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Who believe you have to build a repore before jumping in the sack for fun???
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over a year ago
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"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.
Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. 
This!
K"
Defo I’m really bad for this at times lol I friend zone far too many great guys, it’s alwaya great to build a good rapport up with someone before hand if I wouldn’t date you I wouldn’t fuxk you, but in the fwb zone the physical stuff has to happen fairly early in or I’ll start to see you as one of the boys x a few chats a coffee date and then the next time fun to be had, endless weeks or months of chatting to some folk might build sexual tension for some but as a female who doesn’t do sex chat nah |
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"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.
Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "
Agreed, nothing wrong with a little conversation 1st but days or weeks just becomes a general "hi how are you today" |
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over a year ago
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Need to have that click! Love chatting and getting to know how that person works, clicks and then when you meet it is just an explosion of what you have been talking about. Gotta have this for me, if don’t click then sod off!! PLENTY MORE FISH   |
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"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.
Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out.
This!
K
Defo I’m really bad for this at times lol I friend zone far too many great guys, it’s alwaya great to build a good rapport up with someone before hand if I wouldn’t date you I wouldn’t fuxk you, but in the fwb zone the physical stuff has to happen fairly early in or I’ll start to see you as one of the boys x a few chats a coffee date and then the next time fun to be had, endless weeks or months of chatting to some folk might build sexual tension for some but as a female who doesn’t do sex chat nah "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You so need to click ..,,......
I was going to meet a couple once then they refused to have a social with me as it was wasting their time.............right
You can then build up the anticipation, the teasing, the imagination goes wild so when you do meet for fun.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends, I like to have my cake and eat it.
Had some amazing meets when I have just exchanged one or to messages but also enjoyed getting to know the person I am going to shag and the build up with flirting can add to the excitement  |
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"Depends as if you chat too much..the spark goes.
Chat a bit then meet before the flame burns out. "
Agree completely. You need to grab the moment or its difficult to get back.. Folks lose interest even subconsciously.. Thats why so many complain of lots of chat then nothing.. Just didn't get over the line quick enough. Its also why some guys appear 'pushy'.. They just know that if a meet doesn't happen soon its a gonner.. :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree you get better action on pof or tinder
Far to many ppl want a life story. It’s sex folks it all comes naturally "
Also true. Its like a hurdle race on here.. tinder is far quicker to the chase in my experience. |
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Well there's a mixed review to think about still can't help but think it wouldn't be right for us meeting someone shagging and then finding out the guy was a prick and didn't deserve the chance to have fun with us and my lovely woman xx |
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Yes and no.
I have had amazing times with people I have built up a rapport with but also amazing times with spontaneous occasions. Even the couple of times I have met some stranger at a bar on a saturday night were good. |
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Can build rapport very quickly but a meet needs to happen within a week or 2 max, after that no matter how sexy the build up it naturally fades, you can't keep a text based message tennis rapport going, just doesnt work unless you meet. Regular online dating is the same.. Folk dont meet at anything like the rate they used to.  |
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"Can build rapport very quickly but a meet needs to happen within a week or 2 max, after that no matter how sexy the build up it naturally fades, you can't keep a text based message tennis rapport going, just doesnt work unless you meet. Regular online dating is the same.. Folk dont meet at anything like the rate they used to. "
I found this when trying the online dating if we chatted for too long I got bored |
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