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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a bit annoyed when someone doesn't reciprocate a veri... Does it happen often?
Also when they choose not to show yours when their other ones are viewable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends - but for the most part yes it's polite to reciprocate an arranged and planned meet. Though to play devil's advocate I was once verified by a random person when in chat on cam, I did not return the favour as I felt it was inappropriate. As to showing them, that's entirely up to the person. |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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You show no veris and your profile says discretion is important so perhaps that's why he didn't veri you?
You'd be better asking him instead of whinging in public to be honest  |
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"Just a bit annoyed when someone doesn't reciprocate a veri... Does it happen often?
Also when they choose not to show yours when their other ones are viewable."
why does it matter just because im nosey and i ask folk not to veri me anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social meet recently and we got on okay. I chose not to meet up again but i tried to veri her but at the time i couldnt because i hadnt been veried myself. I asked her to veri me and she refused and said it wasnt her thing then she asked what i was going to say in my veri of her lol
We still chat here so there is no hard feelings.
Everyone has there own ideas on it i suppose and also for showing them. |
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The saying
If you have nothing good to say then say nothing at all
Comes to mind lol.
But then again people are lazy. If you still spoke afterwards then ask. Some people just don't think once they got what they wanted |
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I have met people and we haven’t verified each other, I usually only verify if asked or receive one.
I have some so that’s enough for people to know I’m not fake and wouldn’t display any that are graphic anyway. Don’t mind social ones though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened once and I was mightily pissed off then realised I was over reacting. People can and should be able to do as they please on here.
With regards to not showing verifications I don't show mine purely to irritate the nosey bastards. My favourite all time one which I used to show disappeared when the person left the site. |
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I think veris are a bit pointless. I return veris out of politeness but would not care if they did not bother. I only show some of mine although they have all been visible at some point. They all read similar so become rather tedious to read i imagine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't need someone to verify me as I just don't show them anymore. It would depend on who it was as well. I do think that men need verifications more than women as they find it more difficult to get meets if they're not verified  x |
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"I always return veris, but don't write them first. On the one occasion that I asked if my meet wanted a veri, I felt like a bit of a prat, so I just wait and see  "
You're a fly one! There I keep meeting you every week trying to improve my skills so I can get that special veri and all I had to do was give you a veri first!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are veris worth anything ?
Who ever leaves or would show a bad one ?
Every lady on fab is stunning and every guy is amazing and knows what he’s doing .
It’s genuinely the most successful sex site ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just makes you think that they didn't enjoy you that's all x
I agree 100% with this. Kinda feel like confidence has taking a hit with them not verifying you back. "
Or they do verify you in return and it's just out of politeness, especially when it's one line, short and to the point. No one's looking for a big story but a verification like that sounds like they just feel obliged to say something but they're obviously not sure what to say. I wouldn't show a verification like that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are veris worth anything ?
Who ever leaves or would show a bad one ?
Every lady on fab is stunning and every guy is amazing and knows what he’s doing .
It’s genuinely the most successful sex site ever "
Yep...."amazing finger and oral skills"...
That could just mean he's shit hot on the piano and harmonica but a snide ride! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a bit annoyed when someone doesn't reciprocate a veri... Does it happen often?
Also when they choose not to show yours when their other ones are viewable."
Some will and some won’t.
Does it bother or annoy us?
Hell no, each to their own
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The unwritten rules of verifications
So here's what works for me. If my meet gives me one - doesn't matter whether I displays it or not, I give one back. If my meet asks for one, I give them one. If they display it on their profile it's common courtesy to give one back. If they don't display it on their profile I'm not fussed whether I get one back or not.
The ones who ask for one, display it on their profile and not give one back are in general dickheads. They have their verification, you served your purpose and are no longer worth any effort. They tend to end up on the block list sooner or later, so they can't display the verification. These are exceptions though, only happened twice since I joined fab.
I never give one first, unless they ask x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The unwritten rules of verifications
So here's what works for me. If my meet gives me one - doesn't matter whether I displays it or not, I give one back. If my meet asks for one, I give them one. If they display it on their profile it's common courtesy to give one back. If they don't display it on their profile I'm not fussed whether I get one back or not.
The ones who ask for one, display it on their profile and not give one back are in general dickheads. They have their verification, you served your purpose and are no longer worth any effort. They tend to end up on the block list sooner or later, so they can't display the verification. These are exceptions though, only happened twice since I joined fab.
I never give one first, unless they ask x"
What would you do if say, you gave a verification first, the person displays it then gives you a verification in return but it's just out of politeness and that verification is only one sentence long and pretty lousy? I certainly wouldn't show a veri like that x |
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"The unwritten rules of verifications
So here's what works for me. If my meet gives me one - doesn't matter whether I displays it or not, I give one back. If my meet asks for one, I give them one. If they display it on their profile it's common courtesy to give one back. If they don't display it on their profile I'm not fussed whether I get one back or not.
The ones who ask for one, display it on their profile and not give one back are in general dickheads. They have their verification, you served your purpose and are no longer worth any effort. They tend to end up on the block list sooner or later, so they can't display the verification. These are exceptions though, only happened twice since I joined fab.
I never give one first, unless they ask x
What would you do if say, you gave a verification first, the person displays it then gives you a verification in return but it's just out of politeness and that verification is only one sentence long and pretty lousy? I certainly wouldn't show a veri like that x"
Wouldn't display it, potential block list as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it depends what you use veris for. I’ve always used them to show people I’m genuine and to give a general overview of what I’m like.
I don’t show them all as I don’t see the point. If someone doesn’t verify me, I’m not too fussed
as I have enough already.
I think for some people it’s about ego though and they seem to want everyone to know they’ve had a meet and the ego boost of a (usually unnecessarily graphic) veri.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The unwritten rules of verifications
So here's what works for me. If my meet gives me one - doesn't matter whether I displays it or not, I give one back. If my meet asks for one, I give them one. If they display it on their profile it's common courtesy to give one back. If they don't display it on their profile I'm not fussed whether I get one back or not.
The ones who ask for one, display it on their profile and not give one back are in general dickheads. They have their verification, you served your purpose and are no longer worth any effort. They tend to end up on the block list sooner or later, so they can't display the verification. These are exceptions though, only happened twice since I joined fab.
I never give one first, unless they ask x
What would you do if say, you gave a verification first, the person displays it then gives you a verification in return but it's just out of politeness and that verification is only one sentence long and pretty lousy? I certainly wouldn't show a veri like that x
Wouldn't display it, potential block list as well "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just makes you think that they didn't enjoy you that's all x
More likely he’s been chatting to another and lining her up to meet etc and doesn’t want to show what he’s been up to "
Men do that ?????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For men on here verifications are vital for any potential meets as they clarify that you are in fact a genuine person, the fact he didn't show her verification suggests he didn't enjoy her company or didn't enjoy the meet bit either way its up to the individual if they show or hide veris, I prefer to show mines as a way of showing females that i am an unbelievable meet and they should arrange something with me lololol |
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"For men on here verifications are vital for any potential meets as they clarify that you are in fact a genuine person, the fact he didn't show her verification suggests he didn't enjoy her company or didn't enjoy the meet bit either way its up to the individual if they show or hide veris, I prefer to show mines as a way of showing females that i am an unbelievable meet and they should arrange something with me lololol "
Not vital at all for a man to display veris. Maybe he has too many and gets dogs abuse from females because of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For men on here verifications are vital for any potential meets as they clarify that you are in fact a genuine person, the fact he didn't show her verification suggests he didn't enjoy her company or didn't enjoy the meet bit either way its up to the individual if they show or hide veris, I prefer to show mines as a way of showing females that i am an unbelievable meet and they should arrange something with me lololol
Not vital at all for a man to display veris. Maybe he has too many and gets dogs abuse from females because of them. "
I have never got dogs abuse for showing my veris but if I did I wouldn't hide them anyways |
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I don’t display all my veris, and the ones that are hidden generally are more crude or explicit and personally I’m not a fan of that type of verification.
Also I don’t display ones that are from ages ago because well, who cares! |
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"Just a bit annoyed when someone doesn't reciprocate a veri... Does it happen often?
Also when they choose not to show yours when their other ones are viewable."
Have to say just looked at your profile and maybe I'm 4 days late but going by your profile, no displayed or no summary it a bitch rich to complain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are veris worth anything ?
Who ever leaves or would show a bad one ?
Every lady on fab is stunning and every guy is amazing and knows what he’s doing .
It’s genuinely the most successful sex site ever "
It's true, every bj is the 'best ever' all women can 'suck golf balls through hose pipes' (not sure if that's a kink) and every pussy tastes 'amazing' even though it probably tasted like salty water if they were lucky and John West dolphin friendly tuna at worst |
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"The unwritten rules of verifications
So here's what works for me. If my meet gives me one - doesn't matter whether I displays it or not, I give one back. If my meet asks for one, I give them one. If they display it on their profile it's common courtesy to give one back. If they don't display it on their profile I'm not fussed whether I get one back or not.
The ones who ask for one, display it on their profile and not give one back are in general dickheads. They have their verification, you served your purpose and are no longer worth any effort. They tend to end up on the block list sooner or later, so they can't display the verification. These are exceptions though, only happened twice since I joined fab.
I never give one first, unless they ask x
What would you do if say, you gave a verification first, the person displays it then gives you a verification in return but it's just out of politeness and that verification is only one sentence long and pretty lousy? I certainly wouldn't show a veri like that x"
A short veri can say so much and sometimes better than someone who waffles on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are veris worth anything ?
Who ever leaves or would show a bad one ?
Every lady on fab is stunning and every guy is amazing and knows what he’s doing .
It’s genuinely the most successful sex site ever
Yep...."amazing finger and oral skills"...
That could just mean he's shit hot on the piano and harmonica but a snide ride!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be funny if seen people’s real verifications of people. ‘Absolute dog of a girl, worst bj and shag of my life, will stick to a wank next time’ hahaha "
There's nothing really funny about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be funny if seen people’s real verifications of people. ‘Absolute dog of a girl, worst bj and shag of my life, will stick to a wank next time’ hahaha "
Oh I’ve gave a few like that but for my pals and more tongue in cheek humour, if I genuinely thought someone was an arse I wouldn’t actually leave them one or as they say of nothing nice to say |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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Just happened to come accross a profile today with some verifications that are almost stretching to a novel. All incredibly lengthy and written by the same person. 'Smashingblouse' is the profile if anyone is looking for some bedtime reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You show no veris and your profile says discretion is important so perhaps that's why he didn't veri you?
You'd be better asking him instead of whinging in public to be honest "
This . |
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Verifications dont matter .cause if u had a shit meet the person wouldn't accept it lol and u notice u only see great verifications
but sometimes the person speaks to u like crap if u say not intrested and verys are great |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would be funny if seen people’s real verifications of people. ‘Absolute dog of a girl, worst bj and shag of my life, will stick to a wank next time’ hahaha "
Was chatting with a couple at a social a while back and discussed this with the guy. They both still have singles profiles and agreed to leave one for him that simply read "decent guy, not an asshole". |
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"Just happened to come accross a profile today with some verifications that are almost stretching to a novel. All incredibly lengthy and written by the same person. 'Smashingblouse' is the profile if anyone is looking for some bedtime reading "
Wow that guy has it bad .her fufu tasted of heaven .lol ..oh my |
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