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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it normal to fantasise about homosexual encounters with straight mates? Last weekend I was back at one of my mates house after a serious session in the casino. Needless to say we were both a bit wrecked. When we got back to the flat my mate got into a pair of football shorts and brought a pair out for me. I thought this was a bit strange so I declined and fell asleep on the couch.. Made my way home in the morning and started to think about the scenario. I've never looked at my mates this way before but I must admit it got me quite aroused thinking about what could have happened. Part of me thinks he might have been trying to start something and part of me thinks he was just pissed.. Either way I can't really think about him the same way now without getting aroused. Is this a bit gay? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dunno.. I know I'm bi/bi curious but ive always kept that kind of thing to myself and restricted to fab. This is the first time I've thought of a pal that way and I'm not comfortable with it tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe you're just reading too much into it. You'd been out and ended up back at his. I'm assuming you didn't have any clothes other than what you were wearing so he probably just thought he was doing you a favour.
Just like I've been in that situation and had to wear a pair of my pals pj's.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe your right. I do have my suspicions about this particular mate tho. He might have his about me too lol. Either way, I don't think I'd ever go there. Just wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your right. I do have my suspicions about this particular mate tho. He might have his about me too lol. Either way, I don't think I'd ever go there. Just wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience? "
You could always take the bull by the horns and just ask.
I know its easier said than done, but it's better than wondering x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would so you are bi curious and that's perfectly ok fantasy is good we are all aloud them with a mate bit I would say don't read to much into it and just give with it what will be will be x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe your right. I do have my suspicions about this particular mate tho. He might have his about me too lol. Either way, I don't think I'd ever go there. Just wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience? "
If you want to continue being mates with him it's probably best to keep schtum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it would ruin a good friendship. Better to live with the fantasy I think. "
And find someone who isn't a friend to pursue the bi curious theory if you're curious enough!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Head to sportsdirect and get your own selection of shorts (maybe some budgie smugglers as well) and invite appropriate people round to yours.
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Sounds like a party... All welcome!! Bring a bottle  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's exactly my plan. Don't think I could go there with a friend like that
Might be a bit awkward if he’s on here and had read your OP  "
I think I'll be safe.  |
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Next time your pissed tell him about your Fab experiences and get on to the subject of mmf scenarios and gauge his reactions. If he ask questions about what happened and was there any contact with the other guy , just say a little accidental or incidental closeness whil playing with the female.
Then ask him if he could do a mmf and what if this or that happened. You gotta guage all the answers. |
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"Next time your pissed tell him about your Fab experiences and get on to the subject of mmf scenarios and gauge his reactions. If he ask questions about what happened and was there any contact with the other guy , just say a little accidental or incidental closeness whil playing with the female.
Then ask him if he could do a mmf and what if this or that happened. You gotta guage all the answers. "
Gauge all the answers whilst pissed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dunno.. I know I'm bi/bi curious but ive always kept that kind of thing to myself and restricted to fab. This is the first time I've thought of a pal that way and I'm not comfortable with it tbh"
I would say you are one of many many guys. Many of whom define themselves as totally straight |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What football shorts did he have on fella cause that could make all the difference "
That might be why I never took him on ??. I won't tell u what colour but I wouldn't be seen in them.. Let's put it that way.. Good bulge All the same |
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Don't let anyone kid you , every guy and girl have had some sort of same sex fantasies/ dream ,it's normal. Its the ones that deny it that class that sort of fantasie as not right and adnormal But reality is ,straight people will have at some point in their lives , teenage years later,mid life crisis years and somewhere in between, thought it, invisioned this ,sobar or d*unk it's human nature to be curious!!!! . Asking on a swinger's site I would have thought you would have received more open minded honest answers .
Your not gay until you have done the deed. Your bi curious if your thoughts are about same sex and you're straight and in denial if you have never thought about it . My opinion though because I'm open minded and full of curious thoughts and I'm human. And female too (great combo lol.)
My hubby in other hand would not agree with my mind but it's how i see it. Nothing wrong with following through on your curiousity. Never gonna know until you know ?? |
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"Don't let anyone kid you , every guy and girl have had some sort of same sex fantasies/ dream ,it's normal. Its the ones that deny it that class that sort of fantasie as not right and adnormal But reality is ,straight people will have at some point in their lives , teenage years later,mid life crisis years and somewhere in between, thought it, invisioned this ,sobar or d*unk it's human nature to be curious!!!! . Asking on a swinger's site I would have thought you would have received more open minded honest answers .
Your not gay until you have done the deed. Your bi curious if your thoughts are about same sex and you're straight and in denial if you have never thought about it . My opinion though because I'm open minded and full of curious thoughts and I'm human. And female too (great combo lol.)
My hubby in other hand would not agree with my mind but it's how i see it. Nothing wrong with following through on your curiousity. Never gonna know until you know ??"
Thank you. Its good to get an honest and open minded response.
I would say that I'm pretty comfortable with my sexuality and happy to admit on here at least that I am a predominantly straight guy who is open to encounters with other guys under the right circumstances. That doesn't take away from the fact that I enjoy straight sex and love females.. Always have and always will. Just haven't met the right people yet I guess. There's always hope |
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. However i do prefer mmf fun 