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bitchiness !!!!!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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as a regular in scotland room i love it but just this past few weeks i have saw the room being plagued by bitchiness and people out to screw each other over , where did our little madhoose go , would love to see it go back the way it used to be , theres a hell of alot of mud slinging going round , it would most def make for a better place if the petty disputes and arguements were left out of it !! just a thought xx |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
I have noticed it also but dont get involved , i live in hope that folks grow up and use the site for their own purpose and leave everyone else to get on with what they are doing , but like real life not eveyone in chat will get on , block the folks you dont like and dont get bogged down in the crap.
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
more north lincs than mids! |
"I have noticed it also but dont get involved , i live in hope that folks grow up and use the site for their own purpose and leave everyone else to get on with what they are doing , but like real life not eveyone in chat will get on , block the folks you dont like and dont get bogged down in the crap.
Happy chatting one and all "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not noticed any change just noticed that a few just don't like it when the new girls get more attention they go huffy and spit there dummys out. Or when the top dog falls out with someone all their wee ass lickers suddenly turn on them aswell. Scotland chat has always been the same it will never change. I love it its better than the jeremy kyle show
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"Not noticed any change just noticed that a few just don't like it when the new girls get more attention they go huffy and spit there dummys out. Or when the top dog falls out with someone all their wee ass lickers suddenly turn on them aswell. Scotland chat has always been the same it will never change. I love it its better than the jeremy kyle show
Dirty x "
ahve got ma pink shell suit all ready so whos ma mothers uncle now ...........confused is the answer me ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite new to the chat rooms and have found everyone I have chatted to in the Scotland room very cheery and friendly. Not come across any bitchiness yet but would definately ignore it. Wouldn't let it botherme one little bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but now i'd rather flick my bean and watch corrie (at the same time)!
Ken Barlow your kinda guy, eh?
Fuck yeh..He's a filthy big ride.
You dirty minx wet
Question is Ken or Roy? "
Spit roast! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couldnt care less about the bitchyness not everyone is going to get on but,,,
what gets on my goat is the chicks sitn on cam clearly encouraging directin,,but not actually saying anything and sitn watching the guys all getn banned?
ok heard the old chestnut about us oldies not liking young chicks getn all the attention,,erm,,pleassseeee do me a favour its ment to be a chat room,,not a ,,hey love rub those tits for me room?? 
if you want guys drooling over you while your sat naked on cam,,simple,,,go to a directing room and rub yer tits till yer wee hearts content .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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but shouldnt it be that a woman can make her own choices to what she does , the guys sit on cam whacking them out and nothings said about that , there is no rules to as what u do on cam aslong as u dont direct , respond or abuse ..i have and prob will get them out but i dont want to be told when and what to do hence why alot of females like the gen chat room as too directing rooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day people get way too over involved in each other lives....over involved it the whole scene and get carried away....it consumes them.....
Also the ammount of people that say he says and she says... Passing info...side snipes.... Creating profiles to harass and watch others it's all a tad like being back at school....
But hey most of us that use chat just sit n laff and shake our heads at peeps....as far as I am concerned live life... Be happy .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day people get way too over involved in each other lives....over involved it the whole scene and get carried away....it consumes them.....
Also the ammount of people that say he says and she says... Passing info...side snipes.... Creating profiles to harass and watch others it's all a tad like being back at school....
But hey most of us that use chat just sit n laff and shake our heads at peeps....as far as I am concerned live life... Be happy ...."
so true jands |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"I blame the demise on _b430 and his music lol(im joking..and did i just call it music?) "
I am still on here ya know m8!
Got to admit though, the chat rooms have lost their appeal to me (for now) and I haven't been in them for months and months now (through choice). They turned into the same old thing with the same old chat going on night after night! 
But you never know stink I might just pop back in some time just to play one of your favourite tunes and if you're really lucky I might just sing along too!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See im of the opiniion that chat rooms should be cam free, its hard to have a decent convo and to follow it for all the idiots in the room being spielbergs. So why cant chat rooms be cam free, and rather than directing roooms get the name changed to CAM rooms.
Cuts out bitchiness and people getting banned, then people moaning about why people are getting banned. |
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By *nTCouple
over a year ago
funland |
the chat rooms dont need to be cam free - people just need to abide by the rules. those that are banned deserve to be coz they are directing. i dont show anything other than my face on cam but have to agree with the earlier statement - if guys can sit wanking on the cams in the scotland room then its only fair the girls can do as they please. Its all about choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been in chat for ages. Got bored of it. I used to love the room but now i'd rather flick my bean and watch corrie (at the same time)!
Fair point well made, I'd rather flick yer bean and watch Corrie aswell Fancy (N for the record, i'm no even keen on Corrie) "
Oh I could give up ken for a night if you were flicking my bean _adgee x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the chat rooms dont need to be cam free - people just need to abide by the rules. those that are banned deserve to be coz they are directing. i dont show anything other than my face on cam but have to agree with the earlier statement - if guys can sit wanking on the cams in the scotland room then its only fair the girls can do as they please. Its all about choice"
I'm gonna tell all the guys wanking on cam to wank harder! faster! and watch their wee hands blur and get blisters.
..... But only in the directing rooms.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but its A CHAT ROOM??
i have no bother about peeps sitn with their faces on cam hell iv been on cam but why sit naked??? and im talking about guys aswell as chicks its for the look at me factor,
i wouldnt block cams in the chatroom as its a great way to see who your talking too but why play on cam in a chatroom or entice directing whether you wanted to be directed or not you know you are gonna get folk sayn stuff if your sat there with yer tits oot?
auds xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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9 times out of ten its my face that i show on cam and i still get directed "shows ur tits,whats below the cam",etc etc.. i agree its all about personal choice , i abide by the rules i dont direct entice or respond , but sometime the horn takes over |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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"but its A CHAT ROOM??
i have no bother about peeps sitn with their faces on cam hell iv been on cam but why sit naked??? and im talking about guys aswell as chicks its for the look at me factor,
i wouldnt block cams in the chatroom as its a great way to see who your talking too but why play on cam in a chatroom or entice directing whether you wanted to be directed or not you know you are gonna get folk sayn stuff if your sat there with yer tits oot?
auds xx "
However, not everyone playing on cam wants to be directed. They shouldn't be made to go into a room they don't want to.
As for the bitchiness ... I agree with Jo. Too many ppl let this site and other people's lives takeover their own. The sooner people grow up and live their own life the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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seems to me that the blokes on here who seem to be on the governments sexual terrorist list somewhere have even the howfers thinking they are something special.
I am getting a wee bit tired of reading profiles with lists as long as your arm which are also fairly aggressive with their 'im something special' messages. Some people just need to get over themselves....some people need a good shag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knew a single female on here who left the site because of some bitchiness on here. I won't go in to too much detail suffice to say that a certain someone was saying things about her behind her back. And at that point in her life it was the last thing she needed. This should be a fun site but unfortunately there's always going to be arseholes who ruin things for everyone else. It's a basic fact of life. I personally don't go in to the chatrooms any more even though I used to go in to the Scotland Room quite often. I find it can be quite cliquey and some people will be ignorant sometimes and will flat out ignore you. |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
hence i always disappear for a while cause i dont like drama and so play in the forums lol but i agree with a lot of what some folk have been saying cant remember who now cause i kinda have a memory like a sieve hehe I have those i talk to and wont take part in any bitchiness...life is way too short and i joined here to enjoy myself, make friends and i certainly dont judge people ever, i would listen to everyones point of _iew and i do also make up my mind on people also even when i see them on cam male or fem - and there are the one i will tend to avoid
just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a regular in scotland room i love it but just this past few weeks i have saw the room being plagued by bitchiness and people out to screw each other over , where did our little madhoose go , would love to see it go back the way it used to be , theres a hell of alot of mud slinging going round , it would most def make for a better place if the petty disputes and arguements were left out of it !! just a thought xx"
Your right weeboo it is a mad hoose..but it is an open forum,not just your own personal little oasis..just keepin it real! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm often found in the Scotland chat room cam on (face only , maybe a wee bit of arm if your unlucky !) like most i been around for a few years now on various profiles for various reasons . It's always been the same from my point of _iew there are people who get on and there are those that dont . In a sense it is like school with little groups here and there and thats fine doesn't bother me in the slightest was never overly popoular but was certainly never without friends either . As for talking i'll talk to anyone about anything as long as the craic is half decent .Guys and girls on cam thats their choice what they do , sure some folk cant control themselves maybe some get a kick out of the element of control i dont know ,i dont care i am only there for laugh , a distraction from real life . It's got to be expected throwing a group of strangers in a room that a few will not get on . I keep out of the politcs the bitchiness and whatever else i not into . I dont judge anyone afterall i dont know them . If it does piss people off just block them , i cant understand why folk get so wound up about it . I had a guy today earlier on saying i was copping out of meeting someone even though he didn't know the circumstances of it . Said i was full of shit , there was two options there, get aggressive let it bother me or try to enlighten the dude and question his reasons for being aggressive without being so myself . As for folks growing up ...well we all at different stages in our life and in our swinging lives . Different people will have different perspectives of the site , like a new guy bombarding the room with a request to meet , he see this site as a place for an easy lay where as i see it as a place to meet likeminded folk and see what happens . Bottom line live and let live dudes and dudettes , if you let this unreal digital world get to you to the extent that it effects the "real" world you , have a look at the reasons for it , dont lash out , dont get angry wont help anyone especially yourselves . Peace out people . |
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"I'm often found in the Scotland chat room cam on (face only , maybe a wee bit of arm if your unlucky !) like most i been around for a few years now on various profiles for various reasons . It's always been the same from my point of _iew there are people who get on and there are those that dont . In a sense it is like school with little groups here and there and thats fine doesn't bother me in the slightest was never overly popoular but was certainly never without friends either . As for talking i'll talk to anyone about anything as long as the craic is half decent .Guys and girls on cam thats their choice what they do , sure some folk cant control themselves maybe some get a kick out of the element of control i dont know ,i dont care i am only there for laugh , a distraction from real life . It's got to be expected throwing a group of strangers in a room that a few will not get on . I keep out of the politcs the bitchiness and whatever else i not into . I dont judge anyone afterall i dont know them . If it does piss people off just block them , i cant understand why folk get so wound up about it . I had a guy today earlier on saying i was copping out of meeting someone even though he didn't know the circumstances of it . Said i was full of shit , there was two options there, get aggressive let it bother me or try to enlighten the dude and question his reasons for being aggressive without being so myself . As for folks growing up ...well we all at different stages in our life and in our swinging lives . Different people will have different perspectives of the site , like a new guy bombarding the room with a request to meet , he see this site as a place for an easy lay where as i see it as a place to meet likeminded folk and see what happens . Bottom line live and let live dudes and dudettes , if you let this unreal digital world get to you to the extent that it effects the "real" world you , have a look at the reasons for it , dont lash out , dont get angry wont help anyone especially yourselves . Peace out people . "
One of the clearest postings on the subject for years! Well done that fella |
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Was the OP about old or new chat or both. Gotta say i use old chat and vast majority abide by rules but too many spielbergs in new chat. Its the few that spoil for majority. Perhaps solution is to have old as non nekkie zone? Draconian i know but at least peeps can chat knowing that nekkie is not allowed. Sad day though when that is needed. But i agree peeps should be able to go on cam without fear of being hassled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres various things that seem to spark off bitchiness or is it plain old jealousy? Envy? Its not too far away either.
You sign up, set out on that lovely mission to meet like minded people and have fun, what nobody warned you about was,,,,,,the politics, the hearsay, the idle gossips.
Cool, tell yourself you "dont get involved in it" if your names on here and you have a profile, your a sitting duck for it, regardless.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined up to the site to make friends and for the most part i think i made a few good ones. But there has been the element of bitchiness and i try to stay away from it. I personaly dont like it and hate being involved in that. Make my skin crawl as i hate the idea of me beign seen as 2 faced.
So me personly i try to be nice to everyone and just have banter and be nice and warn people off from doing anything that will get them in trouble. I maybe not been the best at this at times but i be fair and friendly to everyone. And if i do have a problem with some one i take it up with them or report it to the mods. I try not to let it get public as that just causes more trouble |
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i have saw sum bitcheness in the room and it nt nice if pple cant say sumit 2 u personaly dnt say it at all ...for instance was in other day and a cple pple was talkin bwt sum 1 that was nt on line at the time 2 defend them selfs xx |
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.  "
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol..... |
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol....."
I agree, if they are speaking about me they are giving some-one else a break ........ my shoulders are wide enough to take it.
Ultimately this is not real life, it's a past-time, a hobby.
It gets too much for anyone there is the option of the off button. |
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol.....
I agree, if they are speaking about me they are giving some-one else a break ........ my shoulders are wide enough to take it.
Ultimately this is not real life, it's a past-time, a hobby.
It gets too much for anyone there is the option of the off button. "
Yups people too over involved in each others lives......i realise its a lifestyle but too many let too many people in thier lives and know everything then it spiarals into something else......
seen it sooooo many times....
its about fun....laughs......and yes friends.....but.......some things are best left outside fabs...... |
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol....."
I'd shag that jo...she looks a good un |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol.....
I'd shag that jo...she looks a good un "
face like an old trout thou and frigid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol.....
I'd shag that jo...she looks a good un
face like an old trout thou and frigid "
Aye I heard that but I'm not into listening stories...I'll try and out myself lol. No trout face but i need to get into yer pants to find out the frigid bit xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The chatrooms are so much better places if you block those who grip your pips.
agreed....but then what happens is peeps feed info back to others....then theres a web of stories...heads n tails are added then creates groups who dont like each other....
like being at school really....
if someone speeks about me behind my back or spreads stories....i just think least they aint talking about others lol.....
I'd shag that jo...she looks a good un
face like an old trout thou and frigid
Aye I heard that but I'm not into listening stories...I'll try and out myself lol. No trout face but i need to get into yer pants to find out the frigid bit xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and what ever did happen to the mud swinging...
do u mean mud wrestling???
tee hee "
i'm here to swing not fight!...besides my wrestling mankini chaffs my bawsacks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and what ever did happen to the mud swinging...
do u mean mud wrestling???
tee hee
i'm here to swing not fight!...besides my wrestling mankini chaffs my bawsacks"
what a vision lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not noticed any change just noticed that a few just don't like it when the new girls get more attention they go huffy and spit there dummys out. Or when the top dog falls out with someone all their wee ass lickers suddenly turn on them aswell. Scotland chat has always been the same it will never change. I love it its better than the jeremy kyle show
Dirty x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"couldnt care less about the bitchyness not everyone is going to get on but,,,
what gets on my goat is the chicks sitn on cam clearly encouraging directin,,but not actually saying anything and sitn watching the guys all getn banned?
ok heard the old chestnut about us oldies not liking young chicks getn all the attention,,erm,,pleassseeee do me a favour its ment to be a chat room,,not a ,,hey love rub those tits for me room??
if you want guys drooling over you while your sat naked on cam,,simple,,,go to a directing room and rub yer tits till yer wee hearts content .
auds "
You trying to spoil my perv n tug? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I love it its better than the jeremy kyle show
Dirty x ahve got ma pink shell suit all ready so whos ma mothers uncle now ...........confused is the answer me ???"
Pmsl x |
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"as a regular in scotland room i love it but just this past few weeks i have saw the room being plagued by bitchiness and people out to screw each other over , where did our little madhoose go , would love to see it go back the way it used to be , theres a hell of alot of mud slinging going round , it would most def make for a better place if the petty disputes and arguements were left out of it !! just a thought xx"
Boo ye have nae idea how good it is tae See this post darling....After all were all adults, and should be thinking and talking bout having a laff and no about peeps we Dont know.
Just Hope sense prevails afore we start losing folk aff the site...Im all for the meeting a nd less about the greeting...Kisses Boo....xxx |
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