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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Treat this as an add on to your existing sex life.
Don’t compromise your standards, you are looking for a shag, not someone to donate a kidney to you.
Dance to your tune, not theirs
Desparation is the ultimate mood killer.
Lots of fun to be had 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat this as an add on to your existing sex life.
Don’t compromise your standards, you are looking for a shag, not someone to donate a kidney to you.
Dance to your tune, not theirs
Desparation is the ultimate mood killer.
Lots of fun to be had
Good luck"
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"I know there’s a stigma with single guys, especially the younger ones, but does anyone have any advice for those of us that are genuinely trying to meet like minded folk."
Would you not go to CJs and get to know more people in person? I'm sure we both know someone who would love to escort you there  |
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"I know there’s a stigma with single guys, especially the younger ones, but does anyone have any advice for those of us that are genuinely trying to meet like minded folk.
Would you not go to CJs and get to know more people in person? I'm sure we both know someone who would love to escort you there "
That would probably be the best way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there’s a stigma with single guys, especially the younger ones, but does anyone have any advice for those of us that are genuinely trying to meet like minded folk.
Would you not go to CJs and get to know more people in person? I'm sure we both know someone who would love to escort you there
That would probably be the best way"
Not really - For some it will work, for others it will not. it might work for you, only you can find that out.
There are many opportunities on fab to meet, socially or fun, many great socials, clubs, chat rooms, private messaging. Some might be for you, some not, always just be yourself, be respectful to others and think of others enjoyment as well as your own and you wont go too far wrong on fab
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Treat people on here with respect and you will get respect back. not always "
Well you hope for the same back, if not, you just avoid
Dragon has had a few replies with different ideas and experiences so he can make up his mind on here.
I'm sure it will work out for him |
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Thanks for all the advice, been on here for a while now and been to a couple of bar meets and met some great folk. I have been thinking of going along to some socials but the majority of them I see posted don’t want any single males but I’ll keep at it |
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"Thanks for all the advice, been on here for a while now and been to a couple of bar meets and met some great folk. I have been thinking of going along to some socials but the majority of them I see posted don’t want any single males but I’ll keep at it"
I held a social on Saturday that was open to everyone as long as they were verified.
I've seen single male numbers capped before, but never excluded.
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By *palfruityCouple
over a year ago
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"I know there’s a stigma with single guys, especially the younger ones, but does anyone have any advice for those of us that are genuinely trying to meet like minded folk."
Don't have nothing but dick pics on your profile.
Don't send dick pics unsolicited.
Don't claim to be a genuine guy. I have no clue what a 'genuine guy' actually is but I'm guessing it's similar to a 'real woman' - you won't distinguish yourself from all those fake men and women by saying you're genuine.
Do read profiles carefully. If a profile says they're looking for a particular type of meet, accept that. If a profile says add a specific word in the title to prove you've read properly, do that.
Don't send inane messages that say bugger all. 'HI, HOW'S IT GOING?' is just going to get deleted. If that was the only thing someone had to say to you in real life, would you be impressed? I wouldn't. Also don't ask closed questions if you want more than a one word reply.
Do pick something about their profile that has caught your attention. Nobody wants to think that they are part of a opportunist mass mailing, or that they are completely nondescript.
Do accept knock backs with good grace. Basic courtesy never hurts and does make you stand out positively.
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