"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x"
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know.  |
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. "
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know.
It's strange though,my mums best friend was black and preferred coloured,its more in how it is said than the simple label attached.
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know. "
Fuck ...everything is a slur these days you don't know what you can say or not from 1 day to the other ..however I believe it should be how n what context certain things are said ..some people are far to quick in jumping down people's throats for really no reason but that they want to be offended  |
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know.
Fuck ...everything is a slur these days you don't know what you can say or not from 1 day to the other ..however I believe it should be how n what context certain things are said ..some people are far to quick in jumping down people's throats for really no reason but that they want to be offended "
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge  "
Definitely. I once had to ask a policeman when he was taking a statement from me on which word was best to use. I was told “black” and therefore have used that since. People need to educate themselves on what is “politically correct” nowadays. Naivety and ignorance is not an excuse. |
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge "
Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x |
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x
I think a lot of people feel "coloured" is a slur these days; "person of colour" or simply "black" is more respectful. Just so you know.
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Away from the political correctness of it all, I've always just found the term "coloured" fucking stupid! We all have "a" colour.....it makes black people sound as though they're kicking about looking like a drawing the wean did in nursery with a blue face and orange feet. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge
Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x"
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"Pointing out something that is considered offensive isn't jumping down someones throat, it's just spreading knowledge
Hard to stay up to date with this knowledge at times. Not just with addressing people by their race or colour, just putting a friendly hand on someone's shoulder can be offensive these days as well. Sometimes feel it's all gone totally over the top x"
Okay but with this particular subject, it's been seen as an antiquated, offensive term for a long time, it's not been a recent thing. If it takes you longer to catch up than others then fair dos, but don't say people are jumping down your throat by politely educating you. The world has moved on and it will continue to do so, try to see it as a positive thing |
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I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject 
Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved
I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho |
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject
Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved
I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho "
Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. |
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There its off topic again i wasnt saying it was racist just that it seemed to be lol whats the difference between a black man and white man if they have the same build and size of dick its like going for a job and the white man gets picked 7 out of 10 times thats classed as racism i personnaly have nothing against it but i can see how it can be viewed as racist |
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject
Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved
I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho
Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. "
Erm you cant say ' female ' any longer . Apparantly. 
Before you ask , talk to the forum police and im sure they will explain all.  |
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the Difference is clearly skin colour but that doesn’t make it racist. Some people like big cocks some like small. Some people like beards some like shaven. Some like long hair some like short. My wife hates long hair and would never meet a guy with long hair but if he would go get a hair cut she would probably go for it if she liked him. Thing is on this site people can be very picky as it’s not a relationship most are looking for. Who’s to say it’s wrong it’s just choice |
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I didn't say it was wrong i said i understand people have preferences i have them aswell its just not skin colour i can see how it looks racist tho is all i was trying to put across not that the op or any other woman on here was a racist racism bigotry and prejudice is everywhere and its a sad fact of life why do we need to categorise everything rather than enjoy it |
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"I didn't say it was wrong i said i understand people have preferences i have them aswell its just not skin colour i can see how it looks racist tho is all i was trying to put across not that the op or any other woman on here was a racist racism bigotry and prejudice is everywhere and its a sad fact of life why do we need to categorise everything rather than enjoy it "
Well I don’t like pale skinned gingers as a rule but have over the years met one or two that broke the mould and were actually pretty hot ! But as a rule pale and pasty makes me think of dying and rotten corpses !! Too many Patricia Cromwell books perhaps lol |
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As for original post, I’ve been there done that and met a few men of various ethnicities over the years, and several different shades of colour and I must admit a really fit body in a much darker shade is very attractive but as far as BBC goes I’ve not particularly found it to be the case  I think like anything else you can’t tick all the boxes lol |
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Noone is saying that it's racist for white people to find black people attractive. That's not at all the issue here.
What -is- worth discussing is the underlying reasons when white people specify that they want a black sexual partner, because those fetishes are often rooted in the idea that there's something degrading about a white woman having sex with a black man, or the stereotype that black men are more brutal or animalistic.
RACEPLAY IS AN OKAY THING TO EXPLORE BETWEEN CONSENTING PARTNERS. But please take good care of everyone's emotional health and make sure you all know why you're doing what you're doing, and watch your own behaviour to ensure that it doesn't spill over into treating people of colour as disposable outside of those scenes. |
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By the same token, if a white person is refusing outright to consider anyone but other white people as sexual partners, they almost certainly need to do some soul-searching about why they have such narrow beauty standards. We're all products of the society in which we live, you know? |
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"So lately ive had a bit of a thong for bbc porn.
I'd like to meet and see how it goes with a dark skinned man... not alot in my area. So willing to travel after we've chatted a bit.
L x"
Said this to someone else today
Using the terminology coloured today is deemed offensive and racist
Black or African American is the appropriate language
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"Noone is saying that it's racist for white people to find black people attractive. That's not at all the issue here.
What -is- worth discussing is the underlying reasons when white people specify that they want a black sexual partner, because those fetishes are often rooted in the idea that there's something degrading about a white woman having sex with a black man, or the stereotype that black men are more brutal or animalistic.
RACEPLAY IS AN OKAY THING TO EXPLORE BETWEEN CONSENTING PARTNERS. But please take good care of everyone's emotional health and make sure you all know why you're doing what you're doing, and watch your own behaviour to ensure that it doesn't spill over into treating people of colour as disposable outside of those scenes. "
chill...most chicks want a black guy cause they think they are very well endowed...it's like a guy wanting to shag a porn star..just because they are perceived in a certain way...dosn't actually mean they are that way. |
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"Noone is saying that it's racist for white people to find black people attractive. That's not at all the issue here.
What -is- worth discussing is the underlying reasons when white people specify that they want a black sexual partner, because those fetishes are often rooted in the idea that there's something degrading about a white woman having sex with a black man, or the stereotype that black men are more brutal or animalistic.
RACEPLAY IS AN OKAY THING TO EXPLORE BETWEEN CONSENTING PARTNERS. But please take good care of everyone's emotional health and make sure you all know why you're doing what you're doing, and watch your own behaviour to ensure that it doesn't spill over into treating people of colour as disposable outside of those scenes. chill...most chicks want a black guy cause they think they are very well endowed...it's like a guy wanting to shag a porn star..just because they are perceived in a certain way...dosn't actually mean they are that way."
For me it would be the contrasting skin colours that would attract me since I am so white (apart from the freckles ) Just never met someone of darker skin I am particularly attracted to however that would all change if Idris Elba was in the bar!! |
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By *olly90 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject
Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved
I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho "
Nothing rascist at all with what I posted. Like someone said it's a very pc world.
I simply stated that I've been watching alot of bbc porn so I'd like to try it out. Some of u might wanna give me my head back I wasn't trying to be offensive at all get a grip |
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By *olly90 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like how these forums go off topic and onto a completely new subject
Although i do think it is a little racist when a woman specifies that she only wants black men i get that people have preferences it just seems as if theres an element of racism involved
I like women of all shapes and sizes i have my preferences nothing to do with colour tho
Get a grip, This is what’s wrong with the world. How can someone’s personal preferences be classed as racist. Some people prefer chubby some prefer thin. Some like male some like female. Basically what your saying is it is a bit sexist that a lesbian only prefers women and not men. It’s exactly the same just a different base. "
Thank you x |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"What about brown lol
Quite happy with brown. Like I 've said I'm not fascist in any way shape or form. Just fancy giving it a go. Not alot of black brown or any other in my area. "
Do I get classed as coloured if I’m out in the sun too long and get a nice red shade going.
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By *olly90 OP Woman
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"What about brown lol
Quite happy with brown. Like I 've said I'm not fascist in any way shape or form. Just fancy giving it a go. Not alot of black brown or any other in my area.
Do I get classed as coloured if I’m out in the sun too long and get a nice red shade going.
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Oooh I wouldn't rule it out. I am pastel white on the bottom half and a nice brown on top. Kinda like a fab lolly without the sprinkles lol x |
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