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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"
you can report them I'm sure..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"
The same person? 
It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it. |
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"Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down... "
Just really annoying, get hair nails and makeup done. House spotless and they send you a message a hour before they are supposed to arrive saying that they have to work late. |
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"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us
The same person?
You're probably right.
Just seems to happen all the time. Think that we will just stick to club meets
It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down...
Just really annoying, get hair nails and makeup done. House spotless and they send you a message a hour before they are supposed to arrive saying that they have to work late."
annoying, just sad individuals |
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"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us
The same person?
Not the same person you do that to us once and you're blocked
It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's never nice to be let down when you've made the effort...but maybe it was a genuine excuse.
Also..if someone decides they dont want sex no matter if its an hour before or whatever..they have the right to decline. No meams No.
Move on from it OP and good luck with your search
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I got called a time waster the other night because I told someone who was 300miles away that I didn’t think meeting was going to work. He got huffy Mc huffy face and then when I lol’d at his huffyness got abuse and called a time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's never nice to be let down when you've made the effort...but maybe it was a genuine excuse.
Also..if someone decides they dont want sex no matter if its an hour before or whatever..they have the right to decline. No meams No.
Move on from it OP and good luck with your search
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This . People are allowed to change their minds too . An hour before isn't lots of time but it's also not as bad as just not showing up .
You still have each other .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d always have a back up but tell the back up he was the back up if you got me . As a single female or couple it’s not a difficult thing to arrange I’d imagine |
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"I’d always have a back up but tell the back up he was the back up if you got me . As a single female or couple it’s not a difficult thing to arrange I’d imagine "
Ive started to do this,as long as the person is aware they are a back up and are ok with it ,as 3 times this week we have been let down after 3 months on here this is the worst week ,as its been ok so far ,all since ive dropped my age range to cover under 40s ,might change back .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens far too often and can actually be a total confidence killer. I’ve been dressed in suspenders waiting at the top of my stairs and it was a no show. I’ve had some awful excuses from “sorry I slept in” to “I had to pop into town to get my daughter a hair band” (not joking). As most have said, it will happen from time to time it really sucks! L xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Omg. Is 'fantasists' and 'bottler' the words used to berate on here? Haha. Calling someone a bottler is basically bullying and pressuring. Right? Bullying and pressuring someone into sex. Do we all know what that's called? The fucking weird twisted morals on here. No matter who it is. Couple. Male. Female. TV/TS or fucking furry. No matter if you took 12 hours and painted yourself in gold fucking leaf. If your planning or in the middle of sex. If someone changes their mind. Then who the hell are any of us to ever refuse that request. No means no. Stop means stop. Quite sickened by the prevailing attitudes here.
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i agree that there are alot of fantasists on here but thats like any swing site and the time wasters spoil it for the real folk who do meet when they say they will
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i for one will all ways meet when i say i will as i know folk go to some lengths to get ready. |
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"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"
At least you're compensated by the amount of fun you've had thru your many meets on here. 
Joking aside, I'm the complete opposite in that I've had more no shows than actual meets, even users who shamelessly post on forums about no shows.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the nature of the beast on here I’m afraid. 
Although I can’t say we’ve ever been stood up or let down.
And it certainly wouldn’t stop us from having fun if we were.   |
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"Omg. Is 'fantasists' and 'bottler' the words used to berate on here? Haha. Calling someone a bottler is basically bullying and pressuring. Right? Bullying and pressuring someone into sex. Do we all know what that's called? The fucking weird twisted morals on here. No matter who it is. Couple. Male. Female. TV/TS or fucking furry. No matter if you took 12 hours and painted yourself in gold fucking leaf. If your planning or in the middle of sex. If someone changes their mind. Then who the hell are any of us to ever refuse that request. No means no. Stop means stop. Quite sickened by the prevailing attitudes here.
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I've been with quite a few girls that no didn't mean no and stop didn't mean stop!! I'm confused now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.
An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!! |
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"Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.
An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!! "
You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.
An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!
You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude "
Just an observation of my time so far.
Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.
I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss.  |
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"Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.
An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!
You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude
Just an observation of my time so far.
Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.
I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss. "
Try to focus less on the goal |
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"Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.
An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!
You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude
Just an observation of my time so far.
Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.
I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss.
Try to focus less on the goal "
Well I never, do that. |
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It might be open to abuse but surely a rating system or way of reporting no shows would be better and maybe cut down the problem. I can kinda accept people ghosting me after we’ve chatted, but agreeing to meet and then not showing.....nah |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"It might be open to abuse but surely a rating system or way of reporting no shows would be better and maybe cut down the problem. I can kinda accept people ghosting me after we’ve chatted, but agreeing to meet and then not showing.....nah "
Like Uber ? |
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By *irigraMan
over a year ago
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I’m my couples profile we chatted to a verified couple for over 2mths and they asked for a daytime meet but we were working so took the day off and you guessed it the night before blocked us wtf |
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