes and don't want to be exclusive. On here it's a given that whoever your chatting to is into that or at least your into that yourself. I also don't want a relationship. On here people are a lot more open and can handle my cheek and sarcasm. It hasn't went down well on other sites |
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"Why not? ffs ah was about to post that
If yer no fast, yer last!
I thought you'd be super fast at typing too, coming from Coatbridge and having those extra fingers "
to busy poking her jaw with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not? ffs ah was about to post that
If yer no fast, yer last!
I thought you'd be super fast at typing too, coming from Coatbridge and having those extra fingers to busy poking her jaw with them "
Thought that said "maw" at first! |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"How do you tell people on pof etc that you like 3 somes and don't want to be exclusive. On here it's a given that whoever your chatting to is into that or at least your into that yourself. I also don't want a relationship. On here people are a lot more open and can handle my cheek and sarcasm. It hasn't went down well on other sites"
Unless they are also on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you tell people on pof etc that you like 3 somes and don't want to be exclusive. On here it's a given that whoever your chatting to is into that or at least your into that yourself. I also don't want a relationship. On here people are a lot more open and can handle my cheek and sarcasm. It hasn't went down well on other sites"
I don't really like threesomes so not sure it is a given |
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Purely and simply to have a decent and regular sex life before I’m completely old and wrinkly and no one will look twice at me
It also amuses me from time to time reading messages, statuses and posts
It’s a little bit like a secret club too |
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"It should be self explanatory why folks are on here.
Dont want to date anyone but likes fun."
Not necessarily, I would date someone but most of the people on pof/tinder are the ones looking for just fun so prefer fab for its ‘honesty’ (obviously I use this word lightly)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because my partner (female) thought she might like to play with other women - and she was right! On our very first foray, the other couple couldn’t believe it was her first time!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It should be self explanatory why folks are on here.
Dont want to date anyone but likes fun."
Should it? Theres a catalogue of reasons not just 1. And I'm curious to here others views |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Purely and simply to have a decent and regular sex life before I’m completely old and wrinkly and no one will look twice at me
It also amuses me from time to time reading messages, statuses and posts
I'd love to help you there x
It’s a little bit like a secret club too"
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Think it says in my profile. Lots of things i want to exlore and try and push some boundaries.
Just wish i had more time to actually get into Fab life... Roll on next year when my weekends will hopefully be my own again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think it says in my profile. Lots of things i want to exlore and try and push some boundaries.
Just wish i had more time to actually get into Fab life... Roll on next year when my weekends will hopefully be my own again"
I'd love to be part of your journey x |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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Good question that I’ve never really thought about....
So, .... got tired of meeting guys dogging. So came on here for the occasional meets. As it wasn’t a dead cert meeting when out and about dogging.
But, met a good few really, really nice people, who are now good friends. So the main reason has changed to being more sociable and outgoing.
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After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation."
A very sincere reply.
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"After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation."
Sorry to hear you lost your wife and hope you find some comfort and friendships on here to make your life easier.x |
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"After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation.
A very sincere reply.
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Sorry I came over all serious there, don't worry I'll be back to posting my usual funny witty stuff soon  |
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Firstly I enjoy sex and where better to find sex with like minded people than a swinging site. Being open minded it’s easier to suggest things to fellow dirty bastards than it is to bring up in conversation to someone on an other dating app in quick time
I also thought that this would create less drama but I’ve had my fair share of drama queens on here, some have started projecting claiming they don’t do drama whatsoever yet they brought nothing but drama to me
It has its advantages but deep down we’re all human with our own flaws and demons, no matter whether we meet in a bar, pof or on here |
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"After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation.
Sorry to hear you lost your wife and hope you find some comfort and friendships on here to make your life easier.x"
Thanks, I'm happy, we had a great life, I just don't have the ability to give a girl the emotional bond they deserve now, which is why this life suits me, I don't meet or even try to that much on here as I have 2 very good friends that I see once or twice a month. I realise there's s lot of really nice people on here and you'll instinctively want to write something nice, which is fine, I can't stop you, so I'll say thanks to you all for your wishes in this msg xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After my wife passed I tried to have a relationship, but the only thing I liked about being with another woman was our intimate liaisons, I felt it was unfair on the other girls if they were developing feelings for me but I couldn't for them! I heard about fab and felt being single and meeting with people who only wanted friendship and of course sex was ideal for my situation.
Sorry to hear you lost your wife and hope you find some comfort and friendships on here to make your life easier.x
Thanks, I'm happy, we had a great life, I just don't have the ability to give a girl the emotional bond they deserve now, which is why this life suits me, I don't meet or even try to that much on here as I have 2 very good friends that I see once or twice a month. I realise there's s lot of really nice people on here and you'll instinctively want to write something nice, which is fine, I can't stop you, so I'll say thanks to you all for your wishes in this msg xx"
Great you have found a way forward and some sort of balance in life. I share you place with the emotional element. My last partner took so so much out of me as a person and I struggle to let anyone close again. |
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