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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looking for regular is what im seeing on most folks profiles.
So what's regular to you?
Singles is it 1 or 2 times a week meeting the same person?
Cpls same?
I honestly think I'd get bored pretty quick meeting the same person that much?
Me personally I don't do regular lol |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
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It’s hard enough to find a female to meet on here as a one off...so regular must be even worse!!..personally I think it all depends on how all parties get along, some it may be a one off thing and some might find that connection and enjoy each other’s company more than once and spark that friendship  keeping our minds open to any possibility on here is the way forward, you never know where it’s going to lead (fem) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
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Oh def agree with you there, we dont play alone but I know In that situation I would feel the same as you, and hubby would feel the same too..I suppose that then changes the dynamics?..for us a regular thing would be a relationship with both of us not as an individual and the other person would have to respect that too |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"But how regular is regular?
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Regular for me would be every couple of weeks/month being able to catch up and have that familiarity and fun as a couple I think regular such as weekly then becomes a sort of boyfriend/girlfriend thing and possibly changes How the couple swing and what they look for maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
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I think that too.
It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.
Pump n go 
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
I think that too.
It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.
Pump n go
Unless you're a mega ride "
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"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
I think that too.
It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.
Pump n go
Unless you're a mega ride "
Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.
What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
I think that too.
It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.
Pump n go
Unless you're a mega ride
Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.
What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2. "
I'd say once a month no more than that if it's with the same person that is? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy "
if it's with the same guy isn't that more like dating someone tho?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
I think that too.
It must be a very fine line...regular enough that you build up the connection and trust but with that comes the possibility that one person will always be expecting or needing a wee bit more ....exactly as occurs in non Fab relationships.
Pump n go
Unless you're a mega ride
Out of innocent curiosity and kinda fishing too.
What would be a kind of acceptable level of meets for hubby, oldie and doggy, that question goes to you 2. "
As per my pm....you are a "dodgem".....no a "mega ride"
Depends on the person. I'm having regular, good, dirty sex at home....so not looking for any novelty or outside fun. If and when I am....every few months perhaps. Any more than that would be too regular for me. |
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"As a cpl that both play together and alone I think if my husband was meeting a female Every week or more I wouldnt feel comfortable with that situation tho.
Shoosh you So you have someone you meet regular devil? "
No im only joking kinda, i agree if it was happening once a week with someone the as 1 half of a couple you would need to be worried. Your definition of regular is about right i would say . Once a month with the same person or different persons but more than that might be dodgy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't get me wrong iv met the same guy a cpl times in a few weeks but was only because we were both free but that only happened once if he asked again it would be a time lapse lol Good things come to those who wait  |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"Don't get me wrong iv met the same guy a cpl times in a few weeks but was only because we were both free but that only happened once if he asked again it would be a time lapse lol Good things come to those who wait "
Very true and I’m patiently waiting lol |
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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
I met my fwb on here see him on average once a fortnight, and its definitely not boring 
I occasionally see other people too, as does he, it was just more convenient for me to have a regular partner than lots of different random people, but I have to say I'm changing my mind about that my random encounters have been really good so far |
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I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.
It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries
In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship. |
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*Quickly checked own profile content there*
I enjoy repeat fun with someone rather than calling it regular as I personally find that sex gets better as you get to know someone. I'm not sure regular fits around family & work commitments.
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"I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.
It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries
In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship. "
Mmmm Perhaps not on this thread but that is definitely a topic for discussion, what is a Fab relationship to YOU ? .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I saw someone from fab last year almost fortnightly for quite a while because we were both child free the same weekend each fortnight.
It was good in that fab was new to me and it let me feel comfortable enough to push boundaries
In saying that if I had things on with friends that took priority so it definitely didn’t become more than a fab relationship.
Mmmm Perhaps not on this thread but that is definitely a topic for discussion, what is a Fab relationship to YOU ? .
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just that a relationship...2 people dating each other on here.
That's my take on a fab relationship |
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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago
lanarkshire |
"*Quickly checked own profile content there*
I enjoy repeat fun with someone rather than calling it regular as I personally find that sex gets better as you get to know someone. I'm not sure regular fits around family & work commitments.
R "
totally agree . (Fem) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy if it's with the same guy isn't that more like dating someone tho?"
Yeah it can be hence I usually prefer more than one guy on the go as it can be too easy to fall into
The trap and let feelings get involved but the guys tend to have had more or a problem than me in my personal
Experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My take on 'regular' is maybe a little different.
I've always said my goal from Fab is a small group of likeminded friends who are available to meet as and when opportunities arise for each other. That may be once a year or maybe every few months. The key point is that it's more than once as opposed to trying to meet new randoms all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower? "
Absolutely. Sharing is caring! |
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?
Absolutely. Sharing is caring!"
You're so kind |
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"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy "
That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.
I have however experienced some discomfort from girls I’ve met when I’ve asked what they’ve gotten up to. Hadn't considered that would be perceived as jealous or stroppy though, more that I was being too nosey
My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy
That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.
I have however experienced some discomfort from girls I’ve met when I’ve asked what they’ve gotten up to. Hadn't considered that would be perceived as jealous or stroppy though, more that I was being too nosey
My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough "
Oooft fuxk lol maybe I was a bit more of a greedy girl than I thought lol once I’m in
The horny mood o want it several times a day even once a week is depressing |
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower? "
I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok  |
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?
I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok "
Well I would need someone to fit it first. |
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?
I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok
Well I would need someone to fit it first.
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Ok pm me what yiu need done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wonder about this "regular" thing I see too. I thought I'd found a regular fwb, he had that on his profile, looking for regular friend. We were so sexually compatible. He told me recently I was there all the time and I should go annoy someone else. Wtf!! He still says he's looking for a regular fb. So I'm still stumped when I see this phrase "looking for a regular" |
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I’m married and allowed to play, hubby doesn’t play. I have two regulars and I’ll meet them both alone one a week if they want and time works out. Regular to me is much better, you build up trust and they know what works. Great fun |
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"I wonder about this "regular" thing I see too. I thought I'd found a regular fwb, he had that on his profile, looking for regular friend. We were so sexually compatible. He told me recently I was there all the time and I should go annoy someone else. Wtf!! He still says he's looking for a regular fb. So I'm still stumped when I see this phrase "looking for a regular" "
So you haven’t to meet him again??
Does he want a regular and others maybe or did he think you were getting too close?
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"If he can come and cut the grass twice a month at the same time I'd be happy..
Could push to a third visit to get through the DIY tasks too
Could I borrow him to fit my new shower?
I cud come and try it out with you to see if its working ok
Well I would need someone to fit it first. "
If you’re merely wanting someone to
For a shower I may be able to help if you want a perve also your outta luck lol |
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"Regular sex to me is 2-3 times a week and when I’m looking for regular fun happy to be meeting 2-3 guys regularly to fill the quota lol if one guy can manage it then excellent but I’ll limit myself to three guys on the go at once but for some reason lots of guys don’t like to know you’re being shared and get stroppy
That’s not something that would bother me, I think I’d more likely be the opposite, and turned on by a playmate being naughty with someone else.
I have however experienced some discomfort from girls I’ve met when I’ve asked what they’ve gotten up to. Hadn't considered that would be perceived as jealous or stroppy though, more that I was being too nosey
My idea of ‘regular’ would be seeing someone again within 2-3 months. I think that’s long enough for the anticipation of meeting again to build up enough
Oooft fuxk lol maybe I was a bit more of a greedy girl than I thought lol once I’m in
The horny mood o want it several times a day even once a week is depressing "
Oh well when you put it like that, it would be rude not to offer to help out
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