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over a year ago
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On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..
In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.
My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".
It would be easier in saying a colour.
I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.
I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.
1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?
2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?
3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?
4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?
Whats your thoughts..GO
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"On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..
In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.
My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".
It would be easier in saying a colour.
I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.
I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.
1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?
2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?
3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?
4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?
Whats your thoughts..GO
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Iv been asked to wear certain undies of got on I pics.
Sometimes b4 a meet while we are chatting I'l ask if they have a face colour and dress accordingly. But for the most part just dress in a nice skirt, blouse and heels and always colour coordinate undies and jewlery so I (hope) I look presentable x |
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I've been asked to wear or not wear particular clothing for a social meet. I find the conversation on my part quickly dries up after that.
For fun meets I wear whatever makes me feel confident at the time although sometimes a conversation can spark an idea for an outfit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I really wanted to impress then yes, I would perhaps wear what they were asking me to. As long as it wasn't completely ridiculous, don't see anything wrong with turning someone even further in the lead up to some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If asked to wear full sexy attire for initial coffee meet its a put off
If its a meet with someone who iv got to know and had some teasing chats and you know certain undies add to the tease for planned fun meet for both then yes id wear certain things as it would make me feel good too as im not a naked type person sexy undies make me feel good too as well as the person id be having fun with ..hopfully  |
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Given most pics are topless/naked ....I haven't really directed the women to wear 'X Y or Z'for me as it tends to come off at some stage.
I am always showered, shaved and dressed smart for meets.
The only exception is I have been talking to an utter fruitcake-dont worry she is on the same level as me...both of us are fruit cakes and share similar sexual experiences......I have asked she wear a dress for me...only because we will be playing a "game" when we meet for a drink.... |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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I suppose its as long as both parties are comfortable with the request and how the conversation went before hand. Probably a conversation for a second or third meet when both are comfortable with each other.
I'd be happy to wear what a woman asked for as long as it was in context of the occasion and not ridiculous...I wouldnt dress in a clown outfit at the pub.
It's by far a deal breaker though if she says bolt ya rocket.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll wear what I want obviously depending on where we're meeting but I'd only dress up in the sexy stuff if I was comfortable doing so. Other than than that, take me as I am or not at all. It's about the person and not the clothes. You can still look sexy in a top and a pair of jeans x |
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"On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..
In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.
My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".
It would be easier in saying a colour.
I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.
I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.
1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?
2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?
3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?
4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?
Whats your thoughts..GO
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for me its all about pleasing my playmate as well as me so yes on occation I have asked what they would like me to wear.
However I dont dress to impress & will wear something I like & hope they will like too and yes comfort is important too |
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"If asked to wear full sexy attire for initial coffee meet its a put off
If its a meet with someone who iv got to know and had some teasing chats and you know certain undies add to the tease for planned fun meet for both then yes id wear certain things as it would make me feel good too as im not a naked type person sexy undies make me feel good too as well as the person id be having fun with ..hopfully "
I agree that if it's someone I know, then chatting about clothing, and the associated possibilities can be a great tease before meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its stockings and heeled boots that does it for me. But the main thing is the lady feels comfy and sexy and wanted!! I guess it something you built upto by getting to know the person ultimately |
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"Short skirt, no knickers, crop top and no bra. High heels, of course!
That's fine for the blokes, but what about the ladies?
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True, and I'm lucky enough my wife obliges...
She likes me in a suit. |
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Whenever Ive been asked my responce is "whatever you want".
But if im being honest I hope she'll turn up in a dress or skirt but regardless im a big believer when it comes to meeting fir sex that it looks better on a pile on the floor.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve also been asked to dress a certain way for a social. I’m those cases it’s a swift block....
For a play meet I do ask if they have any particular kinks or fantasies and I’m usually happy to oblige.
The common answer is stockings and a strapon which happens to be my fave too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks "
I've always found nice wee bits and pieces in H&M. |
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If you have been chatting for a wee while you may already have discussed likes and dislikes so no harm in discussing what to wear.
For fun meets where you already have good chat between you then fantasies may have been discussed so naturally outfits discussed to which adds to the excitement pre meet and makes the actual fun all the better
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As guy or Ivana I don’t mind wearing what people like . If I was meeting a woman for the first time from here I’d definitely ask her how she likes her man to look . I’d just keep my fingers crossed she was in hosiery . |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks
Primark. "
Lidl they have some “interesting” underwear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be happy to wear anything requested unless I found it uncomfortable/constricting, I would take it on an individual basis.
If asked I have a kink for a woman in a bikini so that would be my request |
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