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What gives single guys a bad name.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To clarify it has only happened once with a guy off here. All other single guys have been respectful. What I meant is this single guy could ruin things for others. He has a ton of verifications as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To clarify it has only happened once with a guy off here. All other single guys have been respectful. What I meant is this single guy could ruin things for others. He has a ton of verifications as well. "
How exactly could he ruin it for others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all the years I've been on this site it's been the couples that tend to cause the most trouble for me.
The worst and most insulting messages I have had have come from couples.
There are many couples who feel that they are somehow better than others or are more entitled.
It's been couples who have taken exception to me when I openly state I'm not a "swinger"
In general most men I've encountered have been perfectly fine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all the years I've been on this site it's been the couples that tend to cause the most trouble for me.
The worst and most insulting messages I have had have come from couples.
There are many couples who feel that they are somehow better than others or are more entitled.
It's been couples who have taken exception to me when I openly state I'm not a "swinger"
In general most men I've encountered have been perfectly fine.
Sinderella
Head of PR for single men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all the years I've been on this site it's been the couples that tend to cause the most trouble for me.
The worst and most insulting messages I have had have come from couples.
There are many couples who feel that they are somehow better than others or are more entitled.
It's been couples who have taken exception to me when I openly state I'm not a "swinger"
In general most men I've encountered have been perfectly fine.
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What a delightful Lass x   |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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It’s probably the sense of entitlement.
“We’re on a sex site and everybody should want to have sex with me!”
Seeing a female friend on here’s inbox (and a couples one that was almost as bad) some of the messages that get thrown about are horrific.
Not to say all men are like that. I am, though, absolutely nightmare. Some of the horrific messages I’ve sent...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards."
I'm confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards."
This is the sort of post we need the popcorn gif for. Tremendous. |
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused "
WALLPAPERS???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????"
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral "
Jason, you just made me laugh  |
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral "
Left her like a painters tranny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral
Jason, you just made me laugh "
I don't believe you |
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral
Left her like a painters tranny"
She was overcome with emulsion |
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral
Left her like a painters tranny
She was overcome with emulsion "
Hahahahahaha!!! Hahaha! |
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too.
onwards and upwards.
I'm confused WALLPAPERS????
One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral
Left her like a painters tranny
She was overcome with emulsion Hahahahahaha!!! Hahaha! "
You shouldn’t taint us all with the same paint brush |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour "
It’s only rude if you’re in a relationship. If your two single people that meet as a couple to play then why shouldn’t he pass on his number.
Some couples play separately as well. Wouldn’t be the first time I’ve met one half of a couple on their own. Does that make me a ‘shady lady’! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree if hes part of a married cpl that's shit and should be blocked.
Iv had a guy message behind his partners back asking to meet on the sly and it's not cool and got told that!!
If as someone said they were a FB cpl maybe he was just being polite to his partner not to ask you in front of her for another meet?.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour
It’s only rude if you’re in a relationship. If your two single people that meet as a couple to play then why shouldn’t he pass on his number.
Some couples play separately as well. Wouldn’t be the first time I’ve met one half of a couple on their own. Does that make me a ‘shady lady’! "
we were engaged. together 3 1/2 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour "
So has your partner now left you for the single guy???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour
So has your partner now left you for the single guy???
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no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral |
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour
So has your partner now left you for the single guy???
Wouldn’t it be better to have a new profile if it’s a different female on it now?
no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour
So has your partner now left you for the single guy???
no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral"
so why are you on a cpls profile still? Or is this a new female?
Confused.com |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So the cheebs are new cheebs not the old cheebs you traded in?
And does the wee dirty who was looking for boaby at the funeral have a new account of her own by any chance?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So the cheebs are new cheebs not the old cheebs you traded in?
And does the wee dirty who was looking for boaby at the funeral have a new account of her own by any chance? "
Not that I know of but I’m sure she will soon enough. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New female on this profile now. Well great girl I was seeing before I stupidly went back to ex after thinking I could make it work. "
This thread isn't exactly gonna have her feeling like a million dollars |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour "
I think vulnerable relationships might be at risk with this however every couple must assume the consequences of the MMF dynamic and ensure they are both open and honest with proceedings and how things evolve.
My view is that slipping a number whether hubbs is present or not is not shady but it is up to you both to decide if it's a red flag. Sometimes the lady holds complete control to manage these situations which means cards can be slipped at any time. |
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it. "
I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you |
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Despite explaining to single guys we befriend that we have very little free time what with work, life, families and kids and we will contact them we we have a meet planned......
Every time we pop onto fab for a wee looksee we get swamped with messages from same said guys!!
Are you free? What you up to? When can I come round? Etc, etc, etc!!!!!!!
So we explain to them again about our free time and it still happens the next time we log on!!!
Are they stupid, cheeky, pushy or just simply goldfish???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Despite explaining to single guys we befriend that we have very little free time what with work, life, families and kids and we will contact them we we have a meet planned......
Every time we pop onto fab for a wee looksee we get swamped with messages from same said guys!!
Are you free? What you up to? When can I come round? Etc, etc, etc!!!!!!!
So we explain to them again about our free time and it still happens the next time we log on!!!
Are they stupid, cheeky, pushy or just simply goldfish???
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Why do they not have the right too ask you for a fuck ?
Albeit its not my approach, but dont tarnish people who do. They are on a site for sex just like you. Whether you agree with it or not, Fab has given you the filters to eliminate that if necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it.
I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you"
Profile pics and name has been changed but to our old profile name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What gives single guys a bad name is having a couples profile
Part of a new couple. Or a rekindled couple. "
I dont see any issue in what youve done OP ..
Good luck...People should focus on what they are doing rather than others are doing
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By *TBSMan
over a year ago
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!!
What do HTBS and I prove ?
That many single guys don’t fully read and understand what is written in profiles, messages and posts!"
I read exactly what you wrote and I replied with my opinion,that opinion had no bearing on the meat of your post but on one line of it.If you have taken offence to that then that is your issue and yours alone.
You cannot lambast a group on here without expecting that group to a) comment or b) defend themselves. |
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ?
Total shady behaviour "
Quite a few times
Always gets the same answer it's ok D has it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!!
What do HTBS and I prove ?
That many single guys don’t fully read and understand what is written in profiles, messages and posts!"
Many people do..Sometimes what they read can appearfalse.
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"Despite explaining to single guys we befriend that we have very little free time what with work, life, families and kids and we will contact them we we have a meet planned......
Every time we pop onto fab for a wee looksee we get swamped with messages from same said guys!!
Are you free? What you up to? When can I come round? Etc, etc, etc!!!!!!!
So we explain to them again about our free time and it still happens the next time we log on!!!
Are they stupid, cheeky, pushy or just simply goldfish???
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This has happened to me with a few couples and singles. At first great chat going well, even meeting for social and more ect but then explain that I don't have time with life getting busy. Lots of messages always asking to meet and gets to the point where the attraction gets eroded away.
I think these people are just being overly keen, I find it flattering but exhausting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont get this. We're new but how does pretending to be a couple benefit you in meeting people? Surely someones going to notice the other half to be missing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont get this. We're new but how does pretending to be a couple benefit you in meeting people? Surely someones going to notice the other half to be missing lol"
Usually gives access to private pics, he rips the head off it a few times, deletes profile, creates new profile.... eat, wank, repeat..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely they should stick to porn, its less effort lol."
I think some get off on the deception though and a sense of having got one over on someone. Have encountered a few. |
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it.
I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you
Profile pics and name has been changed but to our old profile name. "
Ok but in 3 weeks you have had 2 partners apparently and can I ask you who are the verifications you have got 3 weeks ago was they of people you met with the old partner ? |
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"Biggest arseholes I've met on here are couples....."
No single guys quoted your comment for fear of giving themselves "a bad name" Doggy?
Its all politics and manipulation,if somebody arses up a meet for whatever reason the person or couple have been given a reason to not meet them again,in time possibly the person that arsed it up will realise they made an arse of it.
Thats universal, singles/couples are capable of doing it.
I would take someone trying to be sleakit and trying to arrange somthing secretively as a sign that they are desparate due to a lack of success on here and trying to create a sure thing if all other options fail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff "
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason "
Im sure "people" ask plenty of questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be so grateful just to be given the chance to meet "
I know the feeling I was talking to a women then she just disappeared out of no were and most women just think there better than everyone else but there is some generally nice ones on here
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Probably the worst is the sense of entitlement. I'm on a sex site so I must be available to fuck anyone who asks, at any given time.
I have recently had a message from a couple profile that was from the male, asking to meet behind his partner's back. That I don't understand, in this lifestyle there's really no need to be sneaking around!
Other than the entitlement the thing that really gets on my tits is people not reading the profile. It's really not difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying 
That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack "
You're maybe asking the wrong questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying
That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack
You're maybe asking the wrong questions "
nah people will go to all lengths on here to lie, nowt to do with me asking the right or wrong questions.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying
That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack
You're maybe asking the wrong questions nah people will go to all lengths on here to lie, nowt to do with me asking the right or wrong questions.. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason "
Or people could just be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason
Or people could just be honest."
It's naive to think that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason
Or people could just be honest.
It's naive to think that "
It's not naive to think that people should be honest. It is naive to think that all people are being honest all of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole
I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying.
Lyibg about being single
Lying about havin an 8 inch cock
Lying about being able to accommodate
U know the important stuff
That's why people should ask more questions.
Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason
Or people could just be honest.
It's naive to think that
It's not naive to think that people should be honest. It is naive to think that all people are being honest all of the time."
Agreed |
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It’s jot one group that seems to be my issue. For me my annoyances are those who think cos I’m here, they’re entitled to a shag and get all pissy when I say I'm not interested, almost as bad as the “but why not? What’s wrong with me” brigade
My major annoyance though is not reading my profile. I’ve recently moved and I don’t know if people are having a problem with distance showing wrong in the app or folk just reading with a hard on lol
I’m getting message from folk in other countries like Portugal etc asking for a meet when my profile states I’m in Spain
Nowt so queer as folk |
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"Usually not reading a profile, we've had this on our couples profile a lot.
No shows is another, along with guys messaging me to try and get with my other half. There's a list "
All of these, but just folk being really rude and ignorant and self entitled.
I have to say that although we have had issues with single guys, all groups are guilty of these things and finding at the moment it’s more couples and single females that we are getting frustrated with atm x |
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