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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are the out going type when out or the very shy person standing in the background
1 to 10
1 being the life and soul and talking to everyone
10 the person in the corner being shy
score yourself honestly
Me I am more a 7 or 8 really shy at times |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Are the out going type when out or the very shy person standing in the background
1 to 10
1 being the life and soul and talking to everyone
10 the person in the corner being shy
score yourself honestly
Me I am more a 7 or 8 really shy at times "
At socials I'm about 8 or 9 to start ..by end of night I'm more a 1 or 2 as I get to know folk lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the inside I'm at least 9 or 10. On the outside I'm a 4/5.
I suffer terribly from anxiety, but I know that sometimes I need to give myself a wee push. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely a 1 no matter where I am , where I go. Im first to introduce myself , chat away and start dancing.
Party planner, party entertainer ,life and soul of a part however we will see if I'm same in the swinging scene don't see why not .  |
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We are 10s, as in really nervous and not good at all trying to break the ice, hence the reason we never do the organised socials,
But 1 to 1s we are bit more relaxed, a 4 or 5 then 8ish after getting to know the other couple.
Boy are we hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to start off shy , reserved and quiet . Sometimes I remain that way other times I am queen of the dance floor and trying to get everyone else involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm round about the 7 or 8 mark with people I don't really know.
Once I've had a few drinks or I'm comfortable around people the best I'll go is a 2 or 3.
But at work I have no issues at all speaking to people I don't know.
L x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 life and soul. I tone it down a bit depending on the company
I’m a 1
Doesn’t matter what I do I always seem to be a bleeding 1!  "
Lol I’ve always been 1 as well, but I’m better at it now than when I was younger. We can’t xhange our personalities only make them better |
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"I'd say I'm a 8
John 
We haven’t even met yet and I know you are nowhere near an 8!! 
 7.9?
John "
Oh ok then I will give you 7.5 until the babybels are there then apparently you come running out of the shadows!  |
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"I'm a solid 4~
I get why some people are shy, but the worst that can happen is you might embarrass yourself.
They're called social SKILLS for a reason, they can take a bit of practice."
I don't think it's anything to do with skills.
Although I rate myself as a 10, I can interact in most (if not all) social settings, I'm just more comfortable to not.
By your definition I have the skills, I just chose not to "flex" them.
Mandy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its nothing to do with having or not having social skills , introverts (6-10)and extroverts(1-5) can both have great social skills , be confident in all aspects of life however introverts choose to be quiet, private ,selective on choice of friends and surrounding and tend to take everything in before they interact or come out Thier shell and choose to avoid certain people/ situations or environments.
Extroverts are talkative , very outgoing, choose to befriend and talk to everyone , enjoy most surroundings , feel at ease around most people and tend to care less about what's happening around them and more about enjoying themselves straight off the bat instead of sussing things out.
Its nothing to do with confidence or having social skills, it's just how some people choose to be .
Nothing wrong with either at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a 1 most of the time untill I'm talking to a good looking woman then I'll go to at least a 6. It's like I'm confident in everything I can do but not confident at all in my looks. |
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In all honesty I would have to say middle of the park really depends on mood and atmosphere I can be chatty or shy depending on who's around me but I'm more a shy person when in groups I don't really know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference.
That old war cry "
Haha rumbled. Although I think there are certain people on here who lead us astray |
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"We’re both shy yeah right although the atmosphere and mood do make a difference.
That old war cry
Haha rumbled. Although I think there are certain people on here who lead us astray "
Yeah! That wee blonde chick! She’s a bad yin! |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let’s start with him he’s a 1 on here but at meets I’d say 9-10 maybe dropping to a 4 . Me I’m guilty of talking my shadow into submission so a 1 I find it really easy to talk to people xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar. "
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"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar. "
Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar?  |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar.
Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar? "
Lol. Yes. Most times. Didn’t say I listened to myself. |
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"Before an event or meet, 10 or 9. Once I’ve changed my pants I calm down to a 5. Visit the bar. 4. Visit the bar again. 3. Realise visiting the bar again will lead to a 1 or 2 so stop visiting the bar.
Quite a good system you have there to stop although have you ever got to 3 and not stopped going to the bar?
Lol. Yes. Most times. Didn’t say I listened to myself. "
I knew there would be a flaw somewhere |
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