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Is it demanding

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Recently just been doing my normal and looking for some people to have fun with , so been looking a some profiles and all I keep seeing within them cpl's n single females is FACE PIC with message and then I look at there pics and no face pic , now am I wrong to think these are demanding demands or is the way it is and should just suck it up .

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's double standards yes but the odds are stacked in their favour....So you either play by their rules or pass another evening wanking into your sports sock, waiting for a less demanding person to come along.

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By *arlosF2019Man over a year ago

glasgow

"It's double standards yes but the odds are stacked in their favour....So you either play by their rules or pass another evening wanking into your sports sock, waiting for a less demanding person to come along.

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if I was a single woman I would want a face pic for security reasons. Also single guys have multiple sites.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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and this for sure

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

It's not a demand, it's a request.

If you don't like their request, just pass them by.

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By *anTouchThisCouple over a year ago

Aberdeen

How do you know they have no face pics? It's fairly standard to have private face pics, to be shared once the initial contact is agreeable.

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Its up to you to answer that question.....me i steee clear of folk who demand anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not demanding.

If you don’t like it, don’t message them or send them a face pic. It’s as simple as that.

I sometimes don’t have public face pics up, but still want one with the first message I receive from someone.

There’s no point in chatting to someone if I’m not attracted to them. No point in wasting my time, or theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think any female should share her pic online. It's madness. It's meant to be a sex site and if a guy looking for sex likes a ladies body then what does the face matter (unless something significant).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think any female should share her pic online. It's madness. It's meant to be a sex site and if a guy looking for sex likes a ladies body then what does the face matter (unless something significant). "

Yeah, she could be well ugly but as long as she’s got a banging bod, who cares. Paper bag job eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you serious ? Women do have faces attrached to their bodies and sex site or not as you put it dont you think a tad shallow to have sex with someone due to a body abd not how a person looks as you still have to have somekind of attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

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My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further."

Jesus Christ. I’d never meet anyone without seeing their face. How stupid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That started off quite promising and then I watched you plummet off the cliff edge like a wee lemming

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Tommy's clearly got the fishing rod out here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

Jesus Christ. I’d never meet anyone without seeing their face. How stupid "
I meant you shouldn't send one , but ALWAYS get one off the guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

"
tThis is what I am getting AT.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

Jesus Christ. I’d never meet anyone without seeing their face. How stupid

I meant you shouldn't send one , but ALWAYS get one off the guy."

I’m well aware what you meant. I wouldn’t meet anyone without seeing their face. I’m hoping the men I speak to would be the exact same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further."

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tommy's clearly got the fishing rod out here! "
Not sure what you mean. Simply saying no female should share a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tommy's clearly got the fishing rod out here! Not sure what you mean. Simply saying no female should share a face pic."

And why shouldn’t they?

I’d never meet a man who didn’t ask for a face pic, or who didn’t care for one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol "
You will spot him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tommy's clearly got the fishing rod out here! Not sure what you mean. Simply saying no female should share a face pic.

And why shouldn’t they?

I’d never meet a man who didn’t ask for a face pic, or who didn’t care for one. "
Ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait!.....women actually reply to messages

I thought my messages were broken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol You will spot him."

.....he's the one sprinting to the fire exit cause he just clocked my boat race

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tommy's clearly got the fishing rod out here! Not sure what you mean. Simply saying no female should share a face pic.

And why shouldn’t they?

I’d never meet a man who didn’t ask for a face pic, or who didn’t care for one.

Ok"

So why shouldn’t women send a face pic?

Would you honestly be happy to meet someone who’s face you haven’t seen?

I care about my safety, and can asses the dangers of sharing a face picture online/with someone, and the dangers of meeting a stranger without seeing their face.

I’d hope the men I speak to would do the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol You will spot him."

Haha think you are having a laugh here ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol You will spot him.

.....he's the one sprinting to the fire exit cause he just clocked my boat race

He’ll be the one with no face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

My advice to you is never send one. Meet socially first or agree when you meet if they don't fancy you it's ok and just go no further.

But you have to see who you are meeting ...or do you go by old skool and wear a rose in your lapel lol You will spot him.

.....he's the one sprinting to the fire exit cause he just clocked my boat race

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently just been doing my normal and looking for some people to have fun with , so been looking a some profiles and all I keep seeing within them cpl's n single females is FACE PIC with message and then I look at there pics and no face pic , now am I wrong to think these are demanding demands or is the way it is and should just suck it up .

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist."

They dont get a face pic from this Krackpot until there is any trust established.

Sending a random face pic ?

Feck Nawwww

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

Yes and i think this is rather sad. For all they know we may know each other. I would rather a bit of chat first to make sure we are not related or work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist.

They dont get a face pic from this Krackpot until there is any trust established.

Sending a random face pic ?

Feck Nawwww

"
Yeah yeah. your on this site cos your gorgeous and you can always pull in the pub. You will be sending pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

Yes and i think this is rather sad. For all they know we may know each other. I would rather a bit of chat first to make sure we are not related or work colleagues."
Better the girl finds that out quick with a pic then delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That started off quite promising and then I watched you plummet off the cliff edge like a wee lemming

"
Oh well

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

Yes and i think this is rather sad. For all they know we may know each other. I would rather a bit of chat first to make sure we are not related or work colleagues.Better the girl finds that out quick with a pic then delete and block. "

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?"
for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Dont you think tho the girls who hold the cards only do with the guys who allow them to do it ..or daft enough to let them do it

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Dont you think tho the girls who hold the cards only do with the guys who allow them to do it ..or daft enough to let them do it "
thats my point they dont hold the cards they are given them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

Yes and i think this is rather sad. For all they know we may know each other. would rather a bit of chat first to make sure we are not related or work colleagues.Better the girl finds that out quick with a pic then delete and block.

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Dont you think tho the girls who hold the cards only do with the guys who allow them to do it ..or daft enough to let them do it "
If I was female I would be savvy enough to know that ALL guys on here are begging. You do hold all the cards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Dont you think tho the girls who hold the cards only do with the guys who allow them to do it ..or daft enough to let them do it If I was female I would be savvy enough to know that ALL guys on here are begging. You do hold all the cards"

I disagree with you there not all guys are begging ...maybe some do but certainly not all

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Not painting yourself in a good light Tommy. Don’t tar all men with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?"
I don't necessarily think it should be with the initial message as long as you get one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Not painting yourself in a good light Tommy. Don’t tar all men with the same brush. "
Just honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist.

They dont get a face pic from this Krackpot until there is any trust established.

Sending a random face pic ?

Feck Nawwww

Yeah yeah. your on this site cos your gorgeous and you can always pull in the pub. You will be sending pics."

Glad youve a sense of humor..

But ..Still Nawww

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

A begging guy is a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Not painting yourself in a good light Tommy. Don’t tar all men with the same brush.

Just honest"

There’s a difference between your opinion, which is what you’ve given, and facts, which is what you’re trying to paint your opinion as.

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Not painting yourself in a good light Tommy. Don’t tar all men with the same brush. Just honest"
how can it be honest when YOU are not ALL MEN.

You might beg you might believe because you do that all men do that does not mean your correct i can confirm your wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Not painting yourself in a good light Tommy. Don’t tar all men with the same brush.

Just honest

There’s a difference between your opinion, which is what you’ve given, and facts, which is what you’re trying to paint your opinion as. "
Ok, just being honest about what I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I send a face pic with every first message I think it's just a way of being polite I don't think anyone really has any power if there not attracted to you it's never going to happen ...if it takes a couple of messages for them to reveal themselves so be it not everyone has the same confidence..some things just take time if I don't get an answer I don't bother them again ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I send a face pic with every first message I think it's just a way of being polite I don't think anyone really has any power if there not attracted to you it's never going to happen ...if it takes a couple of messages for them to reveal themselves so be it not everyone has the same confidence..some things just take time if I don't get an answer I don't bother them again ..

You’re a good guy

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"Just send your face pic when you feel comfy enough with who you chat with ...

Notice more guys now send a face pic with first message now as they think no one will reply if they dont due to many profiles now saying no face pic no reply ..

But why should a male be put in this position in the first place by females demanding face pics with first messages?for the same reason fems hold all the cards apparently.

Women only hold the cards if you allow it. No one holds any cards in my opinion. You make being on Fab sound attritional.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Single males frequently message me & ask if I have a face pic without attaching their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re a good guy

I try to be ..I think some people just to it all to serious and a bit personal..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist."
its only demanding if you allow it to be .

Way I see it it was a simple request to see face pics I dont think it really matters whos asks first .

I like to get face pics out of the way fairly quickly because I dont want to spend days/ weeks chatting only to discover there is no physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just too mix this up a bit...

You could be the sexiest looking Female on Fab ...

But if ya talk pish ..its NEXT.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just too mix this up a bit...

You could be the sexiest looking Female on Fab ...

But if ya talk pish ..its NEXT.

Aye but if you're body is minted and your coupon is howlin' Tommy would be riding you up the road like he just stole ye

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*your

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just too mix this up a bit...

You could be the sexiest looking Female on Fab ...

But if ya talk pish ..its NEXT.

Aye but if you're body is minted and your coupon is howlin' Tommy would be riding you up the road like he just stole ye

He said i was gorgeous did he not..Hes looking for females with bags over their heads..He must do a power oh shaggin at Halloween.

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By *adbury girlWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Wait!.....women actually reply to messages

I thought my messages were broken.

Only after about 1000 messages so you might get lucky eventually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Answer on a postcard please , non disgruntled male just an Equalist."

You shouldnt have to suck it up, just dont message those profiles. Though i will add there are many who will suck it up and message with their face pic. It is definitely double standards, but there is also far more men than any other demograph on here, so they can request/demand it on their profile

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree , I need to ask certain questions to rule out the family members and friends before I send pics or if I get pic from couples then I'll know I'm good to send pic back. Only had one couple on here recognise us by hubbys tattoo

they were old friends from childhood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't have to message them first. Maybe if they messaged first they would send one, if they don't have them visible on their profile.

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