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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it harder than you think to get a social meet with females/couples .out for a few drinks and chat.know theres lots of fakes on here but we have lots of picts and have cammed so anybody can see we’re not fakes.be good to see how others have found this subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm meeting as a single fem I always insist on a social 1st.
When I'm meeting as a cpl with my husband we prepare to chat on here then meet for sex..too much faffing about at socials with cpls dinner drinks ect we do that with real mates we are not on here looking for mates lol
If that makes sense lol |
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We're a couple who prefer social meets first, unless meeting at CJs. Not met anyone for ages as the majority of messages we get are from numpties, and when I've gone hunting myself no one's taken my eye. Rather dull here at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for anyone. Getting a male to agree to a social is easy but getting himto turn up or not cancel beforehand is a different story.
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I must be the exception to the rule |
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"thanks,thought it was just us lol.deffo like the 1 meet social and 2 fun meet"
Thats how it usually works for us especially as we go with personality first and foremost. It gives us and the other couple first hand opportunity to sense how things might go. |
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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago
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We prefer a social first unless meeting in a club.
We struggle to get a weekend where both of us have a joint free weekend and then other couple can meet but a social allows us to walk away from weird people and never see them again.
It also allows the other couple to walk away from us if they think we are weird. No awkward excuses needed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Def agree with a social meet first to see if we all get on and theres an attraction then see what happens from there and everyone is happy to take it further, if not then no hard feelings we are all adults. Be open and honest about what we all want from a meet right from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for anyone. Getting a male to agree to a social is easy but getting himto turn up or not cancel beforehand is a different story.
" a man that stood you up would be known as a fool ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it is hard for us to find the time for a meet.
We have advertised a meet twice on here to make the night special.
There were few replies but of those that did make an effort there were fakes, people who said they would come and then could not and some total nutters.
In the end we decided it must be us no so now just go to CJ's when the need arises. |
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