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over a year ago
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!"
Might be verging on polyamorous? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Swinging is a form of relationship as is a fuxk buddy it can be as casual as you like, but for most part it’s defo nicer to have sex with someone you would date in different circumstances, for the biggest majority of people great sex comes with patience trust and familiarity and is a lot more satisfying than a session with a random |
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"Swinging is a form of relationship as is a fuxk buddy it can be as casual as you like, but for most part it’s defo nicer to have sex with someone you would date in different circumstances, for the biggest majority of people great sex comes with patience trust and familiarity and is a lot more satisfying than a session with a random "
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I agree here fun and sex with regular ppl is good, it gets better when you trust and learn each other’s niche, random is exciting also,but for me, finding someone that ticks all the boxes and you both play with each other and nobody else is a dream!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!"
Interesting question...
I couldn't fuck someone I didn't have a connection with and if I've made a connection I'd almost certainly want to see them again. Definitely not a relationship in the traditional sense of the word but more than shag n go. |
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By *UNKIEMan
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Interesting question...
I couldn't fuck someone I didn't have a connection with and if I've made a connection I'd almost certainly want to see them again. Definitely not a relationship in the traditional sense of the word but more than shag n go."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some of us aren't swingers and don't want to meet at all.
I think that's the beauty of this site, there's a place for everyone.
Everyone does things that work for them , there's no right or wrong. |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Interesting question...
I couldn't fuck someone I didn't have a connection with and if I've made a connection I'd almost certainly want to see them again. Definitely not a relationship in the traditional sense of the word but more than shag n go."
Isn’t shag n’go the new hair colour range from Wella  |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!"
I’d just call it convenient tbh, Too many labels |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!"
Surely still swinging even if they swing with the same person(S) and I would agree that they are all relationships to an extent as you are having ‘relations’ with someone even if only for 5 minutes including travelling time!!
You can also see someone regular without being exclusive, regular can help push boundaries as you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes more  |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Surely still swinging even if they swing with the same person(S) and I would agree that they are all relationships to an extent as you are having ‘relations’ with someone even if only for 5 minutes including travelling time!!
You can also see someone regular without being exclusive, regular can help push boundaries as you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes more "
Indeed, not get over here you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer a familiarity, I have nerves otherwise and, things get floppy
Never....had you down as "Boabie of Steel" "
Oh I am! I was speaking in the general sense, other less fortunate people, unlike myself  |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Surely still swinging even if they swing with the same person(S) and I would agree that they are all relationships to an extent as you are having ‘relations’ with someone even if only for 5 minutes including travelling time!!
You can also see someone regular without being exclusive, regular can help push boundaries as you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes more
Indeed, not get over here you "
You’re only saying that as you know I’m in my pjs already and would have to come that way |
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"I prefer a familiarity, I have nerves otherwise and, things get floppy
Never....had you down as "Boabie of Steel"
Oh I am! I was speaking in the general sense, other less fortunate people, unlike myself "
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"Swinging is a form of relationship as is a fuxk buddy it can be as casual as you like, but for most part it’s defo nicer to have sex with someone you would date in different circumstances, for the biggest majority of people great sex comes with patience trust and familiarity and is a lot more satisfying than a session with a random .
I agree here fun and sex with regular ppl is good, it gets better when you trust and learn each other’s niche, random is exciting also,but for me, finding someone that ticks all the boxes and you both play with each other and nobody else is a dream!!! "
I know where your coming from but your profile is of a single lady and when I was single that's what I was looking for and I found it.
But I'm thinking about couples are they looking for this one special person is that not there significant other? |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Surely still swinging even if they swing with the same person(S) and I would agree that they are all relationships to an extent as you are having ‘relations’ with someone even if only for 5 minutes including travelling time!!
You can also see someone regular without being exclusive, regular can help push boundaries as you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes more
Indeed, not get over here you
You’re only saying that as you know I’m in my pjs already and would have to come that way "
Leave the pjs, you know what I like |
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Surely still swinging even if they swing with the same person(S) and I would agree that they are all relationships to an extent as you are having ‘relations’ with someone even if only for 5 minutes including travelling time!!
You can also see someone regular without being exclusive, regular can help push boundaries as you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes more
Indeed, not get over here you
You’re only saying that as you know I’m in my pjs already and would have to come that way
Leave the pjs, you know what I like "
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"Some of us aren't swingers and don't want to meet at all.
I think that's the beauty of this site, there's a place for everyone.
Everyone does things that work for them , there's no right or wrong. "
I didn't say there was a right or wrong I just don't understand it so wanted to see what other people think |
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I much prefer to meet someone regularly as opposed to multiple people, but with the option of meeting others if we want to, whether seperately or together. It's nice to have that, discuss it and figure out what suits us both and what we want.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do regular 
Durty stop out."
and your point is caller? 
Of course iv met guys more than once if the sex is good but regular to me sounds too much like a relationship..fair enough if your single no harm but I'm not so wouldn't like there to be a cross over as such.once every few months does me fine lol I get the rest of my kicks at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had some messages and read on some profiles, people looking for one person or one couple to swing with on a regular basis.
Is this swinging or is it another relationship.
Discuss !!!!
Interesting question...
I couldn't fuck someone I didn't have a connection with and if I've made a connection I'd almost certainly want to see them again. Definitely not a relationship in the traditional sense of the word but more than shag n go."
Agree this is me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really fussed what it's called, its whatever suits me. I prefer meeting a regular person than different every time because I find the sex to be better the more you know someone "
Agree with this too. |
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We prefer to have more regular fun. We used to have one main guy we met with a few select guys we could use if needed. For us we prefer building up trust and can evolve further and try new things each time and everyone be on the same wavelength |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The larger the net you cast the more fish you’re likely to catch
Or on here perhaps crabs, gonorrhea, chlamydia etc the only true safe sex is no sex or monogamous sex, having a select group of regular friends reduces the risk somewhat, never finishes it but for a lot of people playing regularly brings trust and forbid anything to pop up on the results a regular friend is more like to pass said info on |
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"Swinging is a form of relationship as is a fuxk buddy it can be as casual as you like, but for most part it’s defo nicer to have sex with someone you would date in different circumstances, for the biggest majority of people great sex comes with patience trust and familiarity and is a lot more satisfying than a session with a random "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really fussed what it's called, its whatever suits me. I prefer meeting a regular person than different every time because I find the sex to be better the more you know someone "
Totally agree with this |
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"Swinging is a form of relationship as is a fuxk buddy it can be as casual as you like, but for most part it’s defo nicer to have sex with someone you would date in different circumstances, for the biggest majority of people great sex comes with patience trust and familiarity and is a lot more satisfying than a session with a random "
I second this view. Much rather meet 2 or 3 regulars than a host of one offs. |
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